actually no maybe im doing something right i really dont know but recently weve seen a few kids around macs age and i cant believe the way they behave macs 16mnths now he went through a small hitting faze and the head butting but they didnt last long maybe its because we were consistant from the start .
he was told no he got hand smacks even some nappy smacks too which some of you may say is wrong but honestly i think ive smacked his nappy twice and he knows now when i say no i mean it ,of course he trys to get away with things flashing his gorgeous smile dont they all? but as soon as he sees me rise my hand or say smack its game over!
Ive seen kids hit there parents bite them scream no, but then I also saw parents rip trousers and nappys down and paste there children so weather or not you believe my way is right or wrong its worked i need no physical contact with my child other than hugs of course lol and thats the way i wanted it i dont want to be hitting my child but i dont want a child that has no respect or concept of consequences for there actions.
Just incase anyones misunderstood me i dont hollar smack waving my arms around all day id say maybe once a fornight he'll puch me far enough to say smack admittedly im so greatful i dont have to do it im really to soft and would be that mummy that has a confused child as shes sorry and hugging them after offering them treats etc
So thats me and my disaplin whats your method?
Hugs jo xxx
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