Well this is jsut what I needed right now if I have not had enough trouble with my eldest right now then my Uncle's girlfriend rings and tells mum she wants his money and he says she can have it......calls mum a liar etcc....... Uncle Kenny is in a nursing home in Adelaide he had a stroke and he can never be released from there because he is not able to take care of himself......Well his girlfirend is only seeing him once a fortnight and expects my mum to give her any money of Uncle Ken's because she needs it..... His pension just pays for the nursing home he is in......Mum has jsut asked me to go with her...... He needs family around him not jsut to lay in a nursing home waiting to die.....mum wants to move him up to queensland so we can all go see him......His girlfriend is seeing another guy now and not telling him I think maybe she should.......I think he stays in SA for her......I don't know......So I will have to put some things into action to organise someone for the kids to help Ken and I might pack up Aidan and send him over to Debs she can handle him hehehe...... Oh man I better go and find a flight to get down there and sort something out with my mum and dad..... someone has to saty home with Nanna see she lives with my mum now and she is in her 90s and can't be really left alone......geez so much to do.........