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ph419always

If you could change one thing.....

by ph419alwaysComment Published at 07:0807:0810 comments10 comments41 Visits41 VisitsReport

If you could change one thing FOR your partner (or kids if your single), what would it be? (yes For you partner - not about your parnter lol).

Mine would be to take away all the bad thoughts about himself, and his poor self image/self esteem, and replace it with thoughts that he is loved, accepted and okay just the way he is. That he doesn't have to think the worst of others because he is paranoid that they think the worst of him.

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DarkenedAngel
May 15th | DarkenedAngel
Re: If you could change one thing.....

I would be to get his health back to top notch perfect condition for him in every way possible. He's not in a good way atm, poor bugger, and I know that his physical condition does bother him a bit even when he's not sick and injured. Pity we can't all stay young in body and just evolve the mind eh!



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simplyme01ca
May 10th | simplyme01ca
Re: If you could change one thing.....

I would remove the stress that husbands feels...he stresses about the little things and I would love for him to understand that he doesn't have to do that...He is in so much pain all the time...I would love to be able to take that away for him...we pray that he can get the disc replacement surgery for his back soon...then maybe he will be able to stop the stressing over the small stuff too...



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franni
May 7th | franni
Re: If you could change one thing.....

i would say i would want him to commit ! and for the kids i would say to be quiet more lmao so mummy can have at least one mins peace....



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Arna
May 6th | Arna
Re: If you could change one thing.....

I would change the age gap between us.  Not because I think He's too old, but because he is suffering more from aches and pains.  Also, I'd have loved to have seen him with the long hair he had in his 20's! lol.

Making him born around the same year as me would mean he'd have never had his son so not all good, but would also mean he wouldn't have had to go through some of the horrors he has been through.

And, we wouldn't get all those disapproving looks and remarks from people who think I'm too young for him! lol.  If you averaged out our years (average would be 40) then that's the mental age we are both at.



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2BeautifulGirls
May 6th | 2BeautifulGirls
Re: If you could change one thing.....

Well, that's a bit of a thinking question isn't it.....

I would definately give him a set of loving and caring parents, he has a father that doesn't care about anybody but himself and a mother who only calls when she wants something.  I think he looks at my parents sometimes and wishes he had a set like them.  I might even go one step further and give him some siblings that want to spend time with him, not just when they want something.....I see a theme happening here......LOL



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Libby24
May 6th | Libby24
Re: If you could change one thing.....

i wish that chris would have a knock at the door and someone be there from  tool machining and offer him a permanate job. it is his dream job and he is so dam good at it. i know he would love it and be happy. (not that he isnt happy now)

I feel for you sweet cause i know how B is.



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kseers
May 6th | kseers
Re: If you could change one thing.....

I'd love my man to find his purpose - to find that job that uses his personality and his skills to their best - to find what he is meant to be.  Then he would enjoy his work and have more passion in life.



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lillkatheryn
May 6th | lillkatheryn
Re: If you could change one thing.....

I would have to say his worries about the bakery not being succesful and that his babies do love him very much.  They are always wanting to be with me, and my girl gets really mad at him, but only cause she does not understand why we works so much. 



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superpo
May 6th | superpo
Re: If you could change one thing.....

I would definitely find my husband a better job. The one he has is okay, but it doesn't pay squat. He's overworked and underpaid, and I feel bad for him.



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kathryn-solaris
May 6th | kathryn-solaris
Re: If you could change one thing.....

mine would be to find Kiall a job that he could enjoy again. he misses work but is so sick of retail. want to get him into something totally cool so he doesn't worry so much about having no money and being annoyed at rude people all day. reckon he would be happy as ants at a picnic then ::)'s -becca!



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