i was just wondering how some of you coped when it came it came to the time you were due to finish work to go on maternity leave(if you were woking at the time).i`m having that week off. it is only 3 weeks away and all i can think of is i`d be so many weeks now and i`d be going on leave soon.and also when it came to your due date.which is hard for us because it is 4 days before our girls 3rd birthday.i have also booked that week off from work.and the most dreaded time christmas.it just seems some days i`m fine others all i can think about is our baby and when i have a few hundred drinks on friday or saturday night i can`t help but think about it and it seems it`s really the only time i can fully express to people who ask how i felt or am still feeling and then i end up in tears.(it just depends how much i`ve drunk)
I understand Sweety,hard choices,hard to live with but you are not going to just get over the loss,it's going to take time. Give yourself the right to mourn because you suffered a great loss. You've been through an emotional rollercoaster so give yourself some time to heal.
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