Being a mum is one of the hardest jobs in the world. Its even harder when you are a teenager with little knowledge of the realities of being pregnant and then a mum. I never had a support group when i needed it and i would like to have one for those out there that do need the extra love and support.
This is a group that you can join to talk to other young mums or even older mums that became mums in their teens for help, support and to get answers to the questions you are afraid to ask people you know.
This is also for parents of teenagers who find themselves facing such a difficult stage in life. We are all here to help.
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oh i hate ppl like that,thinking its all about the money.yeh there are plenty out there that do it for the money but its not gunna last long so why wud everyone rely on the money?? My baby was made out of love not made for money. Its good that u can stand up to ppl,i hope i can.I already get death stares as im showing now. |
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yep im proud to, too be a young mum i dont care what randoms on the street think.. i think there the pathetic ones and yesturday i went on the bus with my sis inlaw nd her 5-6 month old baby she bootifull so proud hehe anyways lol this old lady said to my sis inlaw its stupid these days how you are all in it for the money.. i replied angerly im preg with twins im friggin proud its nothing to do with the money my sis inlaww hasnt even touch the baby bonus and im not going to any way |
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hi guys. im not a teenager anymore but i had my daughter at 17 so ive been there done that.
being a mum is very hard and id never wish for anyone to be a teen parent, YES you can do a great job and do the best for your child but its alot harder in the long run and as you grow up you realise it even more.
i worked in child care b4 my daughter was born so that helped a bit but not much, nothing will ever prepare you for being a parent and unfortunatly we mellow with age which helps with dealing with toddlers and learning patience and self control, so in the long run its easier to be a good mum with a bit of age behind you.
in saying that though you can do a great job its just harder to do. my daughter is 6 now and i get told constantly what a great job ive done with her but i still feel some guilt because we have struggled along.
good luck to everyone and if you need to talk im here.
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hi, im 17 and pregnant and do not believe that teenegers do any worse than adult mothers alot of the time they handle it abit better.
im not just saying this because im pregnant i say it because so many teen mums get looked at so dirty and for what? fair enuff if they werent doin a good job but i know of some fantasic teen mums and alot know more than you think. ive been looking after my neices since i was 7, as long as you can provide for a love your baby thats all that matters. teen mums deserve alot more support and respect out there.
i dont agree with 13-14 yr olds getting pregnant but if they do its there choice but do need to understand its not all lardy dar there are very hard times as well.also not to have a baby cos u think there cute.babies grow so fast they DO NOT stay small forever.. |
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Hi there i was just popping in and noticed that there has been no posts since last one! How are things going has your sister rung you yrt?? Do you know how things are going?? If not maybe you should not worry she will maybe she will in the future. Hope all is well with you and your family. good luck! I will check back soon to see if any blog has been added here. Seems there are members but no one has blogged in a while!
your minti friend Michelle |
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I still haven't talked to my sister. But I do know that her first ultra-sound is on the feb 1st. So I am hoping that she will call, but I won't hold my breath on that one.
She did talk to a mutual friend and said that if I can't be happy for her, that she won't let me have anything to do with the baby. Than she also told grandma and said that this fight we had that she tried to make it work by (calling and hanging up on me) that she isn't going to call me or anything.
I was trying to get her to come and live with me, but I don't have enough room for 2. I want to get her out of that foster home so bad.. They seem to have made her desicion for her. Even if she gave the baby up for adoption they wanted to adopt it.
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Well my little sister still hasn't talked to me since I found out from other's that she is pregnant. When I did talked to her, she hangs up on me. SO I kinda had enough of that. I don't know what I am suppose to do next? She won't private message me, and I think she has blocked me from her MSN also. I am lost! I know she probally wants my support, but I don't know if I can give it to her just yet. In a way I think she is making a big mistake. The father of the baby is just an a##hole. He is controlling, possesive and everything that goes with it. I don't know what to do! Please help!!
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Well my little sister still hasn't talked to me since I found out from other's that she is pregnant. When I did talked to her, she hangs up on me. SO I kinda had enough of that. I don't know what I am suppose to do next? She won't private message me, and I think she has blocked me from her MSN also. I am lost! I know she probally wants my support, but I don't know if I can give it to her just yet. In a way I think she is making a big mistake. The father of the baby is just an a##hole. He is controlling, possesive and everything that goes with it. I don't know what to do! Please help!!
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