I was given formula by the health nurse!
When my daughter went to the child health nurse for her 2 month needles, the nurse noticed i was feeding her when she called in the woman before me. By the time it was my turn she had finished her feed. The nurse then took her in, gave her the needles (which broke my heart!) and I immediately offered her the breast and a cuddle for comfort and to reassure her that even though she went through some pain just then I was still there to give her love and comfort. When we went in to talk about her progress, she again took to the breast for the 3rd time in half an hour. The nurse told me she wasn't getting any satisfaction from the breastmilk and offered me formula. I didn't have a lot of support, but was determined and knew the benefits of extended breastfeeding as I had done a lot of reading through the pregnancy. She told me that both her daughters were formula babies and they formula feed their kids too so it's good for them to have that if the mother is struggling with breastfeeding. I wasn't struggling, she just needed it more often that day for comfort due to the fact she endured those painful needles and didn't know what it was! Many people who had babies when I did gave up breastfeeding before 3 months and thought I was from another planet. Their comments were that the child health nurse told them they weren't coping and gave them free formula to see how baby went with it. I went on to breastfeed until my baby self-weaned at 2.5 years.
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