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Apr
tassiebiarch

I NEED SOME SERIOUS ADVICE PLEASE EVERYONE

by tassiebiarchComment Published at 17:0317:033 comments3 comments75 Visits75 VisitsReport

HI all.......

This is the situation i will tell you then please tell me what you would all do in my situation...

A mth ago my husband and his brother had a fight and i mean a punch up? by BIL came off second best,my husband started it....

My sil and i went to a pub and the boys went to another pub anyway i had enough so i went back to my SIL house and there was my 2 BIL i asked where my husband was and they said he is fucked he bashed his cousin(which he didnt,he never touched him).they were both on there mobiles(obviously shitting themselves)anyway i walked out the front of the house to have a smoke and here comes my husband running up driveway mad and i mean possesed mad. he walked in there punching 1 paticular brother in law(not at one minute did i stick up for my husband infact i was hitting him to stop)anyway i grabed the house phone to ring my inlaws to come around.my BIL walked in yelled for the phone ripped it out of my hands and pushed me yes fkn pushed me.i stormed out of the house around to the inlaws,went and picked up my SIL from pub told her what was going on she is like dont worry its not your fault you did nothing blaa blaa we got to her house her husband(BIL) came out pushed me told me to f off told me that i am fucked my husband is fucked and my KIDS are fucked i got into my car and drove trying to find my husband.he had been picked up by cops and taken to his mums house.(As i said i do not for one second take my husbands side)infact the cops wanted to take the Bil he was worse....

Right now this is what my husband said happened.they were out,BIL went to drive off(drunk and i mean drunk. My husband tried to grab the keys failed he drove off crashed into rail.Left my husband at the club he had to run home 10km(so he had alot of thinking to do...Now i reckon there is more to the story as my husband does not go around bashing people and expecially his brother and he was not pissed(i thought maybe his drink was spiked)..My husband spent the next week writing messages telling his brother he loves him he is sorry(20+ times)his brother rang within first week asking what the fuck happened as he dosnt remember, husband tells him apologises again,sobs on phone. Now my BIL told my SIL she is to have nothing to do with me and my children(what did we do). I rang her up 2 weeks later told her to grow up we had nothing to do with it had a short chat and then nothing dont hear from her...she is on net as i am writing this and has been on for an hour and not even a hello.

I feel like telling her where to go as i am being treated like shit and my kids her daughter and my son are only 6mths apart they are best friends he asks for her everyday...but they are not allowed to see each other....why should i wait until her husband says its ok you can talk to bianca today get stuffed i dont want to and i feel like sending her an email and telling her what i think they all no its between my husband and his brother no one else but me and my children have to suffer...

What would all of you do?

please help tassie

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electrifying02
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | electrifying02
Re: I NEED SOME SERIOUS ADVICE PLEASE EVERYONE

hello

i think there has to be more to your story your hubby or bil arnt telling you

i agree with cham maybe wait till the dust blows over

belxxxx



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electrifying02
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | electrifying02
Re: I NEED SOME SERIOUS ADVICE PLEASE EVERYONE

hello

i think there has to be more to your story your hubby or bil arnt telling you

i agree with cham maybe wait till the dust blows over

belxxxx



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mum2four
5.00 (Excellent) | April 16th | mum2four
Re: I NEED SOME SERIOUS ADVICE PLEASE EVERYONE

Hi there,I think there is obviously something here that you are not being told by your husband maybe.I am not talking to my sister at the moment as she said something to me very hurtful nearly 3 weeks ago,we usually speak a few times a week on the phone,but I am just waiting for her to ring me when the dust has settled a bit,it hurts me not to talk to her but her comment was also very hurtful.Maybe just ride it out for a little longer and I hope things will be sorted.i think most of the time brothers and sisters do come round well I hope so for you and your childrens sake.

                                                Cham



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