not that i agree with this form of discrimination, by the way. just think, each 2 their own

Not sure what you mean? Do you mean a birthing women has to be careful not to upset others?
I felt this in my hosp births which ultimately is why I freebirthed. I didn't want to deal with other people's agendas during MY labour.

I have to admit its a good thing they are being straight up that its their agenda they're interested and not the one of the mother. At least you know where you stand.