In laws - some of them are the pits.. But you contuie doing what is best for your family

Tell them all to pull their heads in..

xx cazza

like what winja said. you are the important one not them. its what u want for your fam, not them. trust me i have to deal with this as well. tell them to POQ and let you live your life.

aww ma baby girl! im so sorry im the slackest person ever when it comes to blog hopping!

u know what i think already. YOU and your family come first YOU are the one who looks after your girls and takes care of them and YOU need to be happy and comforatble for them to thrive. no1 else matters for now. take care of you and the rest will fall into place eventually.

i luv u more each day my imaginary friend

xxxnat

Oh tee i am so sorry you are having a rough time. I agree with you if they are taking things out on your children they would be better off not seeing them . I really hope ur hubbys family give you a break soon. Thinking of you Hugs

Luv Emz xxx

Oh Tee, it sounds like it is rather tough for you.  Take it one step at a time and don't let anything keep you down!  Take back some control by understanding that you cannot be held accountable for other peoples actions, and neither are you responsible for their actions.

I know what it is like to have your whole world crumble and to feel so helpless about it, but I also know that taking back that control makes you so much stronger.  I can even look back now and see that the hell I've been through was in fact worth it in the end because I am stronger for it!

You will learn so much about yourself during your struggles.  Things that will frighten and surprise you, but it is all part of self growth!!!!!

I think you are right, if the in laws  negativity is rubbing off on your babies then no contact, till the adults in this grow up and start behaving rationally. Sending you the best of vibes, and if you feel like a discreet cry, go for it, might not solve the issues but it can release a little tension in you and help you think more clearly. Best wishes lovely lady, and keep your chin up high.

Luv Winnie.xxxx