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gecko-baby

Update on bub's and i

by gecko-babyComment Published at 00:3300:335 comments5 comments18 Visits18 VisitsReport

 

hi everyone

well to be honest this time round i was hoping for a much different pregnancy, with my son i spent 6.5 months in hospital and then he wanted out early 31.5 weeks and spent all up 10 weeks in hospital before we could bring him home.

so far with this pregnancy it is almost about the same as my son's.  i have been as sick if not sicker with this bub, I've had now 4 doctors tell me that this is going to be my last pregnancy cause if i was to go for a 3rd it would only kill me.

3 weeks ago i was told that i have had a stroke, not a popped blood vessel but a stroke.  leading up to it i was getting super migraines i would lose feeling in my right arm and get tingling on my left side. at first my doctors thought that it was to do with an old injury from a riding accident, but with all the "safe" test they were proven wrong.  when it started to look like that it was in fact a stroke they then did all the "bad" tests to confirm their fears.

from what  they have told me this is a really rare thing to have happen in pregnancy.  there really isn't much information out there on it, there is lots on stroke itself but not much to do with pregnancy.  my doctor is still trying to get more information for me.

at this stage they think that bub's is fine and wasn't effected by the stroke. so fingers crossed.  but i know that bub's is ok cause there seems to be a non stop party happening in there that's for sure lol.  with my son coming at 31.5 weeks they are saying that this bub will come around the same time but they are going to do everything that they can to keep bub's in there for just a little longer.

i still haven't gotten all the feeling back in the right arm but am getting there.

because of all of this my heart is now a little weaker and they aren't to sure why, I've had to walk around for days with heart monitors on to see what my heart is doing, one minute its fine and then the next it's racing and i have a pain in my chest, or it goes really slow and then really fast,  the doctors have told me that when this happens I'm to call and ambulance and get to the nearest hospital as they don't know what will happen.

so between the non stop vomiting (and the Zofren not working anymore) and all the other things that have been happening. i am trying really hard to stay positive about everything.

next Friday we are off for our 19 week scan and to find out what this partying bub is, this is something i am really looking forward to, and i am really hoping for a little girl. but I'll be happy as long as bub's is healthy.
 

I'm booked in for a c-section on the 24th Feb 09 at this stage just got to get there first.

i hope that everyone is enjoying their pregnancies and that all is going well for you all.

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Trik
October 9th | Trik
Re: Update on bub's and i

Wow you are really going through a lot right now!! You sound as though you are coping with it all very well and being strong, i take my hat off to you. It really put things in perspective for me and I am going to try and not complain as much now lol.

I wish you all the very best & look forward to hearing good news from you - you really deserve it!!

Trik :o)



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      gecko-baby
October 9th | gecko-baby
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thanks Trik

at times it is really hard to be strong there are days where i really do worry about bub's.  most days i just try to put it out of my mind as much as i can but also keep track of what is happening with my body.

sweetie you are aloud to complain as much as you want and don't let anyone tell you different.

i hope that everything goes really well with the rest of your pregnancy with baby Lilli.



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           Trik
October 9th | Trik
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Thank you, you are very sweet & I admire you greatly!!

Trik x



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cathbusymum
October 9th | cathbusymum
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Gee I really feel for what you are going through. I'm sure you are thinking of the baby ahead of yourself.  We are all here for you. I'm glad the doctors are looking after you so much. Biggest of hugs and sending a million positive vibes. Good luck with the scan and please let us know how it goes.

Love Cath xxoo



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      gecko-baby
October 9th | gecko-baby
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thanks Cath

for all the positive vibes, it was a really big shock when they told me about the stroke, but with everything that is going on with the pregnancy and with hubby working afternoon nights and a 2.5 yr old that is go go go i kinda put it out of my mind well as well as i can at times

i know when I've done to much and have to stop and sit but all that matters to me is that bub's is healthy and that the stroke hasn't effected bub's in anyway.

i have a great support of friends and family around me which is a great help also.

hope all is well with you and your family



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