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Tadpole

13 year Old Dad???

by TadpoleComment Published at 23:2123:2124 comments24 comments266 Visits266 VisitsReport

Ohh my goodness I could not beieve it, has anyone else seen the news regarding the 13yr old boy who has fathered a baby girl in the UK. Sorry if I offend anyone here but I can not believe it. He looks like a baby himself. I certainly hope my boys are not active like that when they get to that age. Is it wrong of me to think that this sort of thing is wrong? Could it of been prevented? How scary to think that this could even happen!

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shhmumstheword
February 2009 | shhmumstheword
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

im in the uk this story is huge, but the sad truth is hes not the first and wont be the last a chat show disgused how parents have a part to play if your teen wants to tk there bf/gf upstairs to watch a film most of us wld think oh hang on hormones in overdrive and allow them to use anouther room or alteast check in to mk sure this cldnt happen, but then again they also said he looks 8 so wld it have crossed your mind? tyhe weirdest thing was there actuially selling these stories whats that teaching him do something to get noticed and get 5 min of fame what about the baby hows he going to steer a life when he knows nothing about life obviously not aware of whats right or wrong him having sex was illegal.



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anniebabe
February 2009 | anniebabe
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his father is suppose to be cashing in on the story. his parents are seperated (his father has fathered 9 children) not all from the same mother.

it was suppose to be the first time fot the 13 year old boy the mother 15 according to neighbours had various partners . there is doubt as to whether he fathered the baby.

when asked what he was going to do about money he seemed confused and talked about his pocket money! sounds like he is a little naive might have been taken for a ride. not just by the mother of the baby but his dad is also in for the ride. trying to cash in saying its a great story!

how sad! nice to know he can rely on his father!!!!!!???????????? not

annie



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Rukia
February 2009 | Rukia
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

I think we need to bring back cheap sports adn things that are real for kids to do. its obviest that they have nothing better to do than have sex at a very young age with a lot of ppl.

 



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winja
February 2009 | winja
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i think its a bit sad that the parents of this couple didnt use their heads a bit and not let them sleep in the same bed! she was on the pill apparently and they had sleepovers but the parents didnt know? gimmie a break!

i think its great that they are all being responsible now and taking care of the baby i just think its sad that it had to happen so early for them.

i also think its sad that the girls name is being dragged thru the mud now. 8 boys they say? sheesh

 



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      DarkenedAngel
February 2009 | DarkenedAngel
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

8 boys in the one month? Gees! What is wrong with that girl? Where the hell was the parental guidance?



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ellosunshine
February 2009 | ellosunshine
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

OMG I just saw the article today on msn here. I cant believe he is only 13 and he definately looks more like 7 or 8! I really hope they do the DNA testing to really find out who the father is, especially when you hear that other boys are claiming to be the father!



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BEAUTY
February 2009 | BEAUTY
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

When I showed my 12yr old he said YUKKKKK. I told him we needed to have a talk, he said he already knew, so I asked him to tell me what he knew so he could maybe teach me a thing or two. lol.

Take care



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      Tadpole
February 2009 | Tadpole
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hehehe, It is amazing what they no at a young age these days



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natelz1
February 2009 | natelz1
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

im speeechless! i did hear about a 13yo dad, but didnt believe it! He looks as old as my 6yo son! I would be absolutely horrified! the girl looks heaps older! no idea. sad thing is he probably will decide soon enough he wants to enjoy life not have a kid. so easy for the boys to walk away. what a horrible situaltion. Cute baby tho, i just feel sorry fot it.



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KathrynR1402
February 2009 | KathrynR1402
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I'd heard about it on the radio but I just saw his picture and  he looks SO much less than 13 - my 6 year old looks older! news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/7888981.stm Scary - parenthood is SUCH a resonsibility; it's hard enough in my 30s to cope some days.

 



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Marglr
February 2009 | Marglr
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I saw that story, on the news here.  Just hope to heavens they have a great support system for the child of the children. We went to the lake when I was a teen, huge group of us girls and happened across a 6 and 8 year old going at it beside one of the cottages.  Half of us didn't even clue in to what was going on and the other half decided right there that our kiddies when they came would never be left alone to "entertain" themselves!!!!



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      Tadpole
February 2009 | Tadpole
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Oh my goodness, I would of smaked their bottoms "lol"



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Mintythistle79
February 2009 | Mintythistle79
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

All I can say is OMG OMG OMG!!!!!!!!

Honestly, little boys (and girls) should be playing with their toys and making mud pies for as long as possible. I am appalled...and really sad for the child and the baby.

Now I am mentally preparing for 'the talk' even though my son is only 13 months old (and my other son is still in my belly!) I mean honestly....EEEK!



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      DarkenedAngel
February 2009 | DarkenedAngel
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

My son is only 9 and he got the "talk" from my bestie last week - for which I'm very grateful! I'd explained as much as he'd asked me about, but kids have a thing about talking to their parents and sometimes find it easier to talk to someone else.

My bestie took the liberty of telling my boy while I was out at the shops if there was anything he ever wanted to know about that was too hard to talk about with me, he could talk to him, he'd answer any questions honestly.

OMG the things he then had to explain! Pubic hair, sex, baby making, wanking... and the list went on! My bestie also threw in the added info about sexual child abuse, privacy, decency and inappropriate behaviour, and although we were both a little stunned by the onslaught of questions so suddenly, it didn't surprise us at all that he asked them at the age of 9.



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monarogirl
February 2009 | monarogirl
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

Two other boys have come forward saying they could also be the father....

Guess there isn't much to do in their town!



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      DarkenedAngel
February 2009 | DarkenedAngel
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

Forget about the boys, WTF is the girl doing if she doesn't know which underage boy she's preggies to! Gees!



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DarkenedAngel
February 2009 | DarkenedAngel
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

Depends on how the kid grew up and matured. My bestie became a father around the same age, and there are plenty of 13-14 yr old girls that have babies. Why would it be any more shocking for a boy to become a father at that age than for a girl?

As for preventing it, yeah, sure, when people can stop being so uptight about discussing sex and it's no long a taboo subject... maybe in another life eh?



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      Tadpole
February 2009 | Tadpole
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

Well ther you have it, I must live a shelted life cause the earliest I have heard of a girl having a baby is 14. The father was older.  I know girls mature at an age 2yrs ahead of boys and I just didn't think this was capable of physically happening. Put my head back under the blankets hey (lol) 



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           DarkenedAngel
February 2009 | DarkenedAngel
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

The youngest girl ever was aged 6.

It's not that uncommon for girls to be able to give birth as young as 9 to 12, but 13+ is more common.



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                Tadpole
February 2009 | Tadpole
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

Crap, I have lived a sheltered life. I don't think I have missed on that much though that is just too scary.



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Rukia
February 2009 | Rukia
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

I know. when I saw this this morning I laughted and said to my hubby, Oh crap another kid having a kid. He laughted back. (its kinda a family joke in reguard to his old church where the pastors 12 year old son got his 14 year old GF pregnant)



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      Tadpole
February 2009 | Tadpole
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Watchout for Karma (lol). I just can't believe it. Did you see a pic, He  looked soo young



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           Rukia
February 2009 | Rukia
Re: 13 year Old Dad???

i know he looked like he was 6 or something.

do feel bad for him but, cause the report said that neighbours have told him to get a DNA testing cause the girl has alot of BF's.



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                Tadpole
February 2009 | Tadpole
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Na I didn't see that bit. I dare say he would be crushed if that was the case. His gf looked so much older. His Dad said something like this "He has been better then I thought he would be. He has been going to the hospital everyday instead of playing his playstation" What tha? Jus too spinny



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