hey jess

i bleed with caitlin all the way through right to the end and with josie was half way through and this one only a few times . i will be thinking of you tommrow and hope for the best

love ya

belxxx

Hope that all goes well at the doctors tomorrow. It must be a real concern. I was always like that with money too and still am. Now at Christmas my mum gets me a Suzanne Grae voucher so that I have to spend it on clothes for myself and don't get the kids something or spend it on the bills. You will have to learn to hide that money a bit better from hubby. LOL You shouldn't feel selfish but hey we are mums and that is what we do. Good luck tomorrow!

Hey Jess
I know your worry. I had spotting with Caitiln and also with this pregnancy. Things have turned out fine but times for me so keep that thought close to your mind. I am glad that you are going to the doctor as the stress of wondering and waiting will be doing no one any good.
I will be thinking of you tomorrow and keep my fingers crossed for you.
Love and hugs.

You could always go to the ER if you can't stand waiting BUT if the pain or bleeding gets heavy GO STRAIGHT AWAY. I had a miscarriage last year after 3 pregs with no problems so i know how your feeling. That being said, I had a bleed with this pregnancy and everything was still fine.

Oh spend it on yourself. It wasn't given to you to pay bills. I know this sounds harsh and your hubby will probably crack the poops but it was for you not bills. Just think how p***ed off your mum and grandma would be if you paid bills with it.

That is very scary about the bleeding! I would probably suggest going to the hospital just to check it out! They will do an ultrasound to see if they can find the heartbeat. In our hospital there is a PAC (pregnancy assessment centre) which you go to not emergency and you get seen to straight away. Do you have one at your hospital?

Hi there,

It would be a worry to realise that you are spotting, although that never happened to me, it did to a friend of mine and her pregnancy was fine.  Get it checked out for you peace of mind though.  Good luck.

So cool to go shopping with all the generations!   I don't think it is selfish to want to spend something on yourself for a change.  You could always compromise and go 50/50 with you and the bills?!!

Julie