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Some people will never learn...

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To keep there mouths shut!!   ARGHHHH!!!!

Tdoay I was out and about.  I was in Target looking at kids clothes, when two middle aged or a bit older ladies came up to me and started ohing and ahing about my baby.  I was asked how old he was, 6mth I said,  and one said to him ooohhhh I bet your hungry you look undeweight.  I ignored the comment while the other one continued talking to me and showing me a photo of her grandson.  

Now the comment really irritated me but hey, I will get over it as I know myself that he eats, drinks, and is growing and putting on weight.  He may not eat as much as some babies ( I know this cause of my mothers group) but that dosn't matter. 

I just wonder when will people learn to keep there bloody mouths shut?????

If you can see it have a look at my homepage there is a picture of bubs there (may not see it as I made it private) and you can judge for yourself.

 

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cassaustin
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | cassaustin
Re: Some people will never learn...

Ignore them Angie!! Your little man is gorgeous! He looks perfect in every way. Anyone who thinks otherwise has S#*T for brains!!

Dont worry about the other babies eating more either. Every baby is different!

 



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      ajv00
January 2008 | ajv00
Re: Some people will never learn...

yes cass your right thanks for the reminder every baby is different.  I now will not care one hoot what other think, it is what I think and my partner thinks that matters.

the lot of them can get STUFFED



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missnickley
January 2008 | missnickley
Re: Some people will never learn...

Basically F*#K them.

I know it is hard to ignore other peoples comments, even when you really want to, some things just dig in and burrow and fester! LOL!. Sorry for the visual there. but it is easy to say and not easy to do.

Your boy is beyond adorable. They obviously are senile and that is all there is too it! Dont judge on other babies, its an easy trap to fall into with mothers group, but when you compare, eveyone will come out 'wrong' at some stage.

Just give him a hug and enjoy the time till he takes off!!



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      ajv00
January 2008 | ajv00
Re: Some people will never learn...

Thank you..  eeeewwww and what a visual that is LOL.  I try had not to judge but I guess we all do it at some stage.  I know he is growing and putting on weight that is all there is too it.

STUFF everyone else



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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Ngairi
Re: Some people will never learn...
He looks perfectly happy and healthy. And oh so gorgeous.


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      ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | ajv00
Re: Some people will never learn...
Thank you we do to


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Arna
January 2008 | Arna
Re: Some people will never learn...
He does not look underweight.  Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.  To me, he looks healthy and alert.  Bet he doesn't stay a baby for much longer though! lol.

don't worry about what other people say.  It just shows they are ignorant.


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      ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | ajv00
Re: Some people will never learn...
Thanks Arna,  couple of months ago I was stressing as he wasn't eating what the other babies in mothers group were eating so I asked the health nurse and she basically told me to stop judging against everyone else. So I do that, he just eats less but more often. 


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           Arna
January 2008 | Arna
Re: Some people will never learn...
All ours have been different, and the youngest 2 are the real food fiends, that is they eat anything in site.  All have foods and meals they don't like, and our 3 year old is going through a fussy phase, but she isn't losing weight and is happy enough.  No baby is 'normal' (a word I despise) and each grows at their own pace.


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electrifying02
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | electrifying02
Re: Some people will never learn...

hey angie

your little boy is sooooooooo cute i just want to pick him up and give hom a hug hahaha. i hate [people like that some people just dont think before speaking

love ya

bel xxx



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      ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | ajv00
Re: Some people will never learn...

Thanks bel, he is pretty cute isn't he. 

How are you feeling lately???



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           electrifying02
January 2008 | electrifying02
Re: Some people will never learn...

hey angie

yeah not to bad excited that on thursday i get my ultra sound yipee so i will know how far i am yipee

love ya

bel xxx



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Domestic-warrior
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | Domestic-warrior
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He looks beautiful to me!!  I wouldn't worry about it, she probably didn't even realise that what she said came across really tactless!  And it says more about her than you or your baby, she doesn't know when to use constructive comments and blurts out anything!!

Julie x



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      ajv00
January 2008 | ajv00
Re: Some people will never learn...

Thanks Julie,  We think he is beauitful no matter what others have to say.  I just wish that if people don't have anything nice to say then they shouldn't say anything at all.



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | cazza
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GRRRRRRRRR that gets my blood boiling as well, why do so many oldies think our children need to be obese to look cute... I wouldnt have being able to hold my tongue and said he is fine and i dont need to explain to u how i feed my son, she is a stranger that u may never cross paths with again,,.,.

You have a beuitiful little boy and he is your pride and Joy and dont let some old Biddy doubt the way he is. or the way you are as  a mum, u are a great mum....

xxx cazza


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      ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | ajv00
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Thank you for the positive comment, makes me feel much better.  I am just so angry that people think they have the right to say things like that.  And in this day and age they should know better!!!   obese is not cute and not healthy, then again neither is skinny and I know my baby is not either of these.


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boredmum
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | boredmum
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Angie, don't pay any attention to what silly bloody people say!  He looks like a normal healthy gorgeous bubba to me.

Some people will never learn to keep their mouths shut, you just have to ignore them or tell them to mind their bloody own business!

Take a chill pill,

Dee



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      ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2008 | ajv00
Re: Some people will never learn...
Your right I shouldn't pay any attention to them it just gets up my goat or whatever the saying is that some people think they have the right to speak like that.!!!


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