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My Wonderful Day Today

by wildiceComment Published at 03:4703:4711 comments11 comments35 Visits35 VisitsReport

As a lot of Minti members are aware, I am having a fairly rough time of things and have found Minto be a powerhouse of support, love and information. I wasn't sure whether I should post this in my own blog or here in this new group that Janice so kindly invited me to. Anyway, here is my 'showing love' day that I had.

Woke up this morning with my usual 'here we go again' attitude. Here are the things that turned it around for me and made it one of the best days I've had in a VERY long time.

1.  Janice - You were my first 'show of love' today. Your response to my response to one of your articles and your invitation to join this group. Wow - you must surely be an angel on earth. It may not seem much to an outsider but you had me in tears with your response (not hurting tears, tears of thankfulness) and your kindness. Even the invite to join this group makes me think that you are not only kind, but that you have a beautiful caring soul who takes the time to think about things and make suggestions that can only be helpful.

2.  Jasmine - I spent (most of) the day concentrating on my little ray of sunshine, Jasmine, doing things with her that she wanted to do. We went for a walk, we went to the library, we played 'kick the ball' with some foam balls that I picked up from our local knitting shop while out for that walk, we laughed and giggled, we played 'spinnies' (where I pick her up and spin her around until we are both dizzy), we chatted (as much as one can have a conversation with a two year old), we played games, we watched a little television together - in fact, we were so busy being together that I did not put her down for an afternoon sleep as I was enjoying this time with her so much.

3.  Jesse - My son rang me this afternoon and chatted for nearly twenty minutes. How many sixteen year olds have the 'time' to make a phone call to their 'insane' mother and talk about anything and everything rather than ring for a short whinge/request?

4.  Mum - I had been baking over the weekend and Mum came over last night so I went halves with her in the muffins and cake before sending her on her way. Well, this evening she rang me to say thank you and how much everyone at her workplace, and her husband, had enjoyed all the sweet treats. It may be old-fashioned, but it certainly makes it all worthwhile when someone takes the time, even if it was only a couple of minutes, to say those two precious words.

I'm not sure what I did to deserve today, but it was the best day I've had for longer than I care to try to remember. If every day was even a quarter as wonderful as today I would never again feel the need to wipe the smile from my face.

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kseers
July 8th | kseers
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

Great news!  Thank you for sharing your positive experiences - so often we get weighed down in the negative and this has just reminded me why I used to come here daily!  Thank you!



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janicepovey
July 7th | janicepovey
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

 Dear Kelly, I'm so glad you wrote this  heartfelt  blog in here, you have a pure heart and talent with words, you should write more, sweetie.

Me an angel, don't think so just ask Marg, am a devil in disguise, haahaa! I had tears of appreciation and felt warm all over reading what you wrote. 

What a wonderful day you had ( which there will many, many more to come) such precious and funfilled moments spent with your little ray of sunshine Jasmine.

A call  from Jesse, who wanted to just  talk to  his Mum about anything and everything ( I know how much this would have meant to you), and we won't have anymore of this insane business, ok, Kelly or what did I do to deserve this day. You deserve this day and many more because you are a very special, tender, caring, compassionate and  ever  so loving Mum & human being.

Lets start today by taking a little step together, NO MORE PUTTING YOURSELF DOWN. Think back  to when Jasmine was learning to walk, taking a few steps then falling down, until she was walking with more confidence....baby steps sweetheart and  when you fall down we all will be here to help you up, to take another step forward. We are here for you so you will never be alone again, that's what friends do.

To top your day off your Mum showed her appreciation for your thoughtfulness, just lovely. 

Much Love Janice

 



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pauline27
July 7th | pauline27
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

I am sure your blog made a lot of people happy today, Mixing Margir and Anniebabe with Janice and they do the same for many of us on minti.

Love Pauline



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Marglr
July 7th | Marglr
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

Hello wildice, what a great blog you have written!  So lovely that you had a chance to chat with your son.  Sounds like you had a wonderful time with your young daughter, a day she'll remember because there was joy!!!  I don't know you that well but why do you have to do anything to deserve your beautiful day?  You just have to be you!  You opened yourself to the possiblities and you opened yourself to joy. And look what you started flowing!



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      wildice
July 7th | wildice
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

Thanks Marglr, you've now confirmed my newly found belief that there really are people out there that care enough to share ... and make this world a nicer place to be.



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           Marglr
July 7th | Marglr
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

Well you are one of them!!!!



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anniebabe
July 7th | anniebabe
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

fantastic thats what i like to hear!

im a firm believer that attitude can make a difference. when one is positive and happy it attracts others to react that way. if one is ansad and angry then others retaliate too.

you did lots to deserve today.  you appreciated janices responses. and in turn you concentrated on "your ray of sunshine" which made her appreciate the fun and time spent with you . then these positives were in turn "felt by your son " who rang you and also appreciated chatting with mum just as mum appreciated chatting with son. In turn your mum felt great positiveness and rang you tonight to thank you.

you underestimate yourself.  you deserved a lot as you were there for your loved ones as they were for you

like i say im a firm believer that a positive attitude or outlook has a dynamo affect. just like negativeness attracts negativeness

oh and you had a smile!!!! those endorfins that get released when you smile are  the best cure than any  medication.

hugs and kisses

annie xxxooo



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      wildice
July 7th | wildice
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

Annie, that's a wonderful response. It has given me a whole new way of looking at today, again! It makes me think that I will now try to find something everyday that will get me to that 'feel good' stage ...



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           anniebabe
July 7th | anniebabe
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

thats great!

remember if all else fails go outside and smell the roses.or carnations or any flower . if the sun is out let it shine on your shoulders and back.

when you go back in you will feel that uplifting feeling. or anything else that you know makes you feel good

you know one day a lady was lost in the carpark. i could see that she had lost her bearings. without her asking me i actually asked her where she needed to go. i gave her directions. such a small thing for me but she told me that i would never know how much i made her day. she had already gone into panic mode and then i had approached her to help her.

in turn she made me feel good. i hadnt done it to feel good but she was so appreciative that she also gave me an extra boost

annie xxx



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                wildice
July 7th | wildice
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

hmmm, I think I'm getting something here ... your anecdote about the lady in the carpark ... I really should take more notice of the little things and be more appreciative ... perhaps I have lived with such negativity for the last fifteen years that I'm no longer seeing the forest for the trees ... thankyou.



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                     anniebabe
July 9th | anniebabe
Re: My Wonderful Day Today

your welcome

anniexxx



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