Ok a couple is getting married in Jamaica..  They have said they are not inviting anyone to the wedding... 

Husband wants to crash it... 

I told hubby they were not inviting anyone. Hubby says that sucks I am going to talk to them. I said leave it alone. He said nope we are going to crash their wedding.. I said if we crash it we leave them alone the minute the I do's are said and we are not staying at the same place as them.. He says sounds good. 

So the Question is,  If your friends said they were not inviting anyone and you are pretty much 100% sure that the only reason they are not inviting anyone is because they think it is rude to ask people to pay come and see them get married then ask them all to go their seperate ways because they will automatically be on their honeymoon as well, would you crash the party??????

Also as a side though, some time ago while my friend was thinking of how she wanted to get married she did ask me if we would go if we were invited.. I said if we could stick Francis somewhere loving for a week we'd do our best to be there for them... And she had said at one time or another that if they were going to invite anyone at all it would be us.  (being that the four of us are very close and concider each other family.) Of course this was all said while fantisizing about how she wanted her wedding. Now it is actually going to happen I don't really want to crash it if she really does not want anyone there. But hubby and I are finding that a little hard to believe.  You have to  know the couple to understand what I mean...

Anyway what would you do... Keep in mind the only issue would be trying to find a place for a two year old for a week.. (My hardest part would be leaving him for a week, but I think I can, I think I can I think I can, I hope I can... )