Hi all,

I'm new to this group but am so happy to see Christians getting involved in the everpresent world of Cyberspace and supporting each other to boot!

I have been a christian since my mid teens (now in early 40's) and have had many positive uplifting relationships/friends along the way. One comes to mind as it has just recently come to a crossroad, let me explain - i have a christian pal who i have been friends with for over a decade, and although she has lots a great qualities,she has a argumentative,controling, childish side that has raised it's ugly head yet again and i'm at my wits end. I won't go into detail about the conflict but it was a reasonably small disagreement in my view and i openly apologised for my part in the conflict but she refuses to apologise to this day(conflict started 2 months ago). She refuses to apologise for being deceptive and then accused me of calling her a 'big fat liar' (which i never would, i did call her irresponsible though).

For 2 months she has refused to speak to me or acknowledge my existence, she will happily speak at length to my husband and children, but not me. I'm sorry but i find this kind of behaviour very childish considering she was the one to start the conflict in the first place.

I have recently left her a sms saying that her friendship means a lot to me and i will be waiting when she's ready to talk, but as time goes on i'm feeling less and less inclined to want to rekindle the friendship, i'm so tired of her games and abuse!

What should i do?

traceywestaway