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16
Jan
mcm

Birth trauma

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Birth Trauma
By Sarah at Ilithyia Inspired (reproduced with permission)
http://www.ilithyiainspired.com/2009/01/2009-year-of-birth-trauma-awareness.html

2009 is the year of birth trauma awareness. Birth trauma is an issue in desperate need of conscious raising, it is largely invisible to mainstream society and frequently misrepresented and misdiagnosed as postnatal depression. When birth trauma is misdiagnosed as postnatal depression women's bodies and hormones are made the scapegoats of a maternity system that is broken and harms the very people it should be caring for. Of course birth trauma can lead to depression, but depression is quite of merely a symptom of the much bigger problem.

What is Birth Trauma?

The Birth Trauma Association of The United Kingdom defines birth trauma as post traumatic stress disorder that occurs after childbirth. They state:

PTSD is the term for a set of normal reactions to a traumatic, scary or bad experience. It is a disorder that can occur following the experience or witnessing of life-threatening events. We usually recognize these as things like military combat, natural disasters, terrorist incidents, serious accidents, or violent personal assaults like rape. However, a traumatic experience can be any experience involving the threat of death or serious injury to an individual or another person close to them (e.g. their baby) so it is now understood that Post Traumatic Stress Disorder can be a consequence of a traumatic birth. (BTA)

What Causes Birth Trauma?

There are a number of factors that can contribute to birth trauma and whether or not a woman's birth becomes traumatic depends heavily on who is present in her birth space. Some causes of birth trauma include (list inspired by the list from Birth Trauma Support Group Seattle):

* Care providers who do not listen to the mother.
* Care providers not considering the mother's emotional, psychological, spiritual and physical needs.
* Impersonal, insensitive or judgemental attitude of care providers.
* Care providers failing to adequately explain what they are doing and why.
* Care providers not giving mothers time or space to either consent or refuse procedures.
* Care providers not seeking consent before carrying out tasks.
* Care providers failing to pay attention to mothers dignity during birth.
* Staff changes, strangers in the birth space coming and going as they please.
* Care providers bullying mothers into consenting to procedures they would not otherwise consent to.
* Unfamiliar birth environment.
* Managed labour (eg drips, monitors, augmentation, induction) as opposed to undisturbed labour.
* Unwanted interventions.
* Multiple vaginal exams.
* Violation of birth plan/Care providers ignoring the preferences of the mother.
* Previous experiences of sexual abuse (flashbacks).
* Previous experience of birth trauma (flahsbacks).
* Unnecessary caesarean section performed for staff convenience.
* Separation from baby after birth.
* Unexpected outcomes and interventions.
* Inadquate emotional support.

The Birth Trauma Support Group of Seattle notes that:

"Until such time as child birth becomes recognized as a monumental event that impacts not just the physical body, but also the emotions and spiritual aspects of our humanity then [birth trauma] is likely sadly to continue."

Why is it Invisible to Most People?

By and large birth trauma goes unrecognised in our society and one of the major reasons for this is that Western culture blindly accepts that childbirth is meant to be a traumatic experience and that trauma is a natural part of giving birth. This of course, is not true. You only have to take a look at documentaries like Orgasmic Birth and websites like Positive Birth Stories, Joyous Birth and Born Free to know that birth is not by nature a traumatic event.

It is not birth itself which is traumatic, but what happens to the birthing woman during her labour that can cause the experience to become traumatic for her. Saying birth is traumatic is like saying sex is rape: one is a normal physiological function our bodies are designed to do and that we can derive pleasure from, and the other results from an abuse of our bodies and violation of trust.

This is not to say that you can have an easy or orgasmic birth simply by employing the right care provider (or none at all), it's not called labour for nothing. However, there is a vast difference between an experience being challenging and it being traumatic. For example, one mother who had a very long labour found that birth experience to be challenging, but after the birth she felt elated at having triumphed despite the challenge and walked away with new found respect for herself, and another mother who had a traumatic birth in which she was given repeated vaginal exams and an episiotomy which she did not consent to. The latter woman experienced nightmares and flashbacks of the birth and developed trust and body image issues that found their way into her marriage and sex life.

It is also worth considering that birth is a woman-specific experience and therefore birth trauma and violence against women are often one and the same in the birth space. In a world where violence against women is rife and yet few resources are allocated to erradicating this social problem it is little wonder that the violence comitted against women at birth goes unrecognised.

How to Avoid Birth Trauma?

One of the simplest ways to avoid having a traumatic birth experience is to stay home. Home is a safe space, it is the mother's personal space. Unlike a hospital or birth centre the mother has great power in determining who enters her birth space, and what those present do whilst in her space.

Hiring birth support people such as a doula or a birth specialist such as an independent midwife (regardless of where she chooses to give birth) is an excellent way of avoiding birth trauma. With a privately employed support team the mother can hand choose who provides her medical and/or emotional support during labour. Throughout pregnancy she can develop a rapport with the one (or however many she wishes) midwife or doula and develop a birth plan with them therefore dramatically decreasing the risk of having her trust violated during labour.

Knowledge is power. Know your options, know what happens at normal undisturbed birth, know your body, know your care providers, know your birth space. This goes for the fathers, partners, aunts and grandmothers who might be invited into a mother's birth space. It is important that everyone at a birth is well informed about normal birth and about the mother's birth plan.

In Conclusion...

Birth trauma is real.
Birth is not traumatic by nature.
Birth can be made traumatic by care providers.
Significantly decrease your risk of birth trauma by birthing at home with trusted care providers & loved ones!

Resources (visit blog for links)

16
Jan
mcm

Rape is RAPE.

by mcmComment Published at 22:1922:190 comments0 comments7 Visits7 VisitsReport

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16
Jan
mcm

Birth trauma awareness poster (Birthrape - Do you know your rights?)

by mcmComment Published at 22:1722:170 comments0 comments4 Visits4 VisitsReport

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16
Jan
mcm

2009 - the year of birth trauma awareness

by mcmComment Published at 22:1522:150 comments0 comments2 Visits2 VisitsReport

Use this badge.

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Spread the word.

16
Jan
mcm

Slogans about birth trauma

by mcmComment Published at 22:1022:100 comments0 comments48 Visits48 VisitsReport

Use these slogans, or write your own.

Birth trauma happens. Has it happened to you?

Birth trauma happens. It happened to me.

Birth trauma happens - deal with it!

Birth trauma happens. So does healing.

Break the silence around hospital violence

Avoid birth trauma - birth at home

Hire a surgeon, get surgery.

Women have human rights too.

Birth trauma deserves our attention.

Birth trauma deserves your attention.

Does birthrape offend you? Good.

Yes means yes, no means no,
However we dress, wherever we go -
And that means in hospitals too!

Did your rapist wear a mask and gown? Mine did.

Episiotomy is genital mutilation.

Doctors, what do you do when a woman says no?

Midwives, what do you do when a woman says no?

I own my body and I give birth.

Epidurals are a pain in the back.

Fingers, forceps, hands, ventouse, baby - which one belongs in a vagina?

Did you feel your caesarean? I did.

Women say no to birth intervention and yes to powerful birthing!

Better a yummy mummy than a numb mummy. Say no to epidurals.

Drugs in birth? Just say NO!

Avoid birth trauma - manage your own birth.

Birth trauma is not a baby's choice.

Birthrape on demand, a surgeon's right to choose.

My body, my birth, my choice.

Birthrape - happening at a hospital near you.

Birth trauma - coming to a woman near you.

You deserve a great birth so stay home.

Unwanted interventions = birth trauma.

Vaginal exams without consent are rape.

Birth is not a medical condition. Leave women alone.

Birth is not surgeons' business.
Birth is women's business.

Consent is not consent when it’s obtained by lying or coercion.

The “dead baby” card does not obtain consent. It coerces women.

Did you know birth trauma can make women suicidal?

Did you know birth trauma happens?

Have you heard of birthrape?

Coerced surgery is human rights abuse. Women and babies deserve respect.

Forced caesareans are the ultimate violation of women’s human rights.

Doctors are not gods. Midwives are not gods.
Women can run their own lives.

Birth trauma resources on the Joyous Birth website: http://www.joyousbirth.info/birthtrauma.html

16
Jan
mcm

What can you do?

by mcmComment Published at 22:0822:080 comments0 comments7 Visits7 VisitsReport

What can you do to be part of this community effort?

Follow your passion in this three stranded project. We need to talk about:

How to avoid birth trauma.

How to heal from birth trauma.

How to raise awareness about birth trauma.

* put a birth trauma awareness sticker on your car, pram, bicycle helmet, letterbox, gate, fence, front door
* sew a birth trauma awareness patch on your sling or wrap
* put your traumatic birth pics on youtube with appropriate captions raising awareness
* drop off JB pamphlets and info on normal physiological birth to your local medical centre
* tell someone about your birth trauma
* write a letter to your daily, local or national newspaper
* talk to your community group, ABA group, mothers' group however casually you like
* tell your GP if you have one
* tell your natural therapists and give them some JB brochures
* take a few pamphlets everywhere just in case the need arises
* say “Birthrape is real" on mainstream internet forums
* change your sig to something supportive of BTAY on mainstream forums
* put a link to JB on your website, blog, community group website or anywhere else you can
* host a showing of BOBB in your local area and invite the newspapers
* go to anything women-related and talk about birth trauma - WEL, CWA, IWD.....
* do some community-minded graffiti or even a mural!
* write stuff on toilet walls in maternity hospitals
* do some Wiki edits
* put a birth trauma quote in your email sig
* ring the radio when talkback time is on and talk about your experience of traumatic birth
* do an essay at uni about it if you can, or a tutorial presentation
* Join forces! Get involved with your other local homebirth and maternity groups. Volunteer your time, and bounce ideas off others.

 

16
Jan
mcm

2009 the year of birth trauma awareness

by mcmComment Published at 22:0522:050 comments0 comments4 Visits4 VisitsReport
2009 – The year of Birth Trauma Awareness
Enough is enough.
We will no longer stand by while our sisters, partners, friends and babies are mutilated and traumatised.
The silence ends now.
16
Jan
mcm

Don't babies deserve healthy mothers?

by mcmComment Published at 21:0621:060 comments0 comments9 Visits9 VisitsReport

Birth trauma myths

No, a healthy baby is not all that matters.

"Don’t babies deserve healthy mothers as well?"

16
Jan
mcm

2009 the year of birth trauma awareness

by mcmComment Published at 21:0421:040 comments0 comments5 Visits5 VisitsReport

2009 is the year of birth trauma awareness.

Birth trauma (links)

Birth trauma assoc UK

I will add links and info as I come across them.

This is a serious issue.

 

16
Jan
mcm

Birth trauma awareness

by mcmComment Published at 20:5820:580 comments0 comments5 Visits5 VisitsReport

 

 

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