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Mar
2007
kseers

Discipline

by kseersComment Published at 14:1814:183 comments3 comments48 Visits48 VisitsReport
I am having a few issues with discipline at the moment and I would like some feedback from other AP mums.  I don't believe in smacking and I am trying to avoid time outs, but my son keeps pushing it until we end up in a battle of wills.  Not what I want at all!  He is very strong willed and independent and has to do things his way.  I am trying to use natural consequences as he seems to change his bheaviour if he understands why he shouldn't do something.  This is a challenge though as it means thinking on the spot and understanding how he sees things to work out what consequence is going to matter to him.  Any suggestions anyone?

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MagicMummy
July 20th | MagicMummy
Re: Discipline

Yep! This is the one time that I do have a fantastic suggestion. There is a wonderful book you can get called; Young Children's Behavior by Louise Porter. It's an absolute gem, it gives you no nonsense, non judgmental ways to parent your child using a Democratic Discipline approach. It's very very cool! When my youngest was born we did the parenting effectiveness Course which was after the same style a direct derivative of The Triple P Parenting Program. After reading the book i sent a txt to every parent I know and since then several have read it with some great success. My kids were grateful that I read it as well.

Don't stress - you can do it! may the force be with you! (lol)



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Izzy
May 2007 | Izzy
natural consequnce

I think it's great to try giving consequences. For example, when my son throws toys at the dogs, or me, I warn him that it hurts me and if he does it again, I will take the toy away. So the next time he does the same thing, I just put the toy away.

 



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mcm
April 2007 | mcm
Discipline
It can be a challenge.
I do use time out. Depending on the age. I have just started with my big boy. Heis just turned 4 so 4 minutes. My girl is 7 so 7 minutes. Sometimes it helps just to say "Go to your room for x mins" and it allows me to calm down and the child to have  a think and to start again.


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