ok i got this morning and had hit the reply buttion to lonely28 as she wrote this to me, and said some nice things about me, now i couldnt just find one mum as i have heaps that i wanted to add a smile to as  they have being through heaps lately, and need to know how much they are special...

Ok..

Angie(cookclan) - loyal, friendly, trustworthy, funny,  Huge heart....
Alana(kellzacar)- Trustworthy, helpful, loyal, huge heart, hilarous..
Debbie(blackwidowkate)- very funny, loveable, friendly, trustworthy, Huge heart.
Shelley(shellshell)like a sister to me, loyal, kind, affectionate, Huge heart....
Janice(janicepovey) llikable, trustworthy, kind, respectable, affectionate..
kayla(emmysmum) very funny, very open, kind, funny, friendly, and hmm(lol)
cristlyn(mummycristlyn)- same as shell shell...
there is heaps of my friends on my list i would like to say a huge thanx and put a smile on their face, and you all know that i care for each one of you, and know that if you ever need a chat, i be here for you all........

ALlso wanted to say lonely28 anytime you want to come to tassie, call me and there is a bed here for you hehe......

and that goes for the rest of you as well...

What a day i have had.... Started off that caitlyn keeps on questioning me on why i need time out from her going to friends places and they coming here, as i just want to be able to come home and thats it.. After all that chloe and i went shopping for my foster girls that i used to have as it was one of their bdays today and one last fortinite, so chloe and i brought a cuddly doll for the 2 year old and a bratz doll for the 4 year old... we tried to look for bday stuff for brodie and huh we end up buying dora and bratz pjs that were half price haha,.... so i think i go shopping in town on thurs by my self .... We then came home and wrapped the presents and lost my keys and was running late to take chloe to her school activity, so we got there 20 minutes late arghhhhhhhh,.... after all that i went and joined up with my mums group and for the next four weeks we have to do a course on Time out  for parents program,. was very interesting, but their was one mum their and every time i spoke she rolled her eyes as she was new, and then the question was asked by the leader how do we decide to be parents and how and what influence us, and where do we go to get help on our decisions on our parenting.... Well i said a few things and this mum still contuied to roll her eyes, and then i must have touched a spot, as i mentioned that internet parent sites are a good way to meet other parents and so on, and this woman got up and walked out, well the leader said to her that she would speak to her later,...I went to my support worker and said did i say the wrong thing and she said no and it wasnt my problem and it was up to the guest speaker to sort out, and not to worry...
 
So then we went to lunch. and i had to leave early as their was a school social on again as we had one yesterday as well... I quickly grabbed chloe and went looking for my mil as she offered to take chloe to the school library as there was a reading program on, well then she bites my head off as she reckons that i was 20 minutes late as well hehe. so told her to get over her self and did she still want to take chloe and she said yes..after school she said to me was i over my spit and i said wasnt a spit, just sick of people asssuming and having a go at me as i cant be in 2 places at once... well she didnt say nothing then....... 

So tomorrow everyone down here can go and jump as im staying home and hypernating hehe.....

grrrrrrrrrr stupied big brother,  as i voted for zach.........

oh well another year and a another big brother scandal over,............

Im a bit sad and i know we aint meant to get attached but it so great to have these babies this weekend....so  im sitting here crying- as they have just gone home to their mummy...

Hope it all works out for her, and if she ever needs a break we will be here for her, i wrote her letter explaining that as well....

well they settled really well last night and mick let me sleep again and he said that they only woke once during the night...

So thankyou again for being here for me this weekend and chat to you all later cazza

I havent watched much of big brother, but i have enjoyed the last few weeks as everyone is ravving about it..

so now im voting for zac to win as he is a legend to come out and announce that he is gay on live television...thats what i call truly brave and courageous.....

Last night was the first night i had being able to sleep through..Mick said to go to bed at 11pm and he wake me at 4am when he went to bed, but he didnt and he said they woke at 3am and had bottles and were a little unsettled but not as bad as they were.....  One of them had a bottle at 9.30PM and the other at 10pm so that was a great sleep for them...I feel a bit guilty as the wrong information was passed on to me, and usually i follow it, but i thought hmm wonder why .. So thank god i asked in the end and had alana here as well....  So i woke up at 7am this morning and have heaps on today so hope they will sleep today for me.....

Ok have a great sunday and thanx for all the supportcazza

Today i got a visit from alana(kellzacar) and it was great to meet her and yyou can read all about it in this group Virtual to Reality

Any way she was able to help me with some strategies with the girls and also spoke to the on call worker as we were given the wrong information from my superviser on feeding the bubs...So their mum called me as she got a call from the on call worker and the mum said to me is my babies all right as she was panicking big time as ypu would,, So all is good and they are both asleep at the moment. and one of them has being asleep since 5pm tonight so thats good as they havnt slept that well the last couple days. and the other one is asleep as well since 6pm so with the advise we have being given i have a good feeling that we are going to get a good nights sleep....

so fingers crossed....

Have just being caught out big time hehe, as i  heard a car pull up out side my house, and saw kellz hubby come up the footpath, and i was still in my nightie arghhhhhhhh... i quickly ran to my room chucked on some jeans and a top hehe..

she was coming to see me yesterday, so she knows how to spring on me hehe... so went to the car and i said hello i look awful as i sleep deprived... so she said that was ok, and she has had less sleep then me....

so later she is coming back to have a coffee, and it will be great as i have being hanging out for this for ages...

Im so tired as the girls were so unsettled again last night and i didnt get to sleep to 3am, so even when i throught i had a breakthrough one of them would wake, well then at 2.30am i had both...Mick got in at 3 and helped me and said that they both have had a hour sleep since then...
So hope they settle in soon..

I have decided that i wont go out tonight as im so tired..Mick said have a afternoon sleep and go as im mad not too, but i feel that it would be easier with both of us home... he has said that if he needs me he call but if i was to go out thats what i dont want to happen..

So these babies are absolutely gorgeous but its really makes me realise how much this mum has to go through, and i have the support and she doesnt, so that makes us feel that we are helping her so much...

so thats it for me for this morning...

we get to keep the girls for the weekend as mum isnt still well, at one stage she wanted them home and then she changed her mind. so we have them for the weekend and they go home on monday....

So last night was very diffrent for me as im used to sleeping all night, and due to them botyh having coughs they were waking every hour poor little munchkins... So hopefully they will be ok tonight,. and im going to try and get some sleep today...

Have to go out tomorrow nite and mick has offered to look after the girls for me as he doesnt want us both missing out. and i said i wouldnt mind, but he insist...

So thats me for now.... Thankyou for all the kind words and friendships...

today i was at kmart with my girls to tie over some time before our hair cuts, and we rushed to get out of kmart as chloe wanted lollies and toys....so as we were heading to the hairdressers i saw a minti mum with her hubby and children, and it has just being confirmed that it was sinstress(kel) . i wanted to stop but i thought no i look silly if i say are u kel hehe..

so its funny as we have crossed paths twice now and neither of us have stopped to say hey..

so thats it im going to do it next week, make a lunch date and finally meet her..

Today was great as i set off for the day after taken the kids to school and childcare...went and done some food shopping and then called back to the school assembly..After that came home and got the best phone call ever, i have in my care tonight twin girls and they are 13 weeks old. due to mum being sick, so cute they are,...so they are just here for the night and maybe for the weekend depending on how mum is feeling..

So if you all wonder where i am im busy with babies as mick goes to work soon..

Just wanted to say thanx to all the friends that left such nice messages before in my blog. It really made me feel that life isnt so bad, and that i can always count on my minti friends..

After i wrote this today. i have decided that im going to call my little sister and ask her to tell me the truth on does she really want me at her wedding.As if i do go it will be only me and not mick or the kids,....

I alsio went retail shopping today at target, and got the girls a outfit each for $16 set and brodie a simpsons top for $9.00...so while we were there we also laybyed a cubby house for the girls for xmas..

I would like to say a big thank you to amanda(mumof2b) as she sent chloe the most gorgeous outfit today of dora, and we are both so happy with it, and we recieved as i was typing my earlier blog, and it sure did put a smile on both of our dials....

For all of you thank you so much and hope to meet some of you someday, as you all make my day so much better... cazza

Today while out shopping i bumped into my birth mother and sister, now we dont talk to each other,as they both have history of abusing chidren and i wont let my children be subjected to people like that...So any way im standing near the counter and i hear theres the stuck up slut what is she shoppuing here when we are here, now usually i dont bite back, but she said it about me and in front of chloe. so i said you have something to say to me come to me now, well they both bolted...The check out girl was so shocked and said was i ok, and i said yes im used to it as ive being subjected to this for 18 years now, and this person that says she is my mum her mouth and actions wont change...

So now im thinking of not going to my little sisters wedding in october as how can i sit in the same room as these other family members if thats what im going to be subjected too... I am so angry and hurt that she felt she had to say that in front of chloe,..

  well today was ok, as i set out and took the kids to school after chloe was up last night with a fever and headaches as you all know that she had her flu shot yesterday..Today she was all bouncy and loved attending her pre school program and then went to childcare as i attended my mums group... Had to go to my mum in laws as she has put her house on the market, after mick declined to buy it off her,as he said his sister has too much of a say.....So the guys came and took pics today and then tomorrow she have all the sales men come through,.. After school today mick went to scocer practice and warned me that my best friend isnt happy and wants her son back on his team, and this is after she requested her son to be moved as it was conflicting with brodie and her son at school as her son is very competive and brodie isnt.... So we just see what happens. but i know that im not getting involved as im not going to lose a friend over a sports issue....

So thats me for the day, bit boring hehe...

well the kids had their flu shots today, and they all said how it hurt, the girls cried and mick wasnt happy as the nurse really jabbed the needle in.. She said she needs to do chloes 4 year old needles next week,and their is 3 to be done, i dont think so, i feel i will take chloe to her clinic sister, as after today the doctor surgery can keep their nurse....The nurse also suggested that chloe have a chicken pox needle and because we aint on a health care card, it will cost us $65-70 so i ask the clinic sister is it really neccarilly..... The girls have to go back ina month and have a second dose of the flu shot, and im not happy as the doctor didnt give us a repeat on the script,. so a another $10 for her to write one out.This doctor surgery we go too is all for the money and not for the paitents.... So i will be defiently looking around for a difffrent doctor surgery as my blood boils every time i walk in that place....

Besides all that, we took the kids to hungry jacks as a treat and mick is being a male and shitting me off lol......

so if the kids have any side effects from this needle, we have decided to keep them home from school tomorrow... Fingers crossed and they will be fine, as they have being in the past...

well today me and the girls went to my aunties house as her daughter turned 6, and there was a party fro her...35 kids and 20 adults, and surpreising enough it went off like a hitch.. lots of food, and loys of gossiping.(hehe)  and what sutprised me was how some of my aunties looked down at my cousins kids, but we all have a skeletons in our closet.. So my cousin got heaps of cool pressies...

So after the party went to get mick and brodie as they were at my mils helping her get her house organised as she has it on the market to sell...

so thats my sunday...Tomorrow the kids have a student free day, and have to have their flu shots poor buggers...

Have had a busy day today... Went and watched brodie play his soccer game, and poor little man ran out of puff, and said that it was his worse game, but i wouldnt hear of it. as he played well...well his team lost by a point, and he was devasted as he felt he didnt do enouh.. but we told him diffrent.. So after soccer we took the kids to their swiiming lessons and brodies instructer could tell that brodie was tired and upset so he was very easy on him..The girls were a bit of rat bags today and yelling and being silly, so im ignoring it all.. After swimming mick decided he wanted to go shopping for a computer desk and chair, but got a rude shock haha... So we end up just buying a chair not my preference but it was $100 off so wasnt going to leave it there... We are going to look at tables during the week as there are a couple shops in lonnie that are shuting their doors, so might get a bargain there..So after the shopping we went the supermarket brought tea, and have came home....After we going to attempt to put the chair together. and have a few drinks, and have our time we hope..

Also today i was outbidded by a another person on ebay as i have being the highest biddder all week, but they offered a better price, which i was not willing to go higher, so thats ok, and they were doras jeans....... so i just keep on looking...

ok thats me for saturday...

Today went on a shopping expedition, went to a little secondhand shop that is run by the seven day adventist church down here and picked up 5 jumpers for $10. Then went to the city mission shop and brought a tupperware container, a musical teddy bear and a little pumpkin patch jumper for chloe and paid $9..After school took the kids shopping at kmart, and they were all given $100 each as there tax money came through , chloe brought a deluxe activity centre(whiteboard and magnet board with accessories) and a dora track set.and a pair of dora sneakers so that was her money gone hehe,. brodie brought himself a PS2 GAME, wrestlemania set, and a pair of sneakers and he has money left over to put in his school bank, as thats what he wanted to do...Poor caitlyn exceeeded her allowance  and brought a cd karoke player, shoes, and a tamgotchi hehe. so is in debt with us for $20... So while i was there i also brought 2 pair of tiger leggings for $4.00 and 2 pair of spider man undies for my nephew for $2.00 .. Poor mick missed out as he we ran out of time,..

So have now got very sore feet and later when i clean up, im sending the kids to bed and going to put my feet up and have a bourban....

Had the best day as the message has got through to the kids at our school that it is best to cross at the crossing and not the busy road alone..also that the little kids are telling their mums that they have to cross at the crossng as well,. it makes me so proud to say my kids gp to this school, as it has a bad repuation,.but the principal, vice principal and teachers are starting to get the public to regonise that our school has improved and it is losing that stigma....

So when i left the school after being told that, i went on a very happy shopping expedition and also won some bids on ozition so i was pleased about that. as i got brodie some birthday gifts ...

Had caitlyns little friend over tonight after school. and she is the sweetest little girl and its good to see that caitlyn has made a special friend..

Just wanted to thank many of the mums that supported me yesterday on msn and here.. I fully appreciate it, and made me feel good with all the comments left here as well...

So this is what happened this morning i spoke to the principal and he said he was going to have a chat with the boy and ring his mother, well while we were chatting the young boy was going into his class room,. so the principal called him over and asked him did he know who i was and what sort of car i had..The young boy said i know i ran in front of her yesterday and im sorry and my mum spoke to me and will be talking to you later... so the principal asked him why and his answer was that he cuts across that dangerous road to avoid some boys from a anaother school that bully him as they get of the bus... So i felt bad but not sure if its the truth, as i was told today that this kid has behaviour problems, and that he causes fights in his class all the time and that was from my niece as she knows him well..I did say to her that it shouldnt matter what he does or says he needs to know the road rules..

The principal did say to him that he woud like to see him use the crossings , and if he leaves the school straight away he will have 15 minutes before the bus arrives near where he is getting picked on. and also that he was contacting the principal at the other school..........

So the principal asked me what i like to say, and i just said i was angry, hurt and disappointed and that chloe was refusing to come in the car until she knew that he wouldnt do it again,. and that i never want to see him do it again...

So hopefully he has got the message., and also the principal said that he was going to mention in the school newsletter tomorrow about crossing at the crossing guards, and  how there was nearly a accident, but no names....

So besides that i had a great day, went shopping and chloe was really good after i said it was fine for her to come in the car...

Was having a good day up to a half hour ago.......... I had just picked up the kids from school, and i was cruising along and next thing i knew a kid from our school ran out in front of my car, and he was a couple feet away from me hitting him, so i swerved and heard a bang. and thought i hit the gutter or the car behind me hit me, but no it was all fine......The silly boy still contiued runing to the footpath and wasnt watching......So i got out of the car and gave him a huge lecture, and he said sorry, and i said not as sorry as he is going to be when i call the principal as i thought he needed to know his message about using the school crossing isnt going through to some of the students.....Well i didnt get to speak to him and left a message with his receptionist, and she was not happy and said to me thankyou and hope that i feel better soon. as i was crying and so shook up....... Mick said that i was lucky as our roads are so slippery and i wasnt speeding.......So i find out tomorrow what action is being taken.......

As you all know i had 2 little boys in my care this weekend and they both had influenza.. Well this morning i woke and my head was thumping and the nose running like a tap.. But as usual i have to soldier on and cant rest, as the kids needed to go to school,. and chloe to playgroup... So i kept my distance from the other kids there today, and had lunch made for me, so that was yummy,. the carer had made hot potatoes  with bacon, cheese. lettuce and sour cream...
 Took the kids out of school early, and picked mick up from his mums and came home and took  2 panamax and went to sleep for 2 and half hours.... as mick had to go to work and of course as mums do we have to run the household... Cant wait to tomorrow as i can get some limsip... Booked the kids in thursday arvo to have their flu shots,. as after what i saw with those little boys, i dont want my kids to get it, and my doctor said yes defiently bring them in, as the flu is bad around the country at the moment......

So thats my day, and later im going to have a strong stiff drink,. and have a curl on the couch and watch my shows i think......

Have had a interesting day, and the oldest boy i have seems to be feeling better, but the little one is still sick poor little man... Spoke to thier mum today and she said it was very reassuring knowing that her boys are in good care and she really appreciates what we do.. i said we are only to happy to help and her boys are gorgeous...

my guys are doing ok, and i seemed to have picked up the virus so my nose is very runny now and have to get on to that very quickly as i cant be sick hehe...

Besides that, brodie and mick went to the melbourne victory vs adelaide united soccer match at aurora stadium and they said it was a very good match....

Thats my sunday and am heading soon to have corn silverside, and vegies, and apple strudel with vanilla icecream ...yummo

What a day ive had.. We have to little boys this weekend, and they both have influensa..So one of them has a ear infection and is on antibotics and the other one i had mick take to the doctors and theres nothing he can have besides panadol and lots of fluid.. They are so good...

So chloe is having a ball and caitlyn doesnt want to come home hehe, as she is having to much fun sleeping over at her aunts tonight..

brodie has escaped to his nans, so we are just down to 3 kiddies tonight plus 1 hubbie.

So hopefully the boys feel better soon, as their mum has pneumonia and wants them back home monday.....

so thats my saturday gone, might have a stiff drink after they are all in bed lol..

Ok what a week i have had this week...First you all know how i was with brodie and his achievement for his school..Well today i took chloe to school/playgroup and the kinda teacher there was asking parents would we like home visits soon as our children start school nest year, now in the mainland your kinda is pre school... So any way i said sure and the teacher said as much as she would love to visit, chloe doesnt need a visit...

As this is what chloe is able to do so far. ,monday she attends playgroup/ and reading program that is funded from the school, Tuesday morning she attends a early intervention program that teaches them to sit down and so various reading, writing and activities..Tuesday afternoons she goes to the school library and the children at the school read to her and she is allowed to borrow a book... Thursdays she attends pre school/day care and she does various activities,. and then she is at school fridays ...

So the teacher said with all that chloe does, there is no need for her to work with chloe, as chloe is a very clever girl. she can count to 20, and say her abc ..and she has just turned 4...So im so proud of her achievements..

Caitlyn is doing well at school this week as well, and has just learnt to do word pad writing as they all have a computer in their class, and have a lesson once a week..

Not bad for a public school....

What a crazy day i had today... I had to go to the school and help out packing all the pies and lamintons etc that we have just ordered through a pie drive..Well we had 20 pies left over, and 10 missing ones, so lucky the lady that did it last year turned up and said that her and my gf would take them back and have them replaced.. So 3 hours later and all was packed and only have to wait on a couple of pies as the bakery had ran out...

So then we all decided we buy takeaway for luinch,. and had to wait half hour as the guy said sorry he was slow he was tired and had a headache... so that was interesting..

Also a while ago i mentioned on here that my little sister didnt invite me to her wedding shower as she forgot.. Well tonight she calls and says dont panic or go off, i have sent wedding invites, and mine is on the way,....So that should be interesting as my family and i dont get on at all,. but i can be civil for her for one day... arghhhhhh its going to be hard lol..

So thats my day and ant one for a pie ....

I am so proud of brodie as today he represented his school for the state cross country at symmons plains in tassie, and he ran 2kms and came in 164 out of 185 kids in the race..

But what made me more proud was that one of his mates tripped a another kid to get in front, and instead of brodie running on,.he helped this kid that he knew as well up, now thats what i call good spotmanship.. So the day was nice and the school represented themselves so well and the principal took heaps of pics, so will be chasing him up for copies for sure...

So that was my day out, and then i had to go to the school after that and have a fundraising meeting as we are working in with the src to have school discos in a few weeks, so that should be heaps of fun as well...

Am still mad with telstra as they reckon now that my credit expired so i called the complaints and some one is in trouble as they were in the wrong, so hopefully my phone will be back on soon..

as most of you know i had mel stay with me on the weekend, and it was good to see her again.... Saturday night we had a few drinks and i had a ball..Was a bit stressful for her to get home,. but i bet she is happy to back at her place... me and my kids got to meet her boys and they were so sweet...

Have had some news on my girlfriend in melbourne, she was to stay in melbourne to she was able to walk. and the report we have she is doing well, and is cheered up a bit, and very talkative, so that was good to hear...

I have the rotten flu at the moment, but no rest for me, as its not allowed for mums, to be sick.... Hope i feel better soon as this really sux...

Mel and I this weekend when she came to visit us.

well as most of you know i have mel staying with us this weekend. So last night she turned up at 7.30 and we chatted about everything and anything....She also got to catch up with some minti mums on msn so that was good for some haha... So we had a casual night..My chloe absolutely adores mel and mel keeps telling her she taking her home, and chloe is like yay..

So tonight we going to have a few drinks and have a good time , and annoy the crap out of poor mick lol....

so i better get of this and get motivated as mel has gone to town to meet one of her frends and i have the house to my self,  so i can get teh house down..

Ok will probaly chat to some of you tonight..

today was very crazy for me... Im on the fundraising commitee and we have just ran  a pie drive and today was the day where we took all the orders and money in...So here was me and my girlfriend trying to work out the forms and money with a another lady helping, and the other ldy had us in a panic, as she didnt know how to add up, and one stage we were $82.50 out of pocket..so this lady she helped for a while and then left, so once she was gone, vicki and i decided to look over the forms and money and it turned out good..So the school raised $1745.50. out of that we get to chhose some pe equipment, and get $427.50 in cash so thats a bonus for our school as its such a small school.. So my morning was a bit crazy as i was running back and forth from school to home as chloe isnt well still, but she slept the whole time i was away, so that was good for her..

The afternoon i got stuck into my house. as mel is coming to stay with us for the weekend, so we are all excited and as i write this, she is heading my way.... yay...

So thats me for friday, and no drinks tonight, am going to wait for tomorrow night....

Also have news on my gf that she is still in melbourne as they dont want tomove her as yet, and thats all i know at this stage....

Hope you all have a great weekend....

well it was  a little bit quiet.. Caitlyn  returned to school, but was a bit teary her teacher said for about 5 minutes as she is scared that im going away as mick and i are fighting at the  moment. so have to curb that very quickly and reassure her its all good, and if i go away i take her with me just for a little break... So anyway chloe is still not well, so she missed her last day at playgroup as the school are runnung one as of next week and i dont want her to be doing to many, and the school one is more important...Brodie is settling back into school after his long break and next week he will be representing his school in the tasmania school cross country, so thats quiet exciting...

I attended a meeting today to look at our school uniforms as they as old as the school, so we have decided to introduse a new uniform and pan out the old, and the families that struggle get assistance from the government,.... So that should work out for all...

So that was my day and i will be having  a special visitor this weekend, Mel will be coming to stay , so thats really exciting....

Well thats my day and hope chloe feels better soon..

well today was very interesting as you read before had issues with teslstra;.. Well thats not all, caitlyn was home sick with gastro and then tonite chloe had it, so grossed out, so heres my house saniterised big time...

so have being doing that most of the day... So it was good in one way as i  got to look at what was available with the upcoming toy sales hehe...

So havnt heard no more on my girlfriend, so most likely know more tomorrow, and hopefully my girls will be better as well..

just wanted to let the ones that have my mobile number- please dint trying to contact me as telstra have had issues with some customers and our recharge being vertified.. so have no mobile to the end of the week... So im so peeved as now i have to contact work, school, and all the other places that i go too and tell them grrrrrrrrrrrrr....

just wanted to let you all know that my girlfriend that was in the car accident,. is being flown to melbourne tomorrow morning as her neck has being in a brace, and the hospital/surgeons aint confident enough to operate here, so she will be better hands in melbourne,. will know how she got on at the end of the week.. Her hubby has being released from hospital and has gone home to their boys.. Just wanted to say a huge thank you to all my minti friends for the support and friendship, especially when i have logged into msn, and needed a friend to chat to...

Loves ya all xxxxxx cazza

Tonight i did the right thing and let one of my best friends know what was happeniing on minti and she is devasted and is thinking of leaving, now she would be at home crying her heart out as there has being stuff said about her on here and its not true as i chat to her every day, now i feel that if she goes and i know how much she loves minti and has written the best articles, that it wont be the same around here without her....

Now i feel that if she goes a lot of us might follow , so i love minti as i have always said and have also mentioned it earlier tonite in a previous blog, but i dont know how much more i can deal with this all happening , as i have a lot to deal with in my life at the moment...

So please if anyone knows who im talking about, please let her know that  she cant go and we love her dearly ...

And hope that all this bitching will stop soon and we need to focus on what minti is all about...

Well today was really full on as we tried to clean up after 5 kids, i really take my hat off to the mums that have more then 3 kiddies... Now i love doing what i do, and the boys we had this weekend were gorgeous, but i couldnt do it full term, as i would get attached....

I also want to add in here that i read today that a valued mum was thinking of leaving minti over a few issues among memebers on msn, and what to add that i know that msn might get bitchy.. But i have to say that i havent being in any bitch group chats, and that if there was one on well thats their way and it isnt on minti- so maybe a chat room on here we have being asking for isnt such a great idea haha..

and just want everyone to know that i have always valued and  respect all the mums that have being on my msn list, now some of u may think back to when i stuck up for one of my closest friends, and now she has left minti,  and that was really hard for me... I often go to msn before minti and ask  a few of them is it save to come on minti, as i dont want to be dragged into a controversial or read a controversial comment or advise, and the ones that i ask have never once pulled me into a full on bitching session- so i must be in the wrong group chat on msn haha...  and thats interesting, but what i do get asked is to look at  other peoples advise for my opiion and its just noty teh top members, its majority of the minti mums and it doesnt bother me as it means that they value my comments,. now for some that may be too much, but im easy going and love coming on to minti at times... So please if you are considering leaving dont as most advise doesnt just reach the ones on msn, it reaches 1000 of people wordwide.....,  So thats what i feel and i hope that no one gets upset over this, as it hurt me as well writing this , as i enjoy both msn and minti.....

Any way back to my day and got loads of washing to catch up on, and settled the boys/ the girls down early, and the boys go home tomorrow so that will be good for them....

Well the weekends over and i find out more tomorrow on how my friend is doing in hospital and hope this week is better then last week...

ok thats me for the weekend. and keep that advise coming through and lets  help each other get minti back where it was before, and leave msn on the other page..,.