Trying To Conceive

well iam still trying for a baby i lost one as some of you know in march 25th then i had my curet in  april and ive had my first period in may 8th but i ahve no clue when i ovulated becuase my periods are not normal and ive done a chart and they varie from 20 days to 60-70 days between and the longest so far in the past 4 years has been 280 without a period .which is a long time but iam crossing my fingers .i took a pregnancy test 2 weeks ago adn it was negative then again last week but ill be getting another this saturday adn test myself each week until i get a possitive and i ahve to get some ovualtion tests.i really want a baby more than ever .all my kids are growing so fast my oldest is to busy with casdets and school ,my daughter andother 2 sons are busy with playing and dont really need me anymore ,abi is almost 20 mths and she only ocmes to me for fod or nappy change or the odd cuddle she rather hang with her siblings ..they grow up to fast .

hi all iam a mum of 5 and i was pregnant with my 5th  until i had a curet yesterday as it passed away,and yesterday after my curet i was given voltaren also know as diclofenac and after reading instructions it satates that it can cause infertility.so i did not take it so beware /

Hi my name is Kim and I am a proud single working mom by choice not chance.I have two beautiful children and will be trying for my third and my last in about three weeks (mid/late Feb).I look foward to getting to know some of the ladies here.

 

Maybe I shouldn't be on this group because no longer tcc but.....I totally understand.  Had my 1st boy @ 28 yo - but only after 8 miscarriages in 6 years, all of them around week 10.  So finally I had a baby and we was gorgeous. 

TTC again but it just didn't happen.  Years passed and we kept trying; nothing nothing nothing.  Went through complete IVF program 3 times but my eggs were suffering the destruction of an aging body.  We stopped trying - too stressful and upsetting. 

Several months went by and we had totally accepted there would be no more babies so we went away to the whitsunday islands in qld australia and drank champagne on poolside chairs for 2 weeks.  4 weeks after we got back home I realised I had missed a period - I thought I had gone menopausal - guess what - at 42 yo God blessed us with another blue eyed, blonde haired perfect baby boy. 

I share this with you because I believe that it was NOT trying but learning to relax and just enjoy the love and company of my husband that brought our son to us........but maybe it was because the holiday was an anniversary treat and I wouldn't let hubby have sex with me or himself for a whole month - I wanted to bring some really hot desire back to our marriage - not just the usual old thing - so who knows, that might have helped too.

this is beyound the jock.i got urine ovulation testers and since december 21 when i got my period last i have been testing every day .it seems time is going in slow motion.

i read that some women dont ovulate even when they have periods i shore hope that not my case .i guess il have to keep testing till the end of the mth and hope for the best .does anyone know of ways to make the sperm more stronger ?

i finally got it .

3 days before xmas i got my period and still have it.

it was so heavy i had to change every 30 minutes to 1 hour and after 24 hours i had to wear nappys cause it filled the pads to fast.but its almost finished now thank goodness .fingers crossed now

iam still not pregnant and i cant understand why ?i tried the diet,the walking and my period still hasnr treturned and all my friends are getting pregnant iam  depressed :(

i have now been waitin since september 7th which was the first day of my last period which ended on september 19th  so it went for a while ,ive had a few craps but no bleeding . this has been happening for 6 mths now and iam getting frustrated my period comes and goes when ever it decided to do so .usually its between 40 day cycle if iam lucky .

i ahve tried ovulation stips which helped me conceive my last daughter butit was pure luck as i was having periods every 30 days back then ,so i went to the doctors and they did blodd tests my sugar levels were a little high  at times ,but i just had breakfast wehn i did the test to.

iam 100 kg but i conceive one of my kids at 130 kg and all i did was lose 5 kg and i got pregnant.then i tried thhat this time around after i got home from the ultrasound place and i got the ok that i had no cysts and my lining was think i got myself wakingthe dog and eating no sweets or junk and ate less at meals adn no coffee and coke ,and my period still did not return and i got dizzy spells from going cold turkey on sugar and i felt sick .

what a waste of time that was .

i was never a big eater in the first place so my bosy couldent cope so i still walk but bugge giving up my choc a day or when i need it .

doc wanted me to eat 5 times a day but i feel yuck if i do so iam sticking to 2 times a day as thats what my body can coke with .i drink only 2 glasses of coke a day if that and i dont have coffee.

i ahve "sex daily or every second day " dont make any diference,and 2 days ago i got some bleeding but it did not go on the pad,it was only when i wiped myself so i dont know if that was considered period or bleeding from sex .

its was light pink almost invisible not even enought to fill a spoon and it was also brown at times,and i had brown blood before as i was told it was old blood but it wasent enougth to get excitted about .

then today it stopped :( i bought myselfa saliva ovulation thing which iam waiting for in the mail hope its easy to use .

but without a period i cant ovulate i dont think,i still see sometimes white dischage but its hard to work out whats what?

my baldder is week at times so knowing if i ahve ovualted its impossible ,and the charts they offer on the net they are hard to read without a period or a normal cycle.

Hi all i currently TTC # 3 and im going to try my luck at TTC a girl ( i have two boys aged 5 and 23 months)

Im trying every second day and stopping 3 days before Ovulation. Im also taking cranberry tables, and calcium which it supose to help. Trying to stay away for coffee (yes this one is hard ) My cycle goes from 27 to 32 days so ive been useing Maybe Baby and OPK`s and well as charting on Fertility Friend website !!!! And yes its hard work but im willing to try anything!!!!

Anyone else TTC and want to share your tips

i doesnt seem like im ovulating, i have had no sticky icky discharge, i was only ment to be ovulating yesterday ish but i havent even had an increase of discharge, only once wen i went to the loo last thursday, and that was only one toilet stop, grrrr. Im on clomid, and its not working.

i will test in two weeks, but im fairly sure i havent ovulated. its so frustrating. Im devastated at the possibilty of not having any more babies. i wasnt prepared for that.

i met up with an old school friend and we chatted and we talk about having more babies, and she said she wouldnt have anymore and i told her i had been trying. then she avoided me for a week and a half (we were ment to meet for coffee) and she finally admitted she was pregnant and felt really stink. then i felt stink she felt stink.im so genuinely happy for everyone,

it just seems that everyone is pregnant! except me! Its not fair!i feel like throwing myslf on the floor having a massive tanty!

anyway thats my rant