Re: naughty step method ....good idea?
Personally, I wouldn't bother with it. The number of things I've brought that have been useless.....well I could write a book!
If time outs work for you that's great, you just have to a designated place for it to occur. Unfortunately for me, it doesn't work for Grub at all. He just ends up in a state.
Sometimes it's just the tone of my voice that is enough for him to settle down and behave. Other times I have to remove him from the area that he's misbehaving at, and if that means I have to take him home from a friends house, then so be it.
On his worst days, you know the ones when your at home and they muck up constantly and won't DO ANYTHING Mummy asks, then I get him where it hurts the most. Toys. I ask once, the second time I ask and don't get the required response, then a toy goes in the bin or in the top of Mummy's wardrobe and he loses till I'm ready to give it back. And that's usually anything between 1-5 days.......when Mummy remembers that she actually put it there!!!
Every kids different and has thier own challenges and pushes different buttons!
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