I'd most definitely leave him..
If that's his sexual orientation, then that means, that he has a 'special someone' out there that isn't me..
So, he should go out there and find who he is meant to be with..
As can I :)
hmm well its sort of hard to say because you ask what i would do if i was married to a gay guy but everyones answering on the basis that if they found him in bed with a guy. if i was married to a gay guy i wouldnt care, i would be a bit conserned as to why he was with me if hes gay ( hm do i really look lie a man?) and id also be questioning if he was gay or just by sexual.
haha nah i know what u mean, dannii..
you'd feel that, at least if he were gay, then you couldnt change the situation, its not ur fault..
but if he left you for a girl, maybe you werent enough for him.. or u did something wrong ???
This is what happened to my sister . . She came hoome early from work one day because she was ill and caught her hubby in bed with another man. . . totally shocked she just turned around and walked out of the house . . .
Needless to say they git a divorce and she said "there's not much I can do is there, its not as if I can compete and i certainly wasn't going for anything kinky" . . . It was a hard time in her life and she is now remarried and happy . .
If this ever y happened to me I guess I would do the same as my sister . . . .
sorry hit enter by accident! what i was going to say is sometimes marriges turn into a loving friendship eventually anyway, if that was already the case im not sure
cant really say? depends on the circumstances i spose.
i thought one of my exs was gay once and funnily enough it didnt overly bug me? you can have different kinds of love for different ppl, if they wanted to spend the rest of their lives with you coz they truelly loved the person you were but they were actually gay?
At first i'd be upset but with the stigma attached to being gay i could understand why.After i'm done being hurt i'd go shopping with him and make him share any make up and hand bags lol.
haha i dont know! i could throw him out to the shed but he is there most of the time anyway lol.... If he told me that will be a way i could understand it better but if i caught him well different story i would go off.
Staying in the relationship i dont think i could but i cant say until i was put in that situation.
I would feel betrayed at first then I'm not sure how I'd handle it. It would depend if you had kids or not. I think tho, that the relationship would be doomed to fail!
But i would want to know why he chose to marry me if he knew he was Gay....
If it was a thing cause his parents are against Gay ppl I guess if he did love me and I loved him I have a open marrage with conditions. Always use protection type thing.
Things like that happen in a normal marriage. My friend G left his wife of 15 years last year cause he me J and they fell in love.
I know a few ppl in open marriages and it works for them. each to their own i guess. (Just like to add I would hate to be in a open marriage as I am possesive of my hubby and he is the same of me)
lol I am not sure what I would do. It would be a huge shock & it would depend on how you feel about tham I suppose I could live with it. What would you do Jess??
I'd be gone.. And hope I did not have any kids... Of course i'd be shocked... But I think it would also depend on how I found out. :) The relationship of course would be over... :)
It might take a bit of time for me to calm down wondering about all the years I lost married to the person..
(I will point out that I know two people this has happened to.. One more recent then the other).
One of them is still friends and ended up married to his best friend... :) The other one is starting to live it up.. :) First one was told, second one figured it out..
Your poor friends. It would be a huge shock! It happens alot though, Oprah did a show about it. I think men shouldnt get married if they think they might be gay.
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