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jake is a monster.. in a good way. he growls at us l;ike a lil monster. he does it all the time. he think its hillarious.

did ur boys make funny noises as babies??

xoxo

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Has anyone had problems with their Sons' not being able to focus on the task at hand, especially at school?  I'm sure this is a problem not isolated to boys but was just wondering if you have had this in your own family or immediate family and if so, how did you find out, what did you do about it and was there a clinical/medical reason for it? 

Curious.

My little darling (23 months) has started with the screaming thing again.  Whenever we do or say something he doesn't like/wants (like changing his diaper)  he starts screaming at full volume until he is bright red in the face... and then some. He started this about a year ago, I ignored it and after a week it stopped, unfortunately it does not appear to be working this time. Last night we went to a restaurant and he started screaming again, I tried diverting his attention but was not really successful with that either.

At home I have tried to reason with him by acknowledging that he is frustrated and trying to get him to talk to me (he is not talking too well though either) I have tried ignoring it or when it gets really bad I have put him in time-out. It does seem to be getting worse though

If anyone can provide any help (apart from ear plugs) at all I would greatly appreciate it! We will be taking a 15 hour flight in 2 weeks and I really want to try to nip it in the bud before then (lol I am seeking a miracle!)

Lorna 

Well, Harrison  in the morning and not wanting to go back to sleep.  He is happy and quiet if I am in his room and rubbing his back or even just standing there.  But I go to leave and the water works start.  I leave his room and he cries.  If I close the door, he just gets up and follows me. 

I have made the mistake of giving in and letting him come into bed with me when dean is away (is just so much easier) but it isn't like he goes right to sleep.  He lays there playing with his binky/dummy flipping around, saying hi mommy, and when he has had enough, says all done.  This morning, I was practically yelling at him to lay down and go to sleep-we were in the spare bedroom. 

It was the rain last night that woke him up so that was the excuse there.  but  normally, it is seemingly nothing. 

I am at my wits end with what to do with him.  It doesn't seem that he really wants me or to be in my bed, just that he can't sleep and wants a friend.  I don't know what the hell to do.  And at 0430, I am tired and tend to go the easy route...

Any suggestions would be appreciated

Do any seasoned mothers of boys have any tips as to how I can stop him tipping everything out to get at one item.  Yesterday my son pulled the whole linen cupboard out as he was looking for soemthing that is not even in the linen cupboard, then he got every pair of pjs out cause he wanted a specific pair (batman)  I don't even know why every hat, scarf and glove they own was also on the floor.  Then to top it off, he climbed up the fridge to get the camera down and dropped it in the process - grrrr.....

I've just heard the words....."It's funny when i put sandwich in his hair".  That's great, lets not EAT the sandwich lets rub it in our brothers hair!!

This is what my one year old is up to at the moment:

Running - usually straight for the stairs when someone has left the gate open....

Climbing - usually climbing on the dinning table and throwing my folded laundry everywhere.....

Reaching Up High - usually groping for something on the kitchen bench and pulling it off....like a knife or plate..

Standing - usually on the oven door to get a better view of the bench...

Jumping - usually on the dishwasher door when my trying to load it...

Being Inquisitive - usually ripping everything out of draws, cupboards, bookcase, but not toy box, and throwing the contents around the room

Typing - usually randomly slamming the keys on the computer when i'm on it....

Sound familiar to anyone? Oh joy, joy!

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I was wondering about peoples opinion and thoughts about circumcision. I have found it a very touchy subject.

I am not ashamed to say I had both my boys circumcised and am sick of getting "looks" when I change my 2 month olds nappy in front of my local midwives. I believe it is a personal choice, I don't judge people or disrespect people for choosing not to have it done, it is every parents right to choose. I would just like the same respect given to my choice.

Is it going to be another taboo subject parents can't discuss because it could cause conflict? I think its rubbish if we are mature enough to raise children we should be mature enough to have civilised discussion and respect other parents choices.

Sorry for venting but I thought there might be some other mums here who understand. I understand if people don't want to reveal if their boys are done or not. It is very touchy I just needed to express my annoyance.

Hi there,

What a great place to come and vent our "boy" stories lol.  They do seem to be a different breed LOL.   My name is  Stacey and I have 2 boys Jordan who is 2 yrs and 4 months and Tyler who is 8 weeks.  I have already found Jordan to be alot different to most little girls, why is that? lol.  Great idea, great place for advice and stories galore.

xoxo