Well my goodness a lot has happened in the last 6 months. For starters my girls came back for their pretrial and it went well and then they stayed. My son well from excellent behaviour to disgusting is how I would put it. And then he was rewarded again by his grandmother(Long Story) I had to move out of a crisis accomadation because I stood up for wat i beleived in so they found watever they could to get me out. November I had plane tickets to take my daughter to south Australia to c her family and meet her dads new life partner. She is great I mean it she is GREAT I know I might sound weird but I am best friends with my exes and their new loves.  Y not the kids r a lot happier than I was as a kid having my father run down to me everyday. But anyways I finally got a house on the day I was leaving on the plane to S.A. Typical hey. But alls good I am now in the house with my 6 kidlets and our pup Chelsey. Life is great and my kids now say "we want to stay home mummy" NOT "Can we please go to daddys house"

 

The kids r doing great and I dont know wat I done but my 14 soon to be 15 year old son has done am total 180 degree turn in attitude. He is now so loving so respectful and so helpful. His brothers and sisters even enjoy having him back in their lives now. And no this didnt just happen it started about 3 weeks ago. He was calling me by my first name swearing at me whenever I spoke to him or asked him to do something. And treating his siblings like garbage. I caught him at 3.15am sneaking pas the back door with all his belongings and well did i go off said things i shouldn't have said and was even threatened with the police. I rang the police myself and was happily told that they couldnt do anything to me I am his mother but if hewas to walk out the door I could have him returned each and every time until he is 16. Well we continued arguing and by the time the sun came up we were both in tears realising that we both needed each other. I had to realise this myself as well due to the fact that he had bee poisoned against me and i have aklways been told to treat him like his my brother not my son(long story). But since that night I cant even move without my son saying what do u need mum I will get it for u. LOLI now say Wow i have a teenage son its great and wonderful. We couldnt be happier and neither could the rest of the family after everything the poor little buggars were put through listening to us at each others throats all the time. after 32 years of anger my son has mellowed me as i have helped him realise that he is loved. asta lavista

Well life is getting better. It has been a month or more now since my last blog. I have recently moved out of the family home and into a womens refuge awaiting approval of a house any house or a housing commission here in QLD. I have my 5 children with me and well we r happy I have finally got my 2 youngest boys to like wearig clothes at all times and all teeth are finally being cleaned. Now to get over the stress of not having the stability in the kids lives for a while that they r so used to. They had to change schools and are slowly making new friends. They say they r happy but u can tell they miss everything we had. We will get it all back upon finding suitable accomadation which is proving to be very hard for a single mother with 5 kids only a centrelink payment. Well I am off for now time for afternoon snackaroonies so bye 4 noiw until next time asta lavista

I havent been able to write on here for a while I have been spending quite a bit of time playing lately and been stuffed by night time. So heres a Hello and how are u all??????? Until next time asta lavista