To all those other mothers whos kids have just hit double figures. Whew Weve made it this far.
Im just new here and thought I would join in with this blog.
My son has just started getting interested in girls - he has a "girlfriend" called Katie who is a year older than him. Very boss this one - hope it doesnt last  Im sort of glad that we have moved out of town so she just cant come over when she likes. My concern is that her parents arnt overly concerned about her whereabouts. The first time she came to our house after school I asked her if her mum knew where she was and she said as long as she was home before dark it didnt matter.  I asked her if she would like to call her mum and tell her where she was so she did. I asked to talk to her mum as this lady had never met me and I know that I would like to know where my kids where after school.
The next time she arrived at our doorstep was a Friday afternoon. She had her sleeping bag with her and I asked where she was going. She said that Blair had invited her to sleep over that night and her mum had said it was OK. I couldnt believe it. One thing I would never let them do is sleep over each others house and also this mother had never met me, had no contact numbers for me or anything.
Im I being overly concerned or am I right in my thinking that children of 10 & 11 shouldnt be doing things like this? Neither of my sons would be allowed to stay over at a girlfriends place unless they were close friends and I knew the parents.
I would like to know what others think. Only have to make it through another year then she will be off to high school and Blair will forget about her. We can only hope.
Bye For Now
Trudy |