ok my day has consisted of taken the kids to school... and came home and done some house work. and rested .....

I also harrassed kellz , as she getting old hehe... so its all good....

I Also got a xmas card from bel and so was so sweet.

Got one from Gypsie as well and was scared to open hers hehe. and hers was sweet....

so tonight im drinking,,,, and harrassing everyone everywhere, and harrassing kellz again..

and Jo HAPPY BIRTHDAY AS WELL....

XXX CAZZA

Well what a day i had,.... This morning i got 1 hours notice that the girls were Going home,,, So we had the family day carer pick the Girls up from the parents request, lets just say me and the supervisor wasnt happy with that arrangement,....  I was in such  grump, and left home on not good terms,. and am feeling bad as that would affect all the kids.....

Took my kids to kids to school, and was running late.. Took chloe to creche.... Then had to go back to the school and do some fundraising stuff and went to the school assembly....

Headed to the shopping Centre and freaked out as there was so many cars and people... quickly done my food shopping and came home.... This is not what i had planned, but i went in a panic attack, as i was scared someone was going to hit my car......

Came home and cleaned the house and went to  visit my neighbour......

Is very strange here without the Girls, and my kids have being squabbling flat out....

So tempted to open a can of bourban........

Hope everyone else had a great day,,,,

xxx cazza

In 2 hours i have my car back,,,, I have had a ok day, just pottering around the house, and doing housework.....  The Girl''s are still here, and might be here to monday...

well my mate has gone, and hope he has a safe Journey and has a ball as he deserves it.... Kind of miss him, and thats silly hehe....

So will be out tomorrow , and Going mad on xmas pressies as i havnt shopped yet....

Hope everyone has had a great day.....

xxx cazza

Wow wheres that year gone, and how far i have came since i have Joined this wonderful site...
The friends i have made, and the advise i have given, and supported i am so pleased to see how far i have came..

I still remember when i Joined and how much so many were friendly and it scared me , as i was so shocked on how friendly everyone was.... But if it wasnt for some on here, i wouldnt be here...

So most of us have shed the tears, laughter, vents and Joys and horrors lol....

But what has impressed me the most is how so many have stuck together and not allowed the Bullshit that has happened in the past.

Its our friends on here that have got through it all, and made the site it is, ... and for the ones that have got wrapped up in it, have left me alone and made me so much stronger as i have had the support amnd strength from great friends... So thats all GOOD....

I adore all my friends on here, and love how i have had the fortunate to meet some of them.... And one day hope there is a minti reunion and we all get to meet,,,,,

love and kisses
xxxxxx
cazza

Well today was the quietest day ever , yes nell i had a quiet day,, Started off really cool, as i chatted to a great friend of mine that was Going away, heard a few wispers about our relationship, but honest we are just great mates, that love to stir each other and love each other as mates, so get ur minds out of the gutter, cause its all GOOD....

Done some housework, and the Girls that are staying here, have settled in so well... and have had a ball playing with chloe all day...... Might be going home tomorrow night,,,,,

Had some guy come out and measure up for wardrobes for our rooms, as mick hasnt got the skills for that, and is big naked snob hehe.... 

So have had a awsome day,,, and its all Good, but hope my car is back tomorrow arvo....

love and kisses

cazza

P.S this is why i go out, because if stay home , this is the sort day i have lol..

Well its official my car went in to be fixed today, and looks like it will be back  wednesday arvo or thursday....

In the mean time Chloe and i went out today with our play group and went to a place called the lilydale falls about 20 minutes from launceston.. So we had a walk and a bbq and it was so nice and relaxing.....

Came home and got a phone call, and will have 2 little girls tonigt, and tomorrow night aged 2 and 3 years old,... So will have my hands full.....

Will be housebound tomorrow, so will be getting all the dvds and activiities out for chloe and the little ones....

Have a message for a special mate on here, as he is leaving to go away for a week or 2,. make sure u send me a post card...

Hope everyone is having a great day and will have a great week.....

xxx cazza

Today we decided as we dont have any extras this weekend that we would do a family day out...
So mick went and picked the girls up from their aunts and came back and we headed to the beacj....Was very windy there and i was in the shade under the beach umbrella...The kids and mick went in the water and had a ball..... I brought a magazine while there and layed back and relaxed... Had a bbq lunch, and then we decided to have one more swim and head home...

Have got my mil coming for dinner and we having a roast....  Tomorrow my car goes in to be fixed and i be without a car for 3 days arghhhhhhhhhh..

Hope everyone has had a relaxing weekend......

xxx cazza

Today we had our annual xmas parade in the city.... We headed into town at 9.30 to get our spots and was meeting kellie(sintress) at the same spot at 10.....  We all had a good time and town was packed..... Zaide was so cute and wanted to get in the rocks that was on the path , and we bribed him with smily bikkies..... met kellys hubbys friend from sweden and he was very nice,...... The parade was a mixture of themes to do with xmas, and lots of music was played today..... After the parade we met mick at the shopping complex and went and Voted... We then headed to his sisters for lunch, and while there mick done her lawns... Came Home and cleaned and pulled things apart in my house , while mick and brodie done our yards.... 

The girls have decided that they wanted to stay at their aunts tonight , with their nan, so have only got brodie home. so should be a quiet night...

Im a bit burnt as well, and yit wasnt because of not having sun block, it was that i went out side for 5 mins and said to mick i better put some on, and when i went to do it, he came in, and i noticed i was burnt on the arms, Lucky i go brown there....

Hope everyone had fun voting, and got your wishes on who u want to run our Country.....

xxx cazza

These are the pics that chloe had done this week, taken by the paper....and the ladys are Opposition Families and Community Service Spokeperson Jenny Macklin. and our one and only here Bass Labor Candiate Jodie Campbell....

  She sure did have Fun.......

xxx cazza

Have had a awsome DAY,,, Dropped the kids off to school, and then Chloe at Creche.... When I got to Creche one of my friends said to me what was i doing at Lunch time, as she was having a baby shower. I said shit Tash short    Notice, and she said dont worry about a gift,,, so i said Ok see u then... Rushed quickly to my Friends shop, and Brought some Baby gear,,,, and headed back to my girlfriends... Felt sorry for her a bit, as the rest didnt turn up....So we had a BBQ and a had a great time... We both joked and said to our friend that hosted the shower that because there was so much food over we were coming back for Dinner with hubbys and kids in tow..... So she said OK...

So collected the Kids and headed home and i forgot that Mick had a appt at the hospital for his pre op for his Gallstone...... So we quickly went to the Bottle shop , for me to get some drinks and we headed back to my friends house... Mick didnt stay..... Had a ball. Kids got to go in the ball, and the dads there we payed out on hehe....

Mick came and Got us after dinner, and upset me a bit, as i have some sentimental things of the kids when they were bubs and he wants me to give away, and i said they will stay and i get containers and cupboards and store them properly in the garage....

so im sitting here a bit tipsy hehe, but i had a great afternoon,,,,,

love to all my friends...

xxx cazza

I have decided to do all my Blogs back here ,as i did have them in my lounge....

The reason why i hid my Blogs , as i was afraid of what to say, and how others I heard would bag me out over what i do for my kids, as they Felt intimated and jealous of what i do on my days with my family...

Well No more Am i going to feel this way,,, I have great Friends, Great kids and a Hubby that runs naked through the House and im proud of everyone of them....

So Bite me, Dont like what i say or Do dont read what i write or say........

I know im not perfect and we all make mistakes and i would be the First to admit that i have done wrong......

Love to all My Minti sisters and also to the Admin area, as this site is the best i have ever. felt like at home...

xxxx cazza

Am quite excited as i Got a phone call  yesterday to say that i was accepted to do a 4 week work shop to be a case worker for community Services...

Last night i wasnt sure if i was going to do it or not as i had promised brodie i would Go to his dance that he has on Friday and i showed him what was said and asked him what does he want me to do, and he said that i can watch him at school on monday, and that he knows how much time and stress i put in too getting in , as its a hard course to get in to... So will call them monday and let them know, as im not happy that they didnt let me know sooner..... So thank you for all the advise last night....

The girls are doing well here this weekend and did have a rough night with one of them, but then she hasnt being here for a while...

My  Kids are doing ok this weekend on their star chart , and have lost a couple stars..... Mick had them cleaning earlier hehe, as i had a nap...

Hope they all sleep well tonight....

xxxx cazza

When we got to school chloe hanged her bag on the Hook and headed over to the table and started to do a craft thing with her teacher... She looked up at meand said you can go now im at Big school...

So we said bye and the teachers were waiting for me to cry and i didnt.... Them i  dropped caitlyn off at her class and came  home.. Did some washing and spoke to kell(ellamia) on the phone....  Then headed back to the school and picked chloe up
the teacher said chloe done well, and that they all practised sitting on the mat, and putting their hand up.... We then headed out to kelly''s house(sinstress) and brought some hot chips on he way.... Got to kellys and we shared with ziade.... Met some people that run a game site called TCN games and that was so cool, as they are down here on holidays.....  Chatted to kelly for ages and chloe and Zaide played heaps and was so cute...   Left after lunch and picked up the kids from school....  When i got home i got the best mail ever.  I got a post card from leith(lightbee) as i asked her could she send me one while she was away, took from where she is to here 8 days to get here.... Made my day  so that was really cool....

Have 2 older girls here tonight for the weekend and know them well, so will be easy to look after.....

Hope everyone has a great weekend.....

love cazza

Well today was the day i felt that a world havd lifted off my shoulders and thought im going to change the way my household is... So i dropped the kids off to school, and chloe off to creche and hit the shops... Picked up a bargain at the supermarket, 3 pizzas for the price of one, and not the ones that are in the box ewwww...

Anyway as i stated at the beginning of the blog i have decided to change the way my household is... So i went to a bargain store and picked up a scrapbook and some star stickers and then came home and wrote each one of my children a behaviour chart..... I then proceeded to their bedrooms and done a major spring clean, and took me 4 hours on 2 rooms.......

When they got home they were shocked and havent at this stage realised that there are toys missing, which i will sneak in the boot in the morning and donate to the local charity...... They were also pleased with what i had put in place, as i gave them the option to voice their views... 

How i got all this done today is really interesting as i had a mystery phone call around lunch time and was asked do u know who this is? and said no..She then said that she was a minti mum... Well it turned out to be kell(ellamia) and wow was it great to able to put a name to the voice,. so we yaked for ages, and then she had to go... she then called back and we yakked a bit more....So kell thanx for the yak. and dont call tomorrow as i will be at the other kells house hehe......

Also chloe had her 4 yr immunisations today and was so brave and said she cried a little and then the doctor fixed her arms as she put baindaids on them,..... She was so brave......

Chloe is off to pre school tomorrow and she is very excited and is here wanting to pack her bag lol.,....

Hope everyone is well, and the kids were good for u all today....

love cazza

Had a great day out with chloe today as we set out to the park for day out in the park that the community centre runs for our littles once a month... I usually  do the cooking, but today it was for us mums to have fun as well,. so the workers hired the city mission van that does a lot for the community and they guy did the cooking and making loads of drinks.... There was heaps of activiities and face painting... One of the Tv stations turned up and took some features for ads to promote that this program is on..... Had one of my girl friends there and she is 3 weeks off having her second set of twins and she needed to use the toliet, so she joked with me that because of some guys leaning up against the porter toliet she wouldnt go,,, So i said to her watch this, so i told them could they move away as us woman dont really want them to be hearing us go hehe, and she laughed so much as she said thats what i call assertive and she was joking , and didnt think i would growl at them lol.....

Came home after that, and had some rest and then went and picked the kids up from school,..Caitlyn invited one of her friends over and for the First hour here, i lost a half of bottle of dishwashing liquid, some herbs and spices, and half bottle of zero coke,.... I hit the roof and really told them what my views were, and i dont know who shed more tears..... So yes i do go mad. and lose it...   Then i burnt dinner as i went to growl at them and it burnt, so i redone it all.... Mick came back from being out, and he was shocked on what had happened and i went off at him as well, as i said that when i need him he is with his mum lately,.. Well he apoligised and said he is trying to do things to save us from stuff as well... The kids decided to muck up with him here, and he silenced them.....

So its that time of year and santa has recieved a letter from me today saying i would just like a holiday.....

Hope everyone else has had a great day....

love cazza
   

Whilst i was having a shower this after noon my 10 year old son snuck on to minti , which was very naughty....He burst in the bath room and angrily said Mum you need to get off minti, its not parenting site - its a bitch site....

So this is a wake up call for us all . as that scares me that if my son is seeing this, what other kids are thinking ?

love to all my  friends....
cazza

Went to the Doctor''s today to find out what the results were from my xrays. and the Verdict is mild phnemonia and asthma...... So he has advised me to contuie my tablets, and a preventor(turbuhalor),,...So now i have to be a  good girl and take my mediacation so it doesnt  get worse...

The Babies have gone home and it was so good to have them this weekend, and would have them back any time ....

Chloe and i had a ball this after noon, we got to go to a special luncheon for melbourne cup. and had to race in some races at the centre with chloe''s horse that played music lol... I came 4th in the adult race and chloe came 2nd in her race.... So her prize was a horse (toy)...
We also had a fashion parade and hat  parade hehe.....

So had a absolutely ball; and also picked up some bargains at the op shop - Got to fill a bag for $1 of tuppaware containers......

Hope the ones that had a bet today  backed a winnner, and dont have a sore head later lol.....

Our horse came second and we got our money back ....

love cazza

I just wanted to say that i take my hat off to mums that have twins and toddlers under the age of 4,.,.

As you all know i do tem care(foster care) and this weekend i have had the privilige to look after 2 gorgous twin bubs......

I have found that its good, but i wonder how all you guys do it day in and day out, as it sure tires you out.....

So next time you feel you dont do a great Job, remember there are mums like me, that think you all do a excellent jOB  and really admire what you all do....

Hope you all have a lovely week with all your gorgeous children....

love cazza

Just wanted to let all my friends know that i feel so much happier today... It has being a few rough days for me, and i know who my real friends are and who aint, by all the support, phone calls, and texts i have recieved.....

Have my babies that i had last july here this weekend and it is great to see them again, they have grown so much,,, they are now 6 months old,...

Im feeeling a bit better and think that with the family that love me, and the friends that care i will do alright.....

Hope everyone has a great weekend,.....

love cazza

I am feeling confused and sad as i have found out that there are people on minti who think that i have had something to do with all the messenger gossiping and all the stupid down voting on minti.

Well this is not me! I do not do this sort of stuff.  I do talk to people on messenger but thats about it. As from now I am not going to be on messenger very much as i think this is best. I have also left some of the groups on minti.

I hope that the person who is doing all this stuff is happy with themselves as they are hurting a lot of really nice people. I joined Minti to make some friends and to get some good advice. I did not join it to have to put up with all this other stuff.

I am not leaving minti as i really do like it here. I just wanted to do this blog because i felt i needed to. I dont want people feeling sorry for me as i am okay, i am just sad that all this stuff is happening.

See you all on minti . . . 

LOVE CAZZA