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2007
jd2

hi new here...but need tips

by jd2Comment Published at 05:5505:552 comments2 comments63 Visits63 VisitsReport

hi all i think alot ofyou know i had three mc's well after 1st we tried for 6 mnths nothing and then stopped due to buying house etc decided to wait plus getting very stressed so needed the break then the 2 pregnancys ater i got caught within 1st mnth again they were lost then mac well i knew the morning after as soon as i stood up and i put money on it, well the point eve decided lets try again last mnnth was rather upsetting i had a very heavy bleed nothing like that since b4 mac, i refused the tests just cant bear to go there again so tryed again this mnth nope ive always believed that were most fertile2 wks after a period so go fo it then, is this true? and is there a time when u can get caught but chances of lossing are higher? I know that sounds a bit weird but i really want akll mi kids close together after a c section was mortified at having to wait still sooner than doc's want now but 10mnths im 25 so...if was ova30 they'd recomend now so im thinking well im surely fitter now???

Any opinions plz links anything just to tk my mind of all the little niggle's I relises 2 mnths is no time at all to be trying, ih also recently my cycle differ's will this effect the best time to concieve?

Thanks in advance sorry its babbled just getting it all out..jo xxx 

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dramamom
July 2007 | dramamom
Re: hi new here...but need tips
I haven't had the difficulty you have, but after conceiving our daughter right off the pill, when things didn't go so smoothly the second time, I tried out a website that someone here suggested.  It helps chart your temperature and helps you understand when you are ovulating, as no woman is exactly the same.  It took us less than a month of charting and we are expecting in September.  Here's the site.  I hope it helps you out.  I will definitely use it immediately if we decide to have another child.


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kseers
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | kseers
Re: hi new here...but need tips
Hi! So sorry to hear about your losses - I had 2 m/c before my son and then 18mths of trying before concieving again.  I must have conceived to the day 2 years later than the first m/c and was convinced everything would go wrong but it didn't.  No2 was very different.  I conceived straight away and the pregnancy went well, so a rough history doesn't mean that it will happen that way again.

Anyway, cycles are different - you can buy tests to make sure.  I only worked out later that, though a 28 day cycle, I ovulated late in the month - not at 14 days.  So you can't assume, but it is the easiest way to guestimate.  Hope that helps!


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