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hrs2004

Stopping feeding

by hrs2004Comment Published at 15:0215:023 comments3 comments86 Visits86 VisitsReport

I know that this isn't quite the subject here, but I am pleased to say that I have finally stopped fedding Nyle at 16 months. Gosh, was it a battle. Nyle loved to be fed and is an all-round affectionate boy - he always comes up for cuddles - and he really didn't and still doesn't want to stop. I feel though that the time is right for me to get my body back. I kept on feeding him because we were going away on holiday and staying in a small flat (apartment) and I knew that if he woke up in the night I would have to get him quiet before he wok up all the neighbours, and feeding him would be the best thing. Well, surprise surprise, he soon worked this out and at the end woke up sometimes as much as every hour to be fed and would only go back to sleep attached. So, from only one feed in the morning, at one point I was feeding him as much as seven times in the day/night again. Fool! I had to go cold turkey when we got back, after having cut down again whilst we were away, because his sleep was getting so disrupted by the desire to feed. It has now been a month and apart from twice when I gave in (after a nasty fall down the stairs and one night when he woke up boiling hot and unwell from a nasty cold) I have stuck firm. He still stands at the side of the bath pointing and looking hopefull and now pulls at my t-shirt saying "no!" with a grin on his face, but the tantrums have stopped and maybe one day he will forget...

Well, I am pleased to have lasted so long but perhaps wish I had given up a little earlier as I think the transition might have been shorter, but hey. I now have my once impressive but now slightly saggy boobs back and they are all mine! No more drop-cup bras! The time was well and truly right for me, although I think I might just have created a breast-man in later life!

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Izzy
2.85 (Average) | May 2007 | Izzy
getting your body back
I too rejoiced when my son weaned at 12 months. I thought.. finally, my body is mine!!! Of course it wasn't as bad as when he was younger, because I was only feeding 2x a day by the time I weaned... but still. There are other things breastfeeding affects... like libido.


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gillygirl
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | gillygirl
Great effort!
What a great job you did to feed for 16months! Congratulations! Maybe its time to treat yourself to something nice as a reward for all your hard work.  I can understand how you want your body back to yourself and good on you for doing what was right for you.


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KathrynR1402
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | KathrynR1402
Well done

Everyone has a different point when they feel it is time to stop, and 16 months is a pretty long time! I managed just over two years (I had 2 years in mind but then hubby was working away a lot around then and I didnt want to go cold turkey without his help!). She didnt put up too much of a fight, though Im glad I wasnt in the house for the first night! One good thing with two year olds is they understand a lot, so I think that helped me. Sounds like your bright young man understands plenty too though! When I stopped my main fear was "what do I do when I REALLY need to comfort her?!? A quick feed had always been able to calm her in 3 sucks - amazing! Well, she had a fall on a ladder about 9 months later and guess what comforted her instead - chocolate! There I was on the phone to NHS Direct asking "do I need to take her in to hospital?" "What's she doing now?" "Eating chocolate" "Oh, she cant be too bad then. Take her to see your family doctor by the close of surgery tonight just to be safe." She had a very bruised nose and two black eyes but was fine otherwise. Two weeks later she fell down a friends stairs and carpet-burned her nose. Chocolate again! Comfort feeding with breast milk isnt half as guilt inducing as with chocolate! Oh well - there's a time for everything!

And there's definitely nothing wrong with breast-man hehe!



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