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it is insulting. like when i had my little ethan - a certain minti member (wont say who) was going around demading to all my minti friends (hers at the time too) that they send me clothes because i was expecting a girl and landed with a boy - and would probably find it hard to buy him clothes.
If people want to do these things - let them do it  on their own free will - let them be the one to decide whether or not they want to leave a comment or compassion or send people gifts - whatever.
Enough is enough alana - please stop trying to stir problems on minti

Get over yourself Alana - you are not the only person in the world that has compassion for others! I didn't see your last blog & am glad I was away...we do feel for Deb but we also have things going on in our own lives!

There are many members on the site, each with their own individual reasons for joining, and some of those members also have children with chronic illnesses.  As a community this site is made up of many kind; friendly; honest and compassionate, individuals.

The fundamentals of the site remain the same, however it is up to each individual to choose who and how they reach out to others.  The site is evolving and growing very quickly, (which is great), I would imagine many didn't even read the original blog, and of those who did, many wouldn't know the past member mentioned; and I am sure that those who felt compelled to reached out in their own private way.

I cant say i know much about wat happenin here but i just wanna tell ya that this writing made me think. you very full on and this can be a good thing but sometimes it catches ya unawares an ya go on too much. One of me kiddies is like this and so is me sista.

havin compasion is a good thing but ya ned to control it two. Ya seem real sorries and that is enough for me. I tech me kidsthat sorry is a important word and if ya use it properly it can do many wise things. god on ya for bein honest that is rare in todays worlds

mia

I did take it as a personal attack because you made an assumption on every single minti member including me all because I didn't comment on your blog. There are tons of blogs that I don't comment on simply because I don't see them and I don't kindly to being dis-respected. At the moment I have alot on my plate to deal with and you don't know what many other members are dealing with either.....yet you assume we don't care.........I understand more than you know about being upset over  a loved one but I don't think it's ever ok to word things the way you did.

Sorry Alana, but I really dont think you thought through what you were saying. You dis-respected the minti community as a whole each and every member in my view, those who know you and those that dont, by using the words minti parents. Sadly you assumed everyone read your blog, and you assumed that they should have done what you asked in the way you asked. Arna did put a comment, yet that was not aknowledged. In  my view sadly you took it personaly, that others chose not to respond to the original post as you would have liked, that does not make us as a community less compassionet, just human and individual.

Winnie

I didn't take your blog as a personal attack, I just found it plain rude.....

You Assumed and you know what that means!!!!!

This community does unite, nothing has changed there, there is so much support just some of us do it in silence......

It's ok to be upset about something, but can you pretty please really think before putting all your passion here.  Try and be a little more accommodating to other people as well.  Some members have a lot going on, some don't know how to contact Deb (like me) and others have been absent for whatever reasons.  Remember, in QLD, it has been school holidays too, with another week to go (groan).

Hey Kellz,

I did not find your previous blog insulting. I just think you are a very caring person who was upset.

Cheers Queenie xoxoxox

you are not a bad person, just a very compassioate woman.

you are also a very wonderful friend. One who is always there, day and night no matter what.

Luv ya

Liz

hi kellz

you not a bad person, just a compassion person/friend.

xx cazza