step parents alike

Well things are goinng great in our little family . Kylie has had no contact with her mother for about 4 months now and in this time she has settled down alot  and is no longer hurting chloe. In fact they now play together brilliantly . Although she has had no contact with her mother i did allow her mother to send her a present for christmas to see if kylie changed her mind on how she feels about her which turnt up out of the blue a few weeks ago she got her a coat which is now ruined she has a massive rip in it apparantly she fell over and a top like 3 years too big for her but her behaviour really is improoving loads

back soon hope you are all doing well too

have a great week

luv emz xx

  Hi guys,

wanted to say a big hi to all as im new to this site. Im a mother of 3 girls and 2 step sons. Their father and i have been together for 4 years and married for 1. We share a daughter together....jade who is 3 on monday. Like most step mothers i am trying really hard to include the boys in the family activities but it is so hard when they dont really like ya.... dosent matter....will also keep on trying.... feel free to chat with me any time,

keep well

sandra xxxx

I know the feeling and leaving seems so much easier at times! I think it is a male thing...they don't understand how their actions (or inactions) affect us.

I have finally got the break I needed. No Kids for 4 whole days! By the time Dillon is back my patience will be completely restored.

well ive finally had it i am so confussed on what to do i could really jus walk out the door with my daughter and not turn back i know that sounds cruel but ive totally had it i cant take anymore of her behaviour and watch her get away with it this week there has been 3 incidents of kylie hitting myself and my daughter first she smacked me in the face daddy was present shewasnt punnished at all i told her off and sent er to her room then she hit chloe in the chest to this i once again sent her for time out and demanded she apoligized she never did to which she screamed in her room barry caled her out and said shut up and u can take the dog out with me she was not told to go back to her room to finnish time out it was time out over she winged for 5 mins and me and chloe went to her room as i never agreed with this as i argued it which then caused a row later on chloe nearly fell over went to grab kylie for support and grabbed her hair instead kylie was screaming she hurt me she hurt me i firmly told herrrrrrr NO but this wasnt enough for him so he sarted shouting saying she was a bad girl she is a baby she puled kylie hair by accident and she is so wrong yet earlier wem kylie hit chloe it was not a problem at all now today kylie has hit me in the stomach 3 times after throwing a brick at me barry was there and pretended he never saw even though she admitted it he never told her off even in fact he found it rather funny both my dad and barry jus sat there so i took chloe and went to my room bary never even came in to see if i was ok jus goes to show who is more important and who he sides with i jus dont see the point anymore

Im stuck in this rut and i cant get out!!!  I have ryans 2 coming round soon and i dont want them here i dont want to go on holiday with them i just dont no what is happening i never used to feel like this i just want the feeling to go away but it wont i just dont now what i can do, do i need professional help lol i dont no i just no i cant go on like it i need to do something about this arrrgggg

do people talk in this group anyone there lol

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GETTING TO SPEND THE AFTERNOON WITH YOUR MANS EX, HER KIDS, HER EX AND HIS NEW WOMAN

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We get my stepdaughter almost every weekend simply because we go get her and dont "ask" if it is ok....It has become an issue that if we tell her mother that we want her cause there is something going on then we cant have her but its ok if we are just at home..........Mature huh? Im so tired of this girl and her bag of tricks.....its taking a toll on all of us........And the bigger thorn in my side is my need to tell her mother thru the father (as we dont speak anymore) that she needs to remind Crystal (11yrs old) that she has to wear deodorant and if they need we will get it but to keep on crystal about it because she has started to develope and after a long day of play there is a smell......What response do we get, oh she should know.........ERRRRRRRRRRRRR

sometimes being a step mum can be really hard. Sometimes i wish her mother would have contact with her i really do for her sake and sometimes i feel guilty for loving my daughter in in a differant way than i do for kylie but i cant stop my feeling s

............................butter would not melt my cutie