I had been in a relationship with this man for 6 months, when the ex casual sex buddy of my boyfriend made a reappearance. The person did a runner when the emotions started to run high. Spoke of love and committment.
My partner further explained the situation, the hurt caused by her and declared the other person were out of their life for indefinately.
When we met we discussed committment between the two of us.
An engagement ring was produced. And we were living quite happily together. Until the situation changed about a month ago, my partner and I ran into this ex at the main supermarket in town and had a brief conversation. Then around 2 weeks ago the ex started to make regular appeareances at my boyfriend's home. (Most times when I wasn't there).
I arrived back at my partner's home recently to find the ex had made an appearance, and was drinking alcohol. My partner's eyes just gleamed when looking at her. There was fun, laughter which didn't include me. I attempted to engage the situation, but they were more into it between them and to them I just didn't exist.
At one stage the ex had words with me, made threats to harm me. All out of ear shot of my partner. He also managed to stay the night in our bed. Leaving my partner and I to sleep on the couch. I was not at all happy with the sleeping arrangements, but had no say in the matter.
About an hour after retiring for the night, my boyfriend who was on the couch stood up and moved quickly into the bedroom where his ex was supposedly sleeping. My partner thought I was asleep and didn't notice I was awake.
I was only a few metres away and in the adjoining room. I could hear giggling and whispering. I managed to hear the, "I love you" from the ex. I could also hear the tossing and turning on the bed. Shortly afterwards, I decided to have a peek in the bedroom. There they both were embracing each other under the bed sheets.
I didn't say anything, as I was disgusted and just walked out and left the two undisturbed.
Next morning I emailed a message, along the lines of being unhappy. The response was, "Nothing happened", but he admitted, "I love her".
The arguement from my now former partner is that it is all my fault, doesn't trust me, "I walked out on the relationship", doesn't believe the explantation of why I was threatened earlier, "she is protecting me". (I have not shown any aggression towards him whatsoever, so where that reasoning came from is anyones guess). More like a "he is mine, get lost or else threat". Now he is with-holding my personal property and saying I have disrupted his family and will not get anything back until I talk to him. "He still wants to maintain a relationship with me. Why???
Answer: The ex is currently trying to re-establish another relationship with another man that she thinks is the father of her child. He knows she will do another runner again and most likely has done so by now and knows he will have no one else in his sad life, that will tolerate his crap.
I know what I need to do here.
I just want to hear other people's thoughts. Thanking anyone who wishes to respond in advance.
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