When I was growing up, Bill Cosby was a comedian. Period.

When I became an adult with children of my own, I learned Cosby also had a doctorate of education degree--and some strong views about parents, children, and teachers.

Sometimes Cosby makes me laugh out loud. Sometimes he makes me stop and think.

During an education conference this past weekend, Cosby said some parents do not do enough to help kids. He also said parents don't involve themselves in their children's education and and don't know what their children are doing. (http://www.usatoday.com/life/people/2006-10-29-cosby-critical)

While Cosby's criticism is directed to African-American families, I think all parents should  listen to what he is saying.

Are we helping our kids--and how do we help them?

Are we involved with our kids' education--or are we content to let the teachers do it?

Do we know what our kids are doing--how many hours they are on MySpace.com or who their friends are or what their dreams?

Parenting takes more time, energy, emotion, and prayer then I ever imagined. Sometimes people like Cosby remind me of that--and sometimes all I have to do is talk with other moms and dads!