Maybe I shouldn't be on this group because no longer tcc but.....I totally understand. Had my 1st boy @ 28 yo - but only after 8 miscarriages in 6 years, all of them around week 10. So finally I had a baby and we was gorgeous.
TTC again but it just didn't happen. Years passed and we kept trying; nothing nothing nothing. Went through complete IVF program 3 times but my eggs were suffering the destruction of an aging body. We stopped trying - too stressful and upsetting.
Several months went by and we had totally accepted there would be no more babies so we went away to the whitsunday islands in qld australia and drank champagne on poolside chairs for 2 weeks. 4 weeks after we got back home I realised I had missed a period - I thought I had gone menopausal - guess what - at 42 yo God blessed us with another blue eyed, blonde haired perfect baby boy.
I share this with you because I believe that it was NOT trying but learning to relax and just enjoy the love and company of my husband that brought our son to us........but maybe it was because the holiday was an anniversary treat and I wouldn't let hubby have sex with me or himself for a whole month - I wanted to bring some really hot desire back to our marriage - not just the usual old thing - so who knows, that might have helped too. |