My 2 lovely children, 12 and 10, fight and argue what seems like 80% of the time from the minute they walk in the door. They both start it, although I must say my son is the worst offender for initiating most of the fights. Most times I just tell them to sort out their own problems. But seriously, I feel sometimes like jumping in the car with my bub, and going for a drive just to get away from the constant "Mum..Jordan wont leave me alone", or "Mum...tell her to play ball with me", or whatever.  I try conflict resolution but sometimes I may as well be talking another language. They are testing me, but also pushing my buttons. And when I have PMT..well...WATCH OUT!   Arrrggghh!!!!!!!!