Re: Soul Mates
Hhmmm, You've got me pondering. I'm thinking, that maybe "Soul Mate"is a romantic Hollywood expression that belongs between the pages of Sleeping Beauty and the like rather than in our reality. I mean really, do we truely deep down belileve that one day we will find the true other half of ourselves? The fact is that Men's and womens brains work nothing alike at all, we are not meant to mentally match up obviously, the only guys that think like girls are gay and that wont help with population growth LOL. So maybe all along we are simply supposed to find someone with whom you share a mutual attraction with, who is aproximately the same age so as you change and grow you can hopefully be in the same chapter if not on the same page rather than reading completely different books. We need to work hard at staying plugged into each other as well as the family unit, building things in commn as we grow and change is work and it is constant and unfortunately in my experience men are not hard wired to understand this, as women are, and then women gget resentful as we're the ones doing all the work and the ment just think.... oh she wants to learn to play golf, of she brought me a beer (never noticing that she sat down with one as well to watch the footy with him until he yells out Ïs there anythign for lunch?"and she's a metre away. They need it rammed up there nose and implanted into their brains every 4 months or things just don't work. So no, I don't think there are soul mates that you marry, I think maybe there are soul mates in MATES. A lot of my girlfriends I am very close with and we can sometimes finish sentances etc. and thats probably the closet to soul mates as you'll get... otherwise it'd be called Soul partner... ...............hhhhmmm, good pondering subject. well done.
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