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Jessgore

What would you do if

by JessgoreComment Published at 19:0719:0723 comments23 comments128 Visits128 VisitsReport

you found out you married a gay man????

No my husband is not gay.. :)

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Arna
November 2008 | Arna
Re: What would you do if

I suppose it depends.  If he was good at keeping house, then he's a keeper.  He'd just have to put up with me vetting his boyfriends though



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alishas-mummy
September 2008 | alishas-mummy
Re: What would you do if

I'd most definitely leave him..
If that's his sexual orientation, then that means, that he has a 'special someone' out there that isn't me..
So, he should go out there and find who he is meant to be with..
As can I :)



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smashie
September 2008 | smashie
Re: What would you do if

hmm well its sort of hard to say because you ask what i would do if i was married to a gay guy but everyones answering on the basis that if they found him in bed with a guy. if i was married to a gay guy i wouldnt care, i would be a bit conserned as to why he was with me if hes gay ( hm do i really look lie a man?) and id also be questioning if he was gay or just by sexual.




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dannii17
September 2008 | dannii17
Re: What would you do if

i prefer he left me for a guy then a girl lol, doesnt say much for me but itw ud make me feel better



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      alishas-mummy
September 2008 | alishas-mummy
Re: What would you do if

haha nah i know what u mean, dannii..
you'd feel that, at least if he were gay, then you couldnt change the situation, its not ur fault..
but if he left you for a girl, maybe you werent enough for him.. or u did something wrong ???



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emmie
September 2008 | emmie
Re: What would you do if

idbe gone




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Kellzacar
September 2008 | Kellzacar
Re: What would you do if

Hi honey,

This is what happened to my sister . .  She came hoome early from work one day because she was ill and caught her hubby in bed with another man. .  . totally shocked she just turned around and walked out of the house . . .

Needless to say they git a divorce and she said "there's not much I can do is there, its not as if I can compete and i certainly wasn't going for anything kinky" . . . It was a hard time in her life and she is now remarried and happy . .

If this ever y happened to me I guess I would do the same as my sister . . . .



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winja
September 2008 | winja
Re: What would you do if

sorry hit enter by accident! what i was going to say is sometimes marriges turn into a loving friendship eventually anyway, if that was already the case im not sure



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winja
September 2008 | winja
Re: What would you do if

cant really say? depends on the circumstances i spose.

i thought one of my exs was gay once and funnily enough it didnt overly bug me? you can have different kinds of love for different ppl, if they wanted to spend the rest of their lives with you coz they truelly loved the person you were but they were actually gay?



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Lynd
September 2008 | Lynd
Re: What would you do if

At first i'd be upset   but with the stigma attached to being gay i could understand why.After i'm done being hurt i'd go shopping with him and make him share any make up and hand bags lol.



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cazza
September 2008 | cazza
Re: What would you do if

You would be able to share your make up...

and go for a Brazillin together ....

xx cazza



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Amerlinwinga
September 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: What would you do if

haha i dont know! i could throw him out to the shed but he is there most of the time anyway lol.... If he told me that will be a way i could understand it better but if i caught him well different story i would go off.

Staying in the relationship i dont think i could but i cant say until i was put in that situation.

Tee



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cathbusymum
September 2008 | cathbusymum
Re: What would you do if

I would feel betrayed at first then I'm not sure how I'd handle it. It would depend if you had kids or not. I think tho, that the relationship would be doomed to fail!



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janicepovey
September 2008 | janicepovey
Re: What would you do if

 Hope I wouldn't marry  GUY THAT WAS GAY IN THE FIRST PLACE.



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      Amerlinwinga
September 2008 | Amerlinwinga
Re: What would you do if

thats a pissa but i second that lol!!!!!



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Rukia
September 2008 | Rukia
Re: What would you do if

I would be upset.

But i would want to know why he chose to marry me if he knew he was Gay....

If it was a thing cause his parents are against Gay ppl I guess if he did love me and I loved him I have a open marrage with conditions. Always use protection type thing.



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      Jessgore
September 2008 | Jessgore
Re: What would you do if

I have nothing against gay men, but I don't think I could do the open marriage thing...

Not only that I'd be to worried that he'd end up falling in love with the other fellow...



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           Rukia
September 2008 | Rukia
Re: What would you do if

Things like that happen in a normal marriage. My friend G left his wife of 15 years last year cause he me J and they fell in love.

I know a few ppl in open marriages and it works for them. each to their own i guess. (Just like to add I would hate to be in a open marriage as I am possesive of my hubby and he is the same of me)



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Domestic-warrior
September 2008 | Domestic-warrior
Re: What would you do if

Go shopping with him!!!!! 



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      boredmum
September 2008 | boredmum
Re: What would you do if

lmao on ya Julie!!!



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boredmum
September 2008 | boredmum
Re: What would you do if

lol I am not sure what I would do. It would be a huge shock & it would depend on how you feel about tham I suppose I could live with it. What would you do Jess??



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      Jessgore
September 2008 | Jessgore
Re: What would you do if

I'd be gone.. And hope I did not have any kids... Of course i'd be shocked... But I think it would also depend on how I found out. :) The relationship of course would be over... :)

It might take a bit of time for me to calm down wondering about all the years I lost married to the person..

(I will point out that I know two people this has happened to.. One more recent then the other).

One of them is still friends and ended up married to his best friend... :) The other one is starting to live it up.. :) First one was told, second one figured it out..



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           boredmum
September 2008 | boredmum
Re: What would you do if

Your poor friends. It would be a huge shock! It happens alot though, Oprah did a show about it. I think men shouldnt get married if they think they might be gay.



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