They say have a baby, grow on you.And they are right ever baby is different. It does matter what advice you get, I think it is the baby themselves who let you learn about them. I am only saying this is because I am a 44 year old and I have had 5 children, four girls and my baby boy who is now three. and every one of them was different. Manly the boy. My advice to you two lovely people is to take one day at a time, because they will grow on you and they will teach you thing. that not even your own parents wouldn't even no. you can read my advice that I wrote. And boy it is so true. I hope it goes ok and keep us informed karen