ok so this is driving me seriously mad .

i have been trying for 6 mths now and no luck my periods come and go as it pleases and i dont want to take the pill because i will just have more weight put on.

iam still waiting for my period which usually comes between 35 60 days between each other USUALLY ,but hasent arrived yet and every test i have taken its been negative.

when someone comes with a sure way to get preg easier please let me know lol

heres a link of a site i used as i wanted kids close together n needed to be intune with how my cycle was working when we sld go for it etc youll need to jin and input your cycles they will email you lessons on how you sld be charting i recomend saving these in an email file we tried for 6 mnths after 2 mnths with this site im pregnant its kinda like going bk to school and learning about the birds and the bees but hey we all need a hand right ?

monthlycycles

hope this helps some one it did for me good luck to all of you xox

Hi there. My name is Caz. . I am 22 years old, been married for 3 months. My husband is 39 years old. We have been trying for a baby for almost 2 years, but still nothing!! In the past year, I have had a laparoscopy to remove endometriosis, had countless blood tests and 2 days ago I had an HSG (where they "flush" your tubes incase of blockages). My husband has had sperm tests done, and everything is 100%. The doctors cant find anything wrong to cause me not to get pregnant!

Please help! I can barely relax anymore, which doesnt help the cause either.

Hi,

I have been off the pill for about 5 months now and have had no period on Monday i had a small clot in the morning and i was praying it was the sart of my period, but still nothing yet. I have been having cramps i guess that's something. Anyway i have done 2 tests so far and 1 blood test and all were negative.

Wish i could now just get my period. Have forgotten about trying to get pregnant just want to feel normal again

anyway enough from me unless anyone knows how to kick start a period ?????

When I was trying to get pregnant I bought a whole heap of pregnancy and ovulation tests off ebay.  I still have them sitting around, so I wondered if anyone would like them?  They have no fancy packaging and  just photocopied instructions, but just send me a SSAE and I will send you what I can.

Hi all, i am the newest member of the group and i am excitted to actually have people i can talk to about this sort of this.

Anyway i will give you a short run down, Got married in December 2006 and i am 21 yrs and my husband is 23yrs. we are trying i have been of the pill (Llevlyn) for 3-4 months now and still nothing, the only conception we have ever used in the whole time we have been together is the pill so obviously it is a good one. Anyway i have told my parent that we are trying and they are so excitted etc, however Simon's parents however we havn't told them but all we ever hear is wait atleat another5-10 blah blah blah, and it is really making me angry so it is also very hard for me to relax when all i can think about is her voice, don't get me wrong i like them and all but i want them to butt out, how do i say it nicely?

anyway back to the concieving thing, we have been trying for 3-4 months like i said - all different positions, places, times, everyday, a few time s a day - still nothing - i guess i figured cos i am young it should happen almost straight away...

So if you have any advice that would be great.

Thanks

hi my names leash, im 18 and me and my patner have been trying for nearly 5 months now after having one we loves to bits we thought another one would be great, I know allot of people say im too young to be trying thats what me doctor says as well. A few years back i was told that i will conceive easily but not carry full term. This was dissapointing to me but last year i had my first lil girl.
Without the doctors or family on my side i was wondering if there is any other way to maybe insure that i can carry. my patner is standing by me but we desperatly want this to work.
I feel pregnant a few weeks back but at 5-6 weeks we lost it. so was a bit heart breaking..but we are still hopeful.

Ask your doc for some hormones or something.My doc told me he would give me something to make me ovulate more

It might sound sill and i have only HEARD this but ive heard doggy style is good lol!

Have lots of sex! Sad but true... lol

 

I have just got my period after being 3 weeks late, except its like browny and clear mucus, ive lost two spots of blood id say about 1ml but 2 mls at the most.And VERY light i had a blood test two weeks ago and it was neg... for the last two days my (and im sorry for my bluntness) boobs are like tingly and often get sharp but not very sore pains around my nipple. ive had a few headaches, little feeling sick two days ago but my son had a tummy bug for two days so assumed i was getting his bug but nothing came of it. Im getting mad as i dont know whats going on and cant afford to go to the dr again (ive been3 days out of every week for the past four weeks for several different reasons! Please help me...

Hello My name is rachel and i am 23yrs i just got married and me and my parnter are trying to have a baby. we beening trying for about 8 months now and no luck, but i now think i am pregnant but when i took the test it was negative but now i am a few days late and i took another test tonight but it come up negative to i was just wondering if i should wait a month or should go and see my doctor

you know sometimes i think i created this group just to vent about all the failed attempts i've had so far lmao so now i don't get my excited when i'm late because it's due to my period being every 5/6 weeks now so conception is even harder than before and it's been 9 mths so far and it's gotten to the point where i think i have gotten over not being pregnant and just had heaps of bloody sex lol, sorry to those of you it offends but only being 24 you can see why it is annoying that i'm not but at the same time i still have a few good years left in me so this time i'm giving advice for those of you who are trying the quicker you learn to relax and stop stressing about it not happening (like i was lol) the sooner your body will relax and it should help to concieve alot easier without intervention, but for those of you who do need it, good luck in your journey and it will only make you stronger, stay focused and if it doesn't happen straight away don't give up it will

Choose the sex of your child Naturally By Yvonne Young.  I had 2 girls already and wanted a boy so didn't want to make a mistake, I bought the book, read it and tried twice to get my boy who is now 8 yrs old.

Believe me it works, it's all in the timing.  Seriously tho if you don't care what sex child U have the book still gives you all the information to know exactly when you are ovulating (producing eggs) and steps to determine the EXACT day to have intercourse if you wan't a male child.

It worked for me  good luck.

well i am going to see my dr today so please wish me luck as my period is becoming worse everytime i get it and i get period pain 3 out of 4 weeks per mth so now i'm off to see the dr and get him to book me in to see a gyno and possibly get a clean out, sounds nice huh lol, well i might even ask him about a fertilty drug they call CLAMIDE sorry for the spelling and see if he can prescribe me some as it will help me get pregnant but it can cause twins so i'm all set for that too lol aarrggg ha

so hopefully i can let you all know soon that i have become pregnant and you never know it might be two lol

wish me luck guys love ya's xx

Hi all, I have 3 boys and we are trying for a girl. So fingers crossed I get my lil girl this time. I just finished my period and I have been tracking my ovulation etc at http://www.yourdays.com

Any tips or old wives tales you would like to share with me for how to conceive a girl would be appreciated, I only know of the ovulation one.

Rae

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well again i have been disapointed to find out i have a period, yay for me congrats, NOT it is becoming beyond the joke and i know there is something wrong

ever since i had my third baby 9 mths ago i have my periods like i've had my throat cut or something and i've bled for 4 mths straight and then i've been late and the cramps are so severe with the pain that there has been several times i've screamed for my husband to call an ambulance, now i have a high tolerance for pain as i had all three girls natural and one fractured my pelvis and the other did something to my coxic bone while being born posteria that was my last baby, Rhyleagh

so it's not like it's a simple cramp this is something more than that and i know that it is as my dr wanted me to go and get checked for fibroids and that was when i bled for 4 mths on the pill mind you and the strongest one at that and he even changed my pill just in case that was the problem but nope i still bled and i have been off the pill for 4 mths now and i'm starting to really get worried as the longest it has ever taken me to get pregnant is just 2 weeks and with my first two it was just a few days off the pill

does anyone have any idea's or know of something that can help me apart from the obvious like going and getting checked which i plan to tomorrow as i couldn't get in today

i'm really worried and starting to get scared, please help!!!!!!!

Hi all

Was just wondering how long after you've missed your period should you use a home pregnancy test?

Thanks

Hi all

I'm new to Minti.  My husband and I are trying for our first child.  I've been searching the net for tips on getting pregnant besides the obvious.  Any feedback or tips would be appreciated.

speak to you all soon.

well i know and i guess i'll have to keep bloody trying, sorry guys no luck this month

well i just have to relax a little more then i think i'll take the approach of not wanting to and maybe it will happen or i can just get really pissed and hope for the best lmao

wish me luck hehe xx