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2007

Adopted girl given up by parents

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A Dutch diplomat couple decided to give up their adopted daughter, who they adopted when she was 8 months old. The girl is 8 years old now.

Does any one else find this wrong??

Article: http://au.news.yahoo.com/071212/15/158v0.html

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anniebabe
December 2007 | anniebabe
Re: Adopted girl given up by parents
what a selfish couple!!!! nothing could excuse this behaviour! if the child was good enough when adoption was sought by the couple then nothing and i mean nothing excuses this behaviour!!! i guess you have cases of natural parents abanding their children. it is such a sad life for children who are so innocent to face problems like these. i could go on child pornography  , physical mental abuse,hunger.......... what is happening to the human race?


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tassiebiarch
December 2007 | tassiebiarch
Re: Adopted girl given up by parents

that is so sad......... that poor little girl has grown up thinking that they were her parents and that they have given her up........... poor excuse on giving her up her language skills pft.

maybe they need to take her other children incase she gets sick of them and they cant do something right.....bloody joke i will have her

its not only the loss of her parents its her siblings aswell disgraceful when there are people pleading to adopt you get rejects like these people

now before people think i am being you no what its directed to the article and the parents in it

not people who adopt cause i no people have good honest reasons why they need to adopt out

tassie xx



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Ngairi
December 2007 | Ngairi
Re: Adopted girl given up by parents

That is so wrong. How must that child be feeling? On the other hand, if they are not looking after her properly as they now have 2 children of their own, as much as it pains me to say it, maybe the young girl is better off.

I am adopted and would absolutely be devasted if my parents later gave me up. That is a tragedy and a traversty of justice. Leisa



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samantha
December 2007 | samantha
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I AM OUTRAGED!!they are evil evil people to do that to that poor little girl UGH!! i am soo mad right now, that little girl must be in so much pain WHAT THE HECK!!! i am really upset now that makes me sooo mad, that poor little girl  how irrisponsible!! they should not have adopted at all in the first place if that is the way they feel, it doesn't matter if you fall pregnant that dosn't mean you can throw her away like she is an old peice of furniture that dosn't match anymore UGH!! i cannot believe that people are like that it is really discusting


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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | emmie
Re: Adopted girl given up by parents

Hi Angie

That is disgusting and broke my heart reading that its pretty much like me giving up Kylie in 3 years time because i thought i couldent have kids and now i have Chloe no i really could not picture that its cruel all that poor child wants is to be loved a cared for by a family is that really so much to ask my heart breaks for he poor girl

cheers

Emz



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | cazza
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How sad and disgusting..

I hope that they truly understand what they are Doing to this child... How could someone that wants a baby that bad, go and do something like that..

Wish that little Girl was here, and i would take her into my home...

xxx cazza


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Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | Arna
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That is disgusting!  When you take on a child, you take them on for life.  That little girl is going to have a lot of problems now.  She is going to find it very hard to trust anyone and will end up being  a lonely girl.

Send her to me!  We'll make her feel like a princess again.  our girls would love to have a bigger sister!

My heart goes out to her.  I was adopted when I was 2, and I know that if my parents had changed their minds, I would have ended up a statistic of the foster care system.  A life of crime etc is no life at all.  I hope a really good family takes her in.

Again, send her to me! lol.  i'll fight the rest of you for her!


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Kellzacar
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | Kellzacar
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I AM TOTALLY APPAULLED ! ! !

As a mum I couldn't imagine ever doing this. . . .  They are all this little girl knows. . .  I don't understand how they can justify what they have done, its so appalling.

I hope this little gets a family that will love her uncondtionally . . . I wish this was in Australia as most of us would put our hands up!


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cassaustin
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | cassaustin
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This is so so so disgusting... How can you care for a child for 7 years and then turn around and give her away? And the only explination you can offer is "the adoption went wrong"???? That poor little girl. I hope she finds a family that will truly love her. Although i would worry that she will never trust again. How could you?

I also would like to know what the 2 younger children are going thru. Surely they think it is strange that their parents got rid of their older sister....  



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Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | Izzy
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That is the most horrible thing I have ever heard! That little girl will have deep trust issues from now on, and who can blame her?

There are people out there who love their pets more than this couple love this girl. After 8 years? Unbelievable.



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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | Jessgore
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I find every thing wrong with it....
I mean she was adopted at the age of four months...
They are the only parents she knows.. And at the age of 8 even younger, she will grow up knowing that these people did not want her... HOW VERY SAD IS THAT....


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | llmunchkin
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Wrong is an understatement Angie... This is outrageous on so many levels that I don't even know where to begin!  It would seem to me that this little girl is very lucky to have escaped the clutches of these disgraceful people.  However that isn't going to heal the gaping wound that she must feel by being discarded like yesterday's news. 


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natelz1
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | natelz1
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Thats so sad, and yes very wrong. I would love to adopt, one day, and when we do its for life, no exceptions. that poor girl. On the other hand, is it worse for her to be somewhere she is not loved and cared for? its disgusting.


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cheekymonkey
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | cheekymonkey
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That is so wrong, I can't even find the words to describe. That poor little girl, no child should have to be put in that situation.


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monarogirl
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | monarogirl
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That's just terrible...what once they had their own they didn't want her anymore? I feel really sorry for that poor girl..how unloved she must be feeling right now


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MumKim
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2007 | MumKim
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That is horrible. They say a pet is for life. Maybe someone should have explained to the couple that a child is for life!


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