I have been trying to be polite aand sometimes let the reams of 'advice' wash over me - but I will draw the line at friends telling me what they would do, what I should do and what is right when they have no children at all. Please - how the hell would they know and how can they be sure of what they would do unless in that situation? It is always so much easier from the outside, more objective. However, when you are so involved sometimes it is difficult to see and you feel so much because it is your child.
I have a number of friends who have told me how they are going to do things and I really just want to say - you wait till you have children then see how easy it all is.
I have had someone say that all you do is stay at home and look after a babay - daytime TV must be great! I'm lucky if I manage to clean my teeth before lunch time, bloody daytime tv indeed!
Before people say anything they should walk a mile in the other persons shoes. GGGrrrrrrr! |