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Dec
2007
shhmumstheword

toddlers outta control...

by shhmumsthewordComment Published at 08:4408:443 comments3 comments63 Visits63 VisitsReport

actually no maybe im doing something right i really dont know but recently weve seen a few kids around macs age and i cant believe the way they behave macs 16mnths now he went through a small hitting faze and the head butting but they didnt last long maybe its because we were consistant from the start .

he was told no he got hand smacks even some nappy smacks too which some of you may say is wrong but honestly i think ive smacked his nappy twice and he knows now when i say no i mean it ,of course he trys to get away with things flashing his gorgeous smile dont they all? but as soon as he sees me rise my hand or say smack its game over!

Ive seen kids hit there parents bite them scream no, but then I also saw parents rip trousers and nappys down and paste there children so weather or not you believe my way is right or wrong its worked i need no physical contact with my child other than hugs of course lol and thats the way i wanted it i dont want to be hitting my child but i dont want a child that has no respect or concept of consequences for there actions.

Just incase anyones misunderstood me i dont hollar smack waving my arms around all day id say maybe once a fornight he'll puch me far enough to say smack admittedly im so greatful i dont have to do it im really to soft and would be that mummy that has a confused child as shes sorry and hugging them after offering them treats etc

So thats me and my disaplin whats your method?

Hugs jo xxx

 

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Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | Domestic-warrior
Re: toddlers outta control...

It is so hard and i also think it depends what you have got to work with as well!!  Some children are more of a hand full and some more compliant.  My friends son got a 'red card' at Prep School!  But now it turns out he has an Autism Spectrum Disorder....so it gives his Mum an answer to the problems but on the other side he may not ever be able to read and write.   They use to think he was just naughty.

Your lucky that your child only pushes you so far once a fortnight or so....my kids seem to do it to me daily...and i'd have to say the way i react to that is my fault but i must admit lately i don't have much patience for any of it.

There are so many things that come into play, it can be easy to say i'd do A,B,C or D but when you are live in someone else's shoes it can be a whole different ballgame.  i have reacted badly to my kids sometimes but one thing is for sure i always regret it afterwards.

Anyway, i'm rambling now....here's to some great discussions!!

Luv Julie



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      shhmumstheword
December 2007 | shhmumstheword
Re: toddlers outta control...
I agree I think alot of it does depend on what you have to work with..lol guess I was just very lucky there, who knows the next one could be the complete opposite and drive me insane. But I also think there diet the social interaction they get the way we behave around him play a huge part too, were dreading the day were called in because of his language although we try when your stressd theres always the lill odd *&^& that slips out we thought his first word would be bugger! better than some he could repeat but still I dont think other parents would apptretiate it hehe. I


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           shhmumstheword
December 2007 | shhmumstheword
Re: toddlers outta control...

 I dont agree with smacking but I have smacked his nappy on occation, some ppl may not agree but I think if he learns now he wont need smacking and so far were right hes 16mnths and knows I know I never really hurt him and would never smack skin to skin we plan to get one of those pads that you use on the naughty step with a sencer if they move sould be handy with next baby.

But then maybe im not so good after all maybe I just learned from my sisters mistakes with her having 6 kids, but either way at the end of the day we all do our best to bring our children up to be level headed adults and for what ever mistakes we mk we arnt ther first and wont be the last...dont you think thats our right we all get something wrong from time to time I know I do prob more than most ..lol

Hugs Jo xxx 



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