Well this is very new to me but thought it was worth a try if anyone has good advice for me, I have 5 children and my 16 yr old has a problem with telling the truth, you know the funny thing about it is he never really got in much trouble other then we were very disappointed in him and explained he did not want to live his life with no one believing him, very sad. Now his grades have dropped and he tells me he has talked to the teacher when in actuality he has not, and he knows we will find out, I am on the computer with his teachers all the time, he is so tender hearted and a good kid, his lying gets him down I know, just don't know what to do about it. Here is what we've tried, Grounding from friends all week if grades are c- or lower and can hang out on weekends this was hard for him at first but now it does not seem to mind, and as far as his lying I just tell him I don't believe him and would he tell me the truth but he holds strong and continues on, so really there has been no discipline for lying what do you do??? |