I could not ask for better kids. They have been so good lately that I really dont know wat I done to make this change. their rooms stay clean and when I am doing some housework even my 2 year old asks to help WHAT DID I DO? Well I must admit I have been stressing a lot lately due to family and friends that knew that I was a pushover and alos that it was very easy to get wat ever they could from me. I didnt actually realise that my children were suffering as well. I dont want them to grow up like me and always being the last one to know or being put down and talked about in hearing range. OMG I am telling my life story anyways My man is only the father to my last 2 but he is my last 4 childrens daddy as well. He took on so much when he met me.*(he also put up with a lot of pushing away and testing to see how far i could push him)My children are happy when I am!!!!!My goodness i hope i stay this way.