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Living in this family will never be boring thats for sure! staying at Mick's for the weekend he lives with his mum, dad and little sister (well not so little 18 in a few weeks  i keep thinking she's still only 16!) sound asleep last night got woken up to Mick's phone going off at 1.30ish- Luisa was at a girlfriends place drinking and she drank to much needed to be picked up as they couldnt deal with her anymore so Mick jumped in WRXY and drove 20mins to get her and he got there to find her jeans and panties round her ankles in their front yard screaming and punching things up Mick got her pants up and into the car then she turned on him and kept asking if she could drive the WREXY and to let her out so she can walk somewhere when he kept telling her no she punched the laminated windscreen, its cracked and shattered so bad her hand is busted up apparently, and kept on taking swings at poor Mick while he was driving he got home about 45mins later instead of the 20 it took for him to get there.

I woke up to screaming, i crept to our ensuit bathroom and cracked the window open- Luisa tried to get down the driveway and over a pile of rubbish and furniture we want to get rid of and, in mick's words- got over it like a seal and crashed over the other side then got up and threw the rubbish everywhere and all over the yard  Mick's dad had to sit on her cause she was so violent no one could understand a word she was saying inbetween the vomiting and swearing i dont think she even knew she was so angry!

Luisa was at a girlfriends home with the gfs partner im not sure if their three yr old was there- i hope not. But Mrs H thinks that because Kiel (Luisa's ex-partner who is Halle's dad and is a very shady person to say the least) introduced Luisa to these ppl that they must have spiked her drink because she never acts like this when she drinks! I can understand drink spiking at parties but at a house with two other ppl why would that happen?? Luisa's known them for 4 years then if Kiel introduced them so if she feels comfortable with them to drink with them then youd think youd know that they weren't the drink spiking sort of ppl- is that just me that thinks that? Went round to Maria's today and told her about the latest dramas and she said it sounds like that was more than just alcohol, Luisa is a drinker and is out most weekends when Kiel has Halle and Kiel told his mum a while ago that Luisa looks like an ice user now i dont know much about ice except u get sores and it makes u look old fast and you get really agressive, kiel didnt tell anyone else about it except his mum so he didnt say it to get everyone wiled up or to cause trouble which makes me think maybe its true i know she has taken speed before and that was the ONLY time her house has ever been spotless lol

i know its none of my business what she does but its a bit scary if she acts like that and is taking ice im a bit uneasy about having our future little Micks and Melissa's around her

And when she got up this morning she just laughed it off! Said she couldnt remember any off it and acted like to was no big deal grrr! Mrs H was up all morning disinfecting and doing the sheets because she threw up in the granny flat, that annoyed me the most acting like it was no big deal not even a sorry! Whether she does drugs or not is her own choice she wants to waste money on a temporary high she can but id prefer it if she didnt drag everyone else into it.- eww just found her bra on the backseat

I love this family but Luisa gets on my nerves i try to ignore her antics but she's a mother and she acts like this- i guess its even more of a sore spot for me but thats my fault

i feel so much better for venting i know there's nothing i can do about it i just need to get it out thankyou for listening!

HI all.......

This is the situation i will tell you then please tell me what you would all do in my situation...

A mth ago my husband and his brother had a fight and i mean a punch up? by BIL came off second best,my husband started it....

My sil and i went to a pub and the boys went to another pub anyway i had enough so i went back to my SIL house and there was my 2 BIL i asked where my husband was and they said he is fucked he bashed his cousin(which he didnt,he never touched him).they were both on there mobiles(obviously shitting themselves)anyway i walked out the front of the house to have a smoke and here comes my husband running up driveway mad and i mean possesed mad. he walked in there punching 1 paticular brother in law(not at one minute did i stick up for my husband infact i was hitting him to stop)anyway i grabed the house phone to ring my inlaws to come around.my BIL walked in yelled for the phone ripped it out of my hands and pushed me yes fkn pushed me.i stormed out of the house around to the inlaws,went and picked up my SIL from pub told her what was going on she is like dont worry its not your fault you did nothing blaa blaa we got to her house her husband(BIL) came out pushed me told me to f off told me that i am fucked my husband is fucked and my KIDS are fucked i got into my car and drove trying to find my husband.he had been picked up by cops and taken to his mums house.(As i said i do not for one second take my husbands side)infact the cops wanted to take the Bil he was worse....

Right now this is what my husband said happened.they were out,BIL went to drive off(drunk and i mean drunk. My husband tried to grab the keys failed he drove off crashed into rail.Left my husband at the club he had to run home 10km(so he had alot of thinking to do...Now i reckon there is more to the story as my husband does not go around bashing people and expecially his brother and he was not pissed(i thought maybe his drink was spiked)..My husband spent the next week writing messages telling his brother he loves him he is sorry(20+ times)his brother rang within first week asking what the fuck happened as he dosnt remember, husband tells him apologises again,sobs on phone. Now my BIL told my SIL she is to have nothing to do with me and my children(what did we do). I rang her up 2 weeks later told her to grow up we had nothing to do with it had a short chat and then nothing dont hear from her...she is on net as i am writing this and has been on for an hour and not even a hello.

I feel like telling her where to go as i am being treated like shit and my kids her daughter and my son are only 6mths apart they are best friends he asks for her everyday...but they are not allowed to see each other....why should i wait until her husband says its ok you can talk to bianca today get stuffed i dont want to and i feel like sending her an email and telling her what i think they all no its between my husband and his brother no one else but me and my children have to suffer...

What would all of you do?

please help tassie

My bf reckons his parents dont hate me but they keep wanting me to call them mum and dad and i refuse because i don't know them that well.

My mother in-law keeps trying to tell me how to raise my child and when my bf isnt around his dad ignores me and cause my bf doesnt see it he says that im over reacting cause his dad is really nice to me etc.

and whats worse is i cant just not see them because they are my bf's bosses and i just wish they would but out of my life cause half the time they ar trying to tell me how to manage our own bills.

and wats even worse is i dont have my family near me to get advice from as my parents moved away a few years ago so i can't turn to them for advice and then my bf gets annoyed at me if i mention to my parents wat is happening with his parents

my bfs family are so messed up.his bro and his gf r junkies and his dad an aloholic..we went there tonight and the brother took the dads car and didnt cum back for 8 hours.the dad spends his monay on drugs for the brother and he had no food so i felt sorry for him and we went n got pizza for him,cum bak and the bro and gf r bak.they are askingme wat im calling the baby and the dad starts yelling oh its our religion for the godparents to name the baby and the godparents have to be the same ones as my bfs.yeah right as if im guna have pl i dnt kno and even if i did no them name my kid,i dnt think so.his gunna crack it wen he finds out its gunna be catholic not orthodox.god thats not my religion and im growing this baby,im looking after t inside me not them.then the brother is saying his gonna take my kid out.as fucking if,i dnt want anyof them near my baby,there all diseased..man they do my head in i cant stand them,i wish they wud all fuck off...grrrrrrrrr..sorry for the language but im pissed off..cant they live there own life and stop trying to rule mine.i wudnt even trust them to feed my fish let alone be left alone with my child.god first they were angry that we aint married.my bfs mother past away just over a year ago and his dad has already slept with every bitch he sees and in his wifes bed. ok im gonna stop now need to go2 bed and im working myself up.

Got up this morning early as i had a early night.. and mick and i were chatting away about how i was and stuff,.,... Then i asked how his mum was, and he said she was good.. Well then he said she came up with this idea that she is wants to go to melbourne to see her youngest son, and would mick like to go as well... But get this she wants to go after caitlyns bday, and the weekend of my little sisters wedding... I told him no way, and his mother knows that i have a wedding to go too, and he reckons it was a thought, and im overreacting.... Tell me am I... as im about to tell my inlaws soon, that they pushing me over the edge.....

take care
love cazza

Every time I see my family (in laws or not) and friends they are all asking when we are going to try for another baby. I'm like how about never!? I mean I love my baby but she is only 9 months old and I have severe depression and self esteem issues from being pregnant (fat). And recovering from my c-section was AWFUL. I just don't know if I want to repeat it all so soon, or at all. I got one beautiful, sweet, precious, baby girl out of it and I think that is enough. So stop asking me all the time. You have one grandkid!

My sister-in-law and father-in-law are constantly telling me about how my husband has a weight problem and could stand to lose a few pounds. My husband is 230 lbs and is 6'3'', so he is only about 10 pounds overweight for his height. I just wish they would stop telling me this (and saying I need to MAKE him eat better and fix healthier meals). It is hurtful to him when he hears this and it hurts me too.

I am having problems with my sister in law just dont want to deal with it anymore and its breaking our marriage apart, ever since i been with my husband she just try to break us up or she saids the most hurtful things and lied about things i never said, she is 26 and just broke up with her husband and just got 3 kids and is going out with my husband best friend who has turn againest me because of her, its like everything i say she turns in to a bad fight, or lies about what i say, and if i say things she doesnt want to hear she gets the shits, i just cant cope with it anymore what should i do, does she need help or she just spoilt little child??

My mother in law works at the bank we use, and she is always looking at our account calling my husband if she doesn't "approve" of how we spend our money. It makes me CRAZY! I can't stand it. We have a new account at a new bank, I am just waiting for the direct deposit to be effective  for the new account. She treats my husband like he is a baby. He went out of town for a week, when he got home he was tired so we just relaxed, well his sister and mom called saying well I guess you got home ok. No he died in a plane crash, I wanted to say, its nuts. He is married dont' they think I would call if something bad did happen? I know we are young parents (23 and 22) but they need to let go. His mom NEVER calls me about the bank account b/c she knows if she did I would freak out and never speak to her again.

I love that we have family to watch our baby, but sometimes I would just rather not fool with it. Last night my mother and father-in-law took our baby for 2 hours, and were just supposed to play with her and feed her baby food. We were coming back by 6:30 to put her to bed at 7. So we come home and they are putting her to bed. I normally wouldn't care, but my husband is going out of town for a week and was really looking forward to getting to give her a bath and feed her the bottle. I wish they would have just CALLED us. They said she was very sleepy about 6:15, we were only a few minutes away. I HATE how they don't listen, and treat me like I'm stupid. Even if you don't agree with my parenting tactics, she is still my baby, I think we are only going to leave her with my sister for now on.