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breezy27

Biting

by breezy27Comment Published at 04:1904:1911 comments11 comments55 Visits55 VisitsReport
Does anyone have any ideas on how i can get my 16mth old son to stop biting? He only seems to do it when his teeth are coming through, but he bites pretty hard and has even drawn blood through clothing. any suggestions?
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MadMel
December 2006 | MadMel
Biting Back
I have a 2 1/2 and a 1 1/2 year old. They both bit. Once. I bit them back. Not really hard but enough for it to hurt. Never bit again.


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madchanny
November 2006 | madchanny
my son aswell

i tried everything i just have to learn to ignore him when he is so naughty, he even bites himself sometimes.



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hermy
November 2006 | hermy
biting

i olso agree that its all about consistancy .......



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domesticgodess
November 2006 | domesticgodess
biting back and the No syndrome

My 17mth thankfully doesnt bite much now, she mostley bite when her teeth where coming so i would just say a firm No thats not nice, but i also have tried the biting back and it did work with some of my children because they realised that biting hurt after they got bit back so i would say try what is best for you either way helps, My hubby used to put our oldest granddaughter in a corner for a few minutes with no attention of either family member  , out of harms way but she was able to be seen and soon realised that when she bit at Nanas and Poppys thats what would happen but she mostly bit out of frustration eg when loosing a toy etc with other kids around.. hope it all works out for you.

 



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babysmartsdad
October 2006 | babysmartsdad
Izzy's right.
At so young an age, they don't understand firm NOs, because they are still practically like game. The only thing you can take away from them that they will immediately recognize is attention.

Place them down. Turn away from them. Ignore them for a bit. They'll understand that biting leads to no attention.

They might test the theory a couple of times, but that's just experimenting with the world.  They'll get the connection soon enough.


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      Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | November 2006 | Izzy
Izzy's right.
I agree with you, that children may test the theory a few times but if we, as parents, are consistent.. it works.


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           agentstirling
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | agentstirling
Izzy's right.
yes, i agree as well...


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Izzy
August 2006 | Izzy
"Time-out"

I have a 16 month old too and thankfully he doesn't bite, though he did a few times. What I did was to put him down and to walk away from him. I showed him that if he was to bite me or anyone else, whatever "closeness" we have was going to have to stop. If I was holding him, I told him no biting and put him on the floor and I stood several fee away from him with my back turned. I only did this for a minute and then we went back to whatever we were doing.

You may also want to try exagerrating your hurt by crying for a couple of seconds while your back is turned.



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kelly85
August 2006 | kelly85
no biting back
i dont think biting back works its like if you smack a child they turn around and smack you back cause they think its a game. i think your better off just saying a firm NO and exsplain that bitting hurts and its bad over time this should work.


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gr8est
August 2006 | gr8est
rusks
Bite him back... I was in the tub with my brother (when we were kids) whom for no reason bit me, I was very upset and bit him back as hard as possible He began screming and yelling for mum who came running asking what had happend when i explained and showed her my rapidly fading bite marks and his shoulder with indented bite marks, she left us to sort it out. Honestly after that incident he never bit anyone again maybe afraid they could bite harder or maybe he knew how it felt but he lernt. If you don't want to bite bubby perhaps he will grow out of it or give him rusks to bite my bubby loves them he's 9mths and before having teeth even during teething he never touched them but now he won't let go of a rusk.


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      Tazzette
January 2007 | Tazzette
rusks

I agree.

Apparently when I was little I used to bite my younger brother until my older sister who saw me bite him, bit me back and I never bit again. I will be doing the same thing when Taylor starts to bite me as I believe this is the only solution with the drastic affect.

I have used this when Taylor used to pull my hair/ If he pulled it too hard I would pull his and say  it hurts doesn't it. please don't do that to mummy any more. It took a while ( probably because I never pulled his hair really hard ) but he understands and even plays with my hair.



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