HELLO HELLO !!!!!!!!!!!!! hehehe

Ok, so I said that if I didn't blog before Christmas, then I'd be wishing you all a Merry Christmas before then..

But howdy ho, I'm here.. on Christmas Day !!! LOL

Nah, I'm awake because I went to my brother's house for a family Christmas party.. and it was great !!!!!!
Great food, people, entertainment... it was all so nice :)

It kinda restored my faith in the Christmas holiday..
Because it was so nice opening presents and seeing how much effort people put into our gifts :)

It was nice to have my family all together..
And reminiscing about how life used to be like when we were younger.. hehe

Anyways, it's 2.26am here and Christmas Day only began 2 and 1/2 hours ago.. LOL

I just want to thank everyone on here for making this a great year for me..
To be honest, before Minti, I felt so alone, I didn't really have friends who understood me..
But then I found so much more in you guys..
You taught me things, lifted my spirits, listened to my sob stories.. hehe

Thank you for making 2008 one of the best years of my life..
And let's toast to a great year in 2009 !!!! (Orange juice for me though.. I'm still pregnant remember. LOL)

On that note, I'm in my final trimester now.. YAYY !!!!!
I'm 28 weeks and 3 days today :) Only 12 weeks to go :) Let's hope it goes fast.. hehe :)

I hope you all have a VERY VERY Merry Christmas.. and enjoy the time that you have with your family and friends..
And I hope that you all have a Happy New Year.. with 2009 being the year for new beginnings and accomplishments :)

MERRY CHRISTMAS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



All my love,
Thuy xoxoxoxoxoxox

HELLO ALL !!!!!!!!

Yes, it's me, the pregnant woman who has disappeared off the face of the planet. lol

Nah, sorry for not blogging in a month, life's been pretty hectic, and the pregnancy has been making me SOO TIRED :(
I've had bad morning sickness since I was about 8 weeks, and I'm almost 26 weeks.. so yep, it sucks :( lol

But anywho, a lot's been happening..

The biggest thing of all is about 2 weeks ago, we moved into our new home..
It was the toughest decision of my life, to be honest..
It's funny, you get married, you have kids, and you think that somehow there'll be that defining moment that makes you say: "Wow, I'm old now" LOL
But to be honest, that real moment came when Lawrence and I were faced with a decision, and instead of doing the "young adult" thing and going with what we wanted, we went with what we thought we NEEDED..
And I'll say, we feel so proud of ourselves..

If you've read my first Minti article, you would know that my parents were helping us with our mortgage..
Well, it reached almost $5000 per month, and we thought, was this stress even worth it??
And what sort of life are we living, if we have to rely on our parents?
It wasn't at all about pride, it was just the realisation that WE are parents now, we have a responsibility to our children..
And if we can't pay for the mortgage by ourselves, what's next.. their school fees?? Their clothes??
We wanted to feel financially secure, and live life WITH money, not a life revolving AROUND money..
So, we said, we'll do what we never wanted to do - we'll sell the house..
And it was a very hard decision to make at first, that house has so many memories.. but we knew we were doing the right thing..

And now, we're living in our house that Lawrence pays all by himself, it's closer to his work, it means we don't have to stress so much about money, it means we can provide a happier life for Alisha, and for our new baby on the way, Alexia.. and for our future children..
And it's great.. we're so much happier now :)

And unlike people our own age, we could have taken the easy way out, we could have said:
"Nah, we'll keep asking for help" but we thought: "No, we'll do the right thing, the mature thing, and start anew"

I feel so proud of Lawrence and I, we defintely don't feel like we're only 20 and 21. LOL

This whole moving experience has made me realise another two things..
How much I love Lawrence..
And also how much I love Alisha.
At first, the move was very hard for me, being the one who stays at home, it was hard for me to adjust..
But I kept trying to move forward, because I knew how much the move meant to Lawrence, and how much it would positively change his life..
And it was then that I realised that I love Lawrence more than I ever knew..
When you can do something for someone, without a hint of selfishness, without a hesitation in your mind; that is LOVE..
And in regards to Alisha, I did this for her, because I knew it would create a better future for her, give her parents that she deserved.. parents that wouldn't always worry about money, that could play with her, without a care in the world..
And so, when you can do something for someone, who hardly understands a word you say, nor the actions you take; but can see it in your eyes how much you love them; that is LOVE..

So yes, I am MUCH MUCH MUCH happier now :) hehehehe
We thought it was a good thing to move now, before Alexia is born, so we have something stable for her :)

Anywho, I'll give a quick recap of everything else, then it's onto some pictures !!!!!! HEHEHE LOL

Oh yes, the pregnancy has been going well.. the doctors don't seem to be worried :)
But the nausea has been DREADFUL :(
I feel really really bad everyday basically, I just got unlucky :(
Sometimes I just feel very bad the whole day, or sometimes I actually throw up a little.. :(
But right now, I think the most important thing is the health of the baby, which is why I'm hardly online, because I'm usually resting :)

And Alisha turned 1 and 1/2 years old; on Friday, 5th December.. and so we needed to get her 18 month immunisation needles..
YAYY she didn't have any side effects.. nothing at all, not even a fever !!!
My lil daughter is a toughie :) hehehe

Omg, and we saw the paedetrician last week.. and guess what..
She said that Alisha is developing FASTER than kids her own age, and when she's older, she'll probably be good at something like piano !!!!
MY KID'S A GENIUS !!!!! LOL

Oh, and as for Lawrence, poor hubby of mine :(
He's been sick for about 3 weeks straight..
He had a throat infection, and was on antibiotics for a while..
It kept getting worse, but now it's eased up.. but he hasn't fully recovered yet :( He's still a little sick :(
But let's hope he does get better soon hey :)

Ok, time for the pictures !!!!!!!
I am soooo sorry, but there's quite a lot.. lol (I haven't blogged in a month, remember. LOL)

You guys said that you wanted to see the professional photos of Alisha, at our wedding (in October this year)..
So here are some !!

(I've reduced the quality of the images, because the originals are quite large :) hehe)

Lawrence, Alisha, and I walking down the aisle


Alisha.. with a cute lil bruise on her forehead.. poor girl :( hehehe


Alisha crying :( aww :(


Alisha crying.. but looking cute.. hehe


Alisha crying.. and pondering to herself. LOL


Family wedding photo :)


Alisha drinking her Pop Top. LOL


Alisha looking beautiful.. as always :) hehe


Now.. these are just a couple pictures that I took about a month ago :)

Alisha poking her tongue out

Alisha driving her Wiggles car, and laughing


And here are some more recent photos :)

I was pretending to poke at Alisha.. so she started laughing. LOL


Happy Alisha.. and Sleepy Daddy. LOL


Alisha eating sushi. hehehehehe so cuteeeeeeee !!!


Recent family photo :)


Daddy and Alisha cuddling


Someone who I consider to be one of the MOST beautiful people in the world, inside and out, did something very beautiful for me..
When my best friend Kell went to Melbourne recently, she met up with Annie, who gave Kell a package to pass onto me !!
You should've seen the look on my face, when I opened it to find SEVERAL gifts that Annie had bought for me and our family :)
She bought us a tea pot, Alisha a t-shirt and barbie doll, a children's face cloth, and Alexia some booties...
I just want to say, first and foremost, Annie is one of the most beautiful people you will ever meet !!!!!
I have never even met Annie in person, only spoken to her through Minti, yet she has the most beautiful heart to buy me all those things..

And as a gift to you, Annie, here is a photo of Alisha wearing the t-shirt you bought for her :)



Now, onto the other pictures :)

Alisha and Daddy at the Beach :)


Alisha and Daddy playing at the Beach.. how happy do they look :) hehehe


Alisha dancing at the Beach :) LOL
Watch out boys. LOL HAHAHA


Alisha with her hair tied up (Courtesy of me. MOI. LOL).. and food all over her face :) HAHAHA


And because you guys wanted more belly pics (*Coughs* missnickley LOL)..
Here are 4 photos that I took today, at 25 weeks and 6 days :)

Belly side on


Belly front on
(Ignore the white bra. LOL)


Belly front on again


Touching my belly side on


Wow, geez, I better stop typing before I die.. lol
And before you guys die too. lol

It's been great blogging again, I've missed you all..
(Though, you've probably seen me around.. commenting on Minti blogs and photos :) hehe)

Hope you've enjoyed reading the blog.. and looking at the pictures...
Sorry for making it so long..
I thought I'd better make up for lost time :) hehehe

And in case I don't blog before then, I hope you all have a very MERRY CHRISTMAS..
And a very HAPPY NEW YEAR !!! :)

LOVE YA'S ALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All my love,
Thuy xoxoxoxoxoxox

Hi all !!!!!!

YAYY !!!!! OUR PROFESSIONAL WEDDING PHOTOS have arrived !!!!!! Yayyyy !!!!! hehe

Anyways, there's 400 photos, so I chose the best 10, to show you guys :) hehe
I've had to reduce the quality though, because the originals are HUGE in size :) lol

But firstly, just a quick update on my life.. hehe
Sorry, I haven't been on lately..
Been so tired from the pregnancy, once again..
Been having really bad nausea, heartburn, and indigestion...
I have really bad heartburn and indigestion, as we speak :(
But yay, at least Alexia is healthy hey :) hehe

Anywho, onto the pictures !!!! LOL

Lawrence, Alisha, and I coming out of the Church


Lawrence and I feeding the ducks


Our wedding rings


Lawrence and I having a nice laugh


Kisses


More Kissing


More Kissing (This is about the time, when you tell us to get a room. LOL)


Cuddling


More Kissing (Didn't we already make the 2nd baby???!!! hahahaha)


Kissing with my veil


Hope you liked the pics..
We SOOOO think that they were worth it..
They were such a lovely company, so professional and sooo friendly..
They really made our day so much better :)

Have a great weekend, everyone !!!
Hope you're all well :)

All my love,
Thuy xoxoxoxoxoxox

Hey all,

Thought I'd better blog, in case you thought I died, or something. lol

But nah, sorry I haven't been on much, I've been SOOOOOO TIRED from the pregnancy.. so I've been resting and sleeping heaps :)
If you see me log on for a bit, it's probably 'cuz I'm using Minti on my mobile. LOL
But I'm lying down as I use it. lol

Alrite.. so much to say now. lol
Get your eyes ready. hahaha

Nah, quick update on my mum..
She didn't end up going to our wedding, which sucked.. she had to stay in the hospital, for an extra couple of days..
But it must've worked, cuz she came out of the hospital, about a week ago !!! YAYY !!!
But to be honest, I saw her on Sunday (3 days ago), and she wasn't looking too great, but yeah..
She still coughs a lot, but let's hope she finds out why she does, hey :)

We still haven't gotten our professional photos and video from the Wedding...
But that's understandable.. it's only been a little over a week.. so I haven't nagged the people yet :) LOL

I'm doing good.. I just had a shower.. so I feel as clean.. as... Pine-O-Cleen... LOL
Yes, bad joke, but hey, that's me alright. LOL

OOOH we had our Antenatal appointment today, and Alexia (the little girl in my tummy. hehehe) is doing well !!!
He said that the 20 week ultrasound showed that Alexia is growing well, and the placenta isn't in the way.. so yipppppeeeee !!!!
It felt good to know that everything is going well.. I'm so happy :)

Anyways, here are some pictures..
The first two were taken during our Wedding reception..
And the rest were taken today :)

Here's me and Alisha during the Wedding reception :)



Me and Alisha during the Wedding reception again :) hehe



Here are 4 pictures of my Pregnant Belly, taken today.. at 20 weeks and 2 days :)

Belly side-on.. I'm a yummy mummy. LOL PMSL



More belly



Belly-licious. LOL hahahahaha
Can't think of any other ways to say 'belly' LOL
Ok, 'tummy' is one.. but hey, 'Belly-licious' sounded cooler. hahahahaha



BELLY BELLY. lol
I look huge here. lol



And a few days ago, we decided to go shopping for Alexia..
So we got her some newborn clothes... hehehehe :)
Couldn't help it :) hehehehe lol

Here are pictures of some of the things we bought for our second daughter.. we bought quite a few.. whoops. LOL
Too excited :) hehe
But all good, it was hell cheap. lol

Aww here's the Bib that Alisha picked out for her new baby sister :)



Here's a bodysuit we bought for Alexia :)
It says.. 'sweetheart'.. AWWWWWWW. hehehehe
Man, you forget how small babies are hey.. hehehe.. I can't believe Alisha used to be this small. hehehehe
It's a 00000 sized bodysuit, btw :)



And here's the matching 'sweetheart' bib. hehehehe



We also got Alexia a swing thingy, cuz it was on sale.. hehehehehehe
But sorry, no pic of that.. it's still in the box. LOL
We wanna keep it in the box, then when Alexia is old enough, we'll put it together.. to make it more special :) hehehehe

Anyways, I'm pregnant and lazy, so I'm gonna stop blogging now. LOL

Hope you enjoyed the boring update.. and cute pics. LOL

LOVE YA'S ALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ENJOY YOUR WEEK !!!!

BIG BIG HUGS AND KISSES TO EVERYONE !!!!!!! :)

All my love,
Thuy xoxoxoxoxox

Hey again,

Sorry if I'm boring you all with my wedding details. LOL
But for those who aren't bored, here are more pictures from my Wedding on Saturday :)

These are ones that Lawrence's friend took :)

Me walking down the aisle with my Dad

Me putting the Ring on Lawrence's finger

Being pronounced Husband and Wife !!!!!!! YAYYYYYY !!!!! hehehe

YAYYYYY.. The happy married couple..... us !!!! lol



Alisha's Baptism after the Wedding :)

Our Family walking down the aisle..
Look how cute and small Alisha is :) hehe



An Exhausted Groom. LOL



Lawrence, with his two mates, and little brother :)



Lawrence and I about to cut the Cake

The Best Man delivering his Speech to Us. hehe

Lawrence and I cutting the Cake



Me and Alisha (right after she woke up from her nap. LOL)



Me, the Best Man, and Alisha :)
How cute is our lil baby girl. hehehehehe



Awww me and Alisha.. CUTIE. hehe



Our family, the Bridal Party, Kell's hubby, a couple of Lawrence's mates, and Lawrence's brother too :)



Alisha being gangsta



Alisha being cute AND a gangsta. LOL



Alisha staring at herself. lol



Alisha as 'Australia's Next Top Baby' hahahaha



Hope you liked the pics !!!!!
I'm still waiting for those professional photos :) hehe

Oh, and just to clarify, me and Lawrence are not on our Honeymoon. lol
We never planned on going on one, we can't afford it.. but we don't really care hey :)
We figured that one day we'll go back to Hong Kong (his home town), and when we do, we'll consider it our Honeymoon :)
Plus, I don't want to fly at all, when I'm pregnant :)

But anywho, my arse hurts. lol

BUT YAYYYY I'M MARRIED !!!!!! WOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !!!!!!!!!!! LOL

LOVE YA'S ALL.. ENJOY YOUR WEEK !!!!!!

And once again, thank you to everyone for your lounge messages about our Wedding :) :)
Thanks for being such great friends :)

All my love,
Thuy xoxoxoxoxox

Hi all,

I haven't gotten my professional photos yet, as my Wedding was only yesterday. LOL

But here are some pictures that my brother's girlfriend took :)

Me and My Dad walking down the aisle



Me and Lawrence lighting our Candles



My brother doing a Reading, whilst Lawrence and I sit down
How lazy are we. LOL joking :) hahaha



Me saying my Vows to Lawrence



Lawrence putting on my Ring



Lawrence kissing the beautiful bride.. ME. LOL PMSL



Kell doing her Reading

Lawrence and I, signing the Register

Lawrence and I, signing the Register again..
With the beautiful stained glass window in the back :)



Lawrence and I eating.. like there's no tomorrow. LOL
We were hungry ok.. we had to take heaps of photos after the wedding. LOL



Anywho, hope you liked them !!!! :)

I'll let you know when I get the professional photos !!!!! hehehehe

LOVE YA'S ALL !!!!!

All my love,
Love Thuy xoxoxoxoxoxox

YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY !!!!!! WE DID IT !!!!!!! hehehehe

It's only 11.14pm here, so it's still our Wedding Day.. Saturday, 18th October, 2008 :)

It was a wonderful wonderful day !!!! :)

My mum ended up not being able to go though :(
They said that if she went, she would just have to go back to the hospital within a few hours..
And another thing is, she has to now stay at the hospital for another few days :(
Things aren't looking good..
But yeah, I gotta keep that chin up :)

It was sad not having my mum there, but I know my mum understood..
And to be honest, we just wanted it over, because planning a wedding IS SO DAMN STRESSFUL. lol

BUT YEAH, WE HAD SUCH A GREAT DAY !!!!! hehehe

I cried during my Wedding Vows..
Lawrence and I wrote our own.. and here are the Vows that we said:

Here were Lawrence's Vows for me:

For my vows, I’ve written you a poem:

Never thought I’d see the day
When I found the one to Light My Way
Pulling me through everything good and bad
By my side, never out of sight or mind
Loving me for who I am
Despite my flaws and everything I’ve done
She still loves me for me
Giving me the strength to do everything I can
I love her with all my heart and soul
Wish I could be with her every day, hour, minute and all

and so Thuy, I promise to take you as my wife, now and always.


And here were my Vows for Lawrence:

I remember when you first asked me to marry you and I said "Maybe". It wasn't because I was unsure, but because I couldn't believe that I had finally found my soul mate. When I was young, I used to watch movies like "A Walk to Remember" and cry my eyes out because I soo wanted a love like that. But I don't cry at movies like that anymore. And it's not because I've become a cold hearted person... well I hope not. But because I feel like the love felt in those movies doesn't even compare to the way I feel about you.

People often ask eachother: "How do you know when you've found The One?" I know because not only are you my significant other, but you're also my best friend. I can talk to you about anything, cry to you about everything, and laugh with you about the silliest things. I've never had that with anybody else. And I know I will only ever have that with you.

I want you to be the last person I see before I go to sleep at night, and the first face I wake up to each and every morning. I want us to have more kids, many dreams, many cruises... and I want us to do it all together.

And so here I am today, standing in front of all our family and friends, promising you, Lawrence, from this day forward, that you be the only person I ever love and cherish for the rest of our lives. Lawrence, I love you and I can't wait for me to call you my husband and for you to call me your wife.

 

And did you know.. I said my Vows OFF BY HEART.. lol
I rock. hehehehe :)

I thought I looked pretty damn good in my wedding dress.. hahaha
And Alisha looked soooo beautiful in her flower girl/baptism dress :)
And Lawrence looked FANTASTIC in his suit :)

LOL we had so much fun taking the post-ceremony photos...
We went to a park, and took a lot of loving and romantic shots..
And the photographer said we were naturals.. hahahahahahahahaha
I even joked: "When you need some models for wedding clothes, let us know" LOL

Oh, and I don't think I've mentioned this before..
But Lawrence's Dad is a Jeweller, and he surprised us with our wedding gift, a few weeks back..
He had MADE our Wedding Rings for us !!!!! And it was his own design !!! OMG !!!! hehehe
And if he were to sell the Rings, they'd be worth $3000 in total.. WOW ey !!!!! hehehehe
We thought it was so sweet, how he went about it silently, and did it for us.. so sweet :)

YES, I WOULD LOVE TO SHOW YOU ALL SOME PHOTOS, but the professional photos won't be coming for at least a few more days, or possibly a week, so when I get them, I'll post them up kk !!!!!! hehehehe

Thanks to everyone for being so supportive..
And thank you for all your blogs about me, blog comments, lounge entries, and Minti gifts !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

TODAY REALLY WAS THE BEST DAY OF MY LIFE :)

Sorry for the quick update hey..
I'm a bit tired, so yeah. hehe
But hope that was enough info, to hype you up for the Wedding Photos !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hehehehehehehehehehe

Oh, and one final thank you, to the best Matron of Honour in the world.. Kell :)
You're the bestest best friend in the world, and I love ya so much...
I don't know how I could've done it without ya, you've been there for me, from the start..
And I'm sooo glad I got to spend my special day, with you, hun :)
BBFFE !!!!! hehehehehe

LOVE YA'S ALL !!!!!!!!!!

All my love,
Thuy xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

HELLO HELLO !!!!!!!!!!! LOL

Yes, I'm in a much better mood today, and I'll tell you why..
I have 3 PIECES OF GOOD NEWS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hehehehehehehe

1) Yes, I'm getting married tomorrow, to the love of my life.. Lawrence.. YAYYYYYY !!!!!! :)

2) My mum is feeling a LOT better.. and although at one stage, we were told she would most definitely not come to the wedding (and might be in hospital for at least a few more weeks), MY MUM CAN COME TO THE WEDDING NOW !!!!!!
She's being discharged from hospital tomorrow morning, so yayyyyyyyyyy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If she feels sick again, she has to go back.. but otherwise, she'll see her GP each week, or maybe each month :)

It's the greatest news I've heard about her, in a while.. so yayyy, all your thoughts and prayers must have worked, THANK YOU SO MUCH GUYS !!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you for being the sweet friends that you are, and caring about me and my mother..
Thank you for your blog comments, lounge entries, minti mails, and minti gifts :)
You guys made me realise how good of friends you all are, and I appreciate it all so much :)

3) WE FOUND OUT THE SEX OF THE BABY TODAY...
Ok, the ultrasound woman was only about 80% sure.. but she reckons it's a.........
GIRL !!!!!!!!!!!
WE'RE HAVING ANOTHER GIRL !!!!!!! hehehehehehe
She said that she couldn't see any "dangling bits", and she just doesn't think it's a boy. hehe
BUT OMG A GIRL !!!!!!! hehehehehe

Kell is so excited, because she has two girls, and reckons it's so much fun for them to play together......
And our baby is healthy, so yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee............... all its organs and things, are there, so YAYY :)

And we have already found her a name.. we went to lunch after the ultrasound... and started thinking about names..
And we've decided to call her Alexia :)
It's kinda a variation of 'Alexis' and 'Alexa'.. and it sounds similar to 'Alisha' :) hehehehe
It sounds really cool, when you pronounce it :)
We tried to see if there were any other names we liked, but all the other ones, just didn't sound as nice as this one :) hehe
We've become really hooked on the name :) hehehehehe
We're already referring to her as Alexia :) hehehehe

So... here are today's ultrasound pictures of our soon-to-be second baby girl, Alexia :)

Here are my ultrasound pictures from today.. at 18 weeks and 4 days :)

Aww look at her cute lil legs :) lol



OMG Alexia is such a kicker.. she's so active, like Alisha.. OMG. LOL
The ultrasound woman couldn't even take pictures sometimes, because Alexia moved tooooooooo fast. hahahaha
Looks like Minti is going down the drain, when Alexia comes. LOL
I'll be one tired Mummy, with two crazy kids... hahahaha



Awww Alexia's a cutie already :) hehehe



Awww cuuute.. even though it's hard to see what we're looking at.. LOL :)



Ok, just so people can think of me tomorrow (LOL), our church ceremony is at 12.30pm Perth time.. and reception 3pm Perth time..
For those in Australia with Daylight Savings, that's 3.30pm and 6pm your time..
And those in Australia without Daylight Savings, that's 2.30pm and 5pm your time... LOL
I just checked those time differences with Lawrence. LOL PMSL HAHAHAHA

I am sooooooooo excited about the wedding...........
We had our wedding rehearsal yesterday, and I almost cried when we had to practise our Wedding Vows... hehehehehehe
We wrote our own, so gonna be so sweet :)

I reckon.. I'm gonna cry AT LEAST two times.. LOL
The first, as I'm walking down the aisle.. lol
And the second, as I'm saying my Vows. hahahahaha

I feel like I'm gonna cry now. LOL

Anywho, better get going.. GOT A LONG DAY AHEAD OF ME !!!!!!!!!!!

YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY I'M GETTING MARRIED TOMORROW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
AND YAYYYYYY MY MUM IS COMING !!!!!!!!
AND YAYYYYYYYYYYY I'M HAVING A GIRL !!!!!!! LOL

THINK OF ME TOMORROW, PEOPLE.. THINK OF ME. LOL

Oh, and one final thing (as I never shut up. LOL), THANK YOU SO MUCH to na who wrote that BEAUTIFUL BLOG for me in the Bulletin Board..
You're so beautiful hun, inside and out..
You are SUCH A GREAT FRIEND !!!!!! I LOVE YA TO BITS !!!!!!!! (Like bits of 'Crunchie' in Freddo chocolate. LOL)

Oh, and OMG, na, you won the tike.. I KNEW YOU WOULD. LOL
Make sure you take pics of yourself on the tike. LOL PMSL. hahaha
Myah: "MUMMY, LET ME RIDE IT !!!"
You: "NO WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY !!!!!! MINE !!!!!!! I WON IT, FAIR AND SQUARE ... ON MINTI !!!!!!" lol

LOVE YA'S ALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YAYYYYYYYYYYYY !!!!!!! I'M GETTING MARRIED !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hehehehehe

All my love,
Thuy xoxoxoxoxox

I know I don't usually do this, and I'm usually this big happy person..
But right now, I'm crying as I type this :( :(

For years now, my mum has had breathing problems, she coughs all the time...
And at the time, she was diagnosed with Thyroid's Disease, but now it's probably much worse..

My dad took my mum into hospital Sunday night.. because she had a fever and stomach pains..
And this had been going on for about 4 days..
And I saw my mum at the hospital yestrday, and also just then, I got home 20 minutes ago..

She was originally diagnosed with Pneumonia yesterday.. and it was so serious and contagious, that I couldn't even visit her, in case I got it and passed it onto our unborn baby :(
And so Lawrence and Alisha couldn't come either :(
But then they said it wasn't contagious, so I was able to see her last night..
And it was so sad..
My sister and I walked in, and the minute I saw my mum lying there, I just cried.. and so did my sister...
Then so did my mum :(

And now, after seeing her today, I realise things are so much worse than I thought..
She has a lot of liquids stuck in her, so they've had to put a valve inside her, to get the liquids out..
And the valve has to stay in for a couple days, then they'll see if it's all drained out..
She also has to do a heart scan...
And with the valve thing inside her, there can be complications.. If it pierces her heart or lung, she could bleed..
And the minute my mum heard that it could happen, she just put the blanket over her head and started crying..

And the saddest thing of all is the fact that I could tell that my dad was about to start crying..
And I've never seen my dad cry before :( :(
Everyone's trying to keep it together, but it's so hard to :(

So, they're gonna do a scan to see if it's an infection my mum has, or heart problems..
They need to find out why she has so many liquids in her, and why she coughs so much...

My mum told me that she's had times when she was cooking.. but had to stop..
Because she couldn't breathe.. and felt like she was dying.. it was like her heart had almost stopped..

I know I should keep positive, but thing is, I know how bad this is..
I have this feeling..
And trust me, my dad would not be almost in tears, if he didn't think it was serious..
My mum wouldn't be in tears, if she didn't think it were serious :( :( :(

And the thing that's so unbearable is the fact that I know how sick my mum is..
After they put the valve in, the bed was too high and was hurting her back.. so she asked my brother to move it down for her, because she was in pain..
And she asked us to find her the "bell" so she could ring for help, when we weren't there :(

And the most saddest thing of all, is the fact that she was in so much pain, that she couldn't even drink her cup of water :(
She couldn't even sit up..
I ran around finding her straws, just so she could have a drink..
And even then, she had trouble doing it herself.. I had to bend the straw and tilt the cup, so she could drink :( :(

It made me so sad to think that my mum gave birth to me, clothed me, bathed me, fed me, and now I was the one looking after her :(
This is why I know what she's going through is so serious...

I want to say something, and I don't want it to sound crazy, because to be honest, I don't generally believe in these things..
However, about 15 years ago, my mum, my grandpa, and my brother saw a palm reader.. and this is what he said..
He said that my grandpa would become really sick and die within 5 years, he did..
He said that my brother would become a doctor or engineer.. and he became an engineer..
He said that my mum would die in her 50s.. and well.. things aren't looking too good :( And my mum is already 45 :(
And even my mum said today, that this must've been what the palm reader was talking about..
And she said that TWO palm readers have said the exact same thing...
I don't usually believe in these things, trust me, but I believe that what my mum got told, was the truth :(

And thing is, my mum has this ability to sense things..
She knew I was pregnant, she knows when I'm standing in front of her house, she knows if I'm in trouble...
So I can tell, by the look on her face, that she's not ok, and even she believes it :(

Trust me, I'm the most positive person in the world, but I have this feeling that things won't be ok..
And I don't know what to do.. I don't know how to cope..
I cry all the time, it makes me feel better..

I know I'm pregnant, I know I have a toddler to look after, and I know I have a wedding to plan, but this is my mum..
I love her so much, we've been through a lot.. so many ups and downs..
And it makes me so sad to think that she could be gone in a few years..

I want to look on the bright side, but honestly, I think everything is just gonna get worse..
And that's why I'm trying my best to enjoy the time I still have with her, tell her I love her, and let her know how thankful I am for everything she's done for me..

I am so glad that I was able to write that Minti article of mine, about my mother..
Because honestly, I don't want her to go, knowing that I didn't love her...

I don't think my mum can even go to my wedding.. it's in 4 days..
And it makes me so sad, because she said if I needed help with anything, to let her know..
Now it's me helping her :( :(
My mum and dad thought about post poning her valve treatment, so she could go to my wedding..
But I said I didn't want that, I wanted her to get better, and it didn't matter if she couldn't make it to my wedding..
All I care about is my mum getting better.. that's all.. :(

I remember when my grandpa was about to pass away, my cousin came over to Perth to see him one last time..
And I remember how sick he was, but he hung on, and waited to see my cousin..
And it was only after she came, that he was gone..

So I guess I'm trying my best to stay positive, and think that if I try my hardest to keep my mum happy, then she'll get more time with us.. hopefully...
But don't worry, I know I'm carrying a beautiful life inside me, so I will honestly try my hardest to keep positive, and keep the baby happy and healthy.. but I guess this is where I need all of yours' help...

I know I don't usually ask for things like this, but I'm asking for it now, because honestly, I need your help :(
Please pray for my mum, please keep her in your thoughts, please do it for me :(
I want her to get better, but if she can't, please just pray that she gets at least more time, more time to see my kids grow up, more time with us kids, more time with my dad..
I don't know what my dad would do, if he lost her :( :( :( :( :(

Please do it for my mum. And please do it for me.

Please keep my mum in your thoughts.

All my love,
Thuy xoxoxoxox

Hey all,

Now, it doesn't take a genius to guess what my blog is about. LOL

Yep, 7 days to go.. and I'll be officially married..
Wow, it feels so weird hey, Lawrence and I only went out for 1 month, then we knew we wanted to get married..
So it's been a long time coming. lol
He proposed back in November 2006, so yep, we're finally getting married, two years later. hahahaha

I'm so excited hey, I've been so blessed to have Kell as my Matron of Honour, and most importantly, as my Best Friend..
She's been great hey, the whole wedding thing has made me realise what a good friend she is..
She's also been there to tell me what looks better, what looks bad (LOL), or whatever..
And for that, I want to say.. THANKS SO MUCH HUN !!! BBFFE !!!! LOL :)

To be honest, I can't wait till it's all over..
Man, a wedding is CRAZY to organise. LOL
And on top of that, I have a toddler to look after, AND I'm pregnant with our second child too. LOL
I really do deserve a medal. hahahahaha

So.. if you want to know how the wedding will go.. here it is. LOL

We've invited only about 40 people.. we wanted it to be a small wedding.. for just our closest family and friends :)
Because, the way we see it, our wedding day is meant to be about celebrating the best day of our life, with people who love us, support us, and have been through everything with us..
And I've always believed in quality over quality, so for me and Lawrence, we always knew we'd have it small :)

The ceremony will be at the Church I was baptised at, had Reconciliation and Confirmed at, and went to as a Primary and High School kid.. hehe
And the reception will be back at our house.. because we think that's where all our memories are, as a family :)
We're gonna have professional catering, so it's gonna be cool :)

We've got the Photographer and Videographer all organised..
Alisha will be the Flower Girl.. hehe.. she'll be getting Baptised right after our Wedding as well :)

Oh, and me and Lawrence have written our OWN VOWS..... hehehehehehehe

And the day before the wedding, we're going to find out the sex of the baby..
Well, hopefully, if its legs aren't crossed. hehehe
I'll be 18 and 1/2 weeks pregnant by then, so I'll be having my Anatomy Scan :)
I'm 17 weeks and 5 days pregnant, now :)

For the first time in my life, I'm REALLY REALLY HAPPY..
And I guess I feel like I deserve it, given that I've been through a lot, and always tried my hardest to be a good person, and to lead a good life..
So I guess that's why I feel like karma exists, because ever since I met Lawrence, everything has worked out for me :)

Anyways, enough chatting.. here are some pics. LOL

So, we went to the Perth Royal Show on the First Day.. 27th September..
Lawrence hadn't been since he was young, and Alisha had never been.. whilst I hadn't been since I was 16 (four years ago)..

Here's Alisha playing the Clown Game at the Show. LOL



Here's Alisha and Me.. on the 'Cup and Saucer ride'..
I swear to God that I was more scared than her. LOL
She looked like she was bored. hahahahahaha



Here's Daddy playing with Alisha.. hehehe she loves it :)



Awww here's a lovely photo of Daddy and Alisha :)



LOL This was the funniest thing I saw at the Show. LOL
There were Emu Eggs and the sign read: "When freshly hatched they stagger around as though drunk" HAHAHAHA
I thought it was so funny, so I had to take a photo. hahahahahaha



Anywho, so here are some other photos.. taken at home :)

Alisha likes taking her Nappy Bags and putting things in them. LOL
Here she is with a Lemonade Can in it. LOL



"I wonder what I can destroy today....................." hahahaha



Last week, we decided to take a spontaneous walk to the park..
And while there, I took a photo of the lake they're building there..
It looks so beautiful already :)



Ok, and last Saturday, some actors from the TV SHOW 'Home and Away' came to Perth, for Telethon..
So we decided to go..
And we saw Morag, Tony, and Geoff from 'Home and Away'..... OMG !!!!!!!! LOL
You should've heard the girls scream for the guy who plays Geoff..
FAR OUT.. LOL

Here's a very blurry pic of the guy who plays 'Geoff'.. real name Lincoln Lewis..
We sat in the middle, so I had to zoom in, that's why it's so blurry. LOL
The person on the utmost left, with red hair, is 'Morag'..
The guy to the left of the 'white shirt guy' is 'Tony'..
And the guy in the white shirt is LINCOLN LEWIS ! lol



Here's a clearer picture of Lincoln Lewis, on the screen.. whilst the Telethon stage is in the back. hehe



Btw, I don't want Lincoln Lewis or anything (LOL), I just thought I'd share cuz I know a lot of people think he's hot. LOL
Plus, I wanted to brag that i met some famous people. hahahaha
I've been to Telethon about 4 times now, and I've gotten autographs and photos with some famous people, so it's pretty cool :)

Oh, I forgot to mention a few months back, we were in the City, and I saw "Nobbi" and "Cherry" from Big Brother. LOL.
They were just walking around, and these people came up to them, and asked for their autographs. hahaha
I didn't even realise it was them, till the people stopped them. haha
And to think that they were just right in front of us. hahahahahahaha
But yeah, I kept wanting to tell you, Cath, cuz u love Big Brother, but I kept forgetting. LOL
I know you weren't too fond of Nobbi and Cherry though. hahaha

Anywho, this picture was taken a few days ago.. we were at the shops and Alisha decided to lie down in the middle of the Toy Area. LOL



And here's Alisha trying to feed herself. LOL



Awwwwww.. and here she is today, trying to play on the computer :) hehehe
Btw, Lawrence has two keyboards there, cuz he uses 3 screens together, or something. LOL
He's a smartie :) hehe



Anyways, hope you enjoyed the pics, guys !!!! :)

So, chances are, I'll blog again before the wedding..
MOST DEFINITELY to let you guys know the sex of the baby :) hehehehehe
But don't be surprised if I blog the morning of the wedding with: "OMG I'M GETTING MARRIED TODAY !!!!!!!" LOL

Thank you to everyone, for being such good friends to me.....
It's so nice to enjoy my happiness and excitement with you all !!!!!!!! :)

Have a great weekend ok !!!!!! :)
*BIG BIG HUGS TO ALL*

Oh, and one final thing, Lawrence is working atm..
HOWEVER, he gets to take off ONE WHOLE WEEK to do wedding stuff..
SO YIPPPPPPPPPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE........ He doesn't have work tomorrow, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, or Saturday..... YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY !!!!!!
I think he deserves it, cuz he's only ever had 4 days off in a row...... YIPPPPPPEEEEEEE :) hehe

Anyways, I'll shut up now. LOL

LOVE YA'S ALL !!!!!!!!

All my love,
Thuy xoxoxoxoxoxoxox