This is going to sound really odd, but have you tried using the Mamia brand of nappy wipes?  I've used them to get red wine out of the carpet before, and they have worked well.

I swear by the sard stick it did get the stain out of my angora jumper after being there for about three years after it happened I put it away in a plastic bag then wnted to wear it and Doh so as I said I tried and suceeded ( as Janice said a brooch would look great and in fashion to or you can glitter it to acsentuate it ) 

 Good try Mel, it looks pretty good from here. Maybe it should have been done a bit earlier.

I swear by those two products, especially with the mess Steve can get into working outside and after his a sausage sandwich at golf on saturdays, half of it ends up  down the front of his shirt, grub!

If you haven't put any heat near the garment it might be worth another go soaking it in the Napisan over night, won't hurt.