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HarrisonsMommy

Jealous...

by HarrisonsMommyComment Published at 06:3106:314 comments4 comments35 Visits35 VisitsReport

As happy as I am for all of the pregnant mums and those who have just had or are getting ready to have their babies, I am terribly jealous.  That should be me!!!  It is over a year ago that we started trying to get pregnant again.  I should have a baby now. 

I would never say anything negative towards anyone.  I have kept these thoughts to myself, but with the influx in labour and newborns, it is getting to me...

I just want to be pregnant.  I want another baby. 

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Arna
July 19th | Arna
Re: Jealous...

Like Dannii said, not supposed to be in this group, but had to reply to you somehow!

While I have a large family now, I was facing the possibility of being childless.  My first 4 pregnancies ended in miscarriage, and my body just wasn't coping with life in general.

It is ok for you to feel this way.  I don't expect you to feel any other way, because I have what you want and it isn't fair.  The world isn't fair, but if it were, would anyone be truly happy?

It will happen for you, especially if you relax about it and keep being positive.  I'll send you our couch if you like, seems to be a bit on the magical side as far as babies go! lol

Hun, even if you were to be standing in front of me telling me how much you hated me for having what I have, I'd understand, and I would also know that you don't mean it, it is just your pain and frustration being taken out on the one who has what you don't.

No matter what, I will offer whatever support you need, even cop a vent letter if you need to because I know how painful life can be.

Thinking of you and keeping my fingers crossed that it will soon be your turn.



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      HarrisonsMommy
July 21st | HarrisonsMommy
Re: Jealous...

Thank you Arna,

But I truely don't feel bad for anyone but myself.  No ill will towards those who are so lucky to become pregnant.

Thanks for understanding-Angela



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dannii17
July 16th | dannii17
Re: Jealous...

I know im not meaant to be in this group but i had to reply to yu. Im sorry about how you feel and i wish you all the best with becoming pregnant and ihope you do soon.

I myself am jelous of everyone else who is having there baby beofre me. Ive been in pain for 5weeks now yet there are some people having there babies early. Although im happy that everyone has there babies and they arrived safetly, it does hurt that im still here in pain, so im jelous too.



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      HarrisonsMommy
July 17th | HarrisonsMommy
Re: Jealous...

Thanks Dannii!



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