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Nov
2006

Trying to Make Sense of It All

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"I need to tell you what happened to Christa at school today."

That's what the elementary principle said when he called me last Friday.

"Is Christa okay?"

"Yes, she's fine."

Once I heard those words, I could breathe again--and I asked him to tell me what happened.

To make a long--and quite upsetting--story brief:

Two little boys in Christa's kindergarten class told her that another boy was planning on trapping her. He planned on jumping out and scaring her with a scary mask and then--it is so hard to write these next words--he was going to take her to someone's home and stab her in the chest.

The two boys promised to protect Christa, who was crying. A teaching assistant noticed, talked with the kids about what was going on,and took them to the principle.

The principle proceeded to gather facts--talking to a number of the boys and trying to find out who had threatened my daughter. One little boy was named--but he denied it and broke down crying.

Now here's the odd twist in all of this:

One of the original boys who promised to protect Christa finally admitted he made it all up. He lied.

By the time I was called, the boy had apologized to both Christa and the boy he accused. Christa was back in her classroom.

After a quick phone call to my husband, I drove to the school and talked with the principle again--trying to gather facts so I could understand what had happened. Then--even though the school day was almost over--I went and found my daughter, wrapped my arms around her, and assured her she was safe.

"Mommy, I was all trembling inside," she told me.

"Me too, sweetie."

And I still get all trembly when I think about what happened.

TO BE CONTINUED

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Jessgore
November 2006 | Jessgore
Where do kids get idea's like this??????

Really it is hard to imagine that kids can be so crewl.... Where on earth do they get idea's like this.. It is horrible...  I feel for you I really do. I hope Christa is feeling better....  And I am sure seeing you and getting you warm hug helpped...

How horrible...



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vikkianderson
November 2006 | vikkianderson
trying to make sense
Oh that is awful - big hugs to you!! I would be asking for a meeting with this childs parents with the pricipal to make sure this does not ever happen again to your child or anyone else's. No child should ever be made to feel like that anywhere, anytime!! This situation needs to be dealt with so this little boy who made up the story realises how very wrong it is! Where does this kind of behaviour come from? He may see it as a joke or a trick but does he understand what it means to stab someone in the chest, does he understand the concept of hurting? Oh I can only imagine how your poor daughter must have felt. I think some reassurance is necessary from the parents of this child and also the pricipal that this will be dealt with properly. If its going to brushed aside I would seriously consider removing my child.


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      AMAMom
November 2006 | AMAMom
trying to make sense

I'll be blogging more about this situation tomorrow--but I want to say the principle and Christa's teacher are taking this quite seriously. We've had several phone calls this weekend with both of them. Tonight the boy's grandmother called me to apologize. (His grandparents are his guardians.)

More later



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CindyC
November 2006 | CindyC
Unbelievable!
Have the boy's parents been notified?  Will the boy be punished?  I think I would remove my daughter from that classroom.  I don't think she would feel safe being in the same room as the boy.  And how would a 5-year-old come up with something like that?


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