Thank you for your support and friendship.  I know i have nothing to fear, and that,along with the support I have found on Minti has made a great difference for me.  E is taking it slightly hard, she is grinding her teeth more again which she does when she is excited, or constantly when she is anxious, but she wont talk to me about it, and cuz mum and dad were working all weekend she didnt talk to them either, hopefully when we see them for her birthday in two weeks time they will have a chance to talk then.  It concerns me that she tries to protect me to that degree.  But I can just carry on loving her.  Life is not easy right now because of my health, and that adds more concern for her that is too mcuh I think. 

He is not interested, if he was he would have decided to go via solicitors only, not through the court system which is unnecessary and not nice for children.  He is threatening me as much as he can, and it is because he has nothing to back him up, he has no rights and he has no good behaviour to support him.  My dad wants to be in court if it goes to court to say what a nice guy he is and how it is so sad that he was so pathetic really.  I love my parents so much for the support they have given me through this,  we all liked this guy and thought he was a good one. Funny how people can change because someone 'disses' them.

I have added you on MSN - say hi somewhen....I am there most of the time.
Peace
EF.x