Hmmm hi all I know it has been awhile since I have blogged....This last couple of weeks have been hard for me...Had a few family problems and a few with AIdan too...Which is really nothing out of the usual...Well Yesterday was a hard day again for Aidan and you know what I really do not know why...He has gone back on his medication and he has been back to school so I really can not see why it would be a problem but he is not coping with day to day life now....I am struggling with this everyday as I do not seem to know what he is going to do or which way he is going to turn.....Oh I have had some great news but just to put a bit of light in the blog....Tiana has been chosen to have a scholarship for weight lifting....They say she has great potential and has been offered a scholarship to do this and have a private trainer and all....I am over the moon about this for her....Her life has just seemed to fall into place for her...She got her first mark over a c this term ever in her entire school life and she has made alot of friends at high school and she is now excelling with sporting things....All these years of struggling and fighting with schools has finally paid off I think even her counsellor seems to think it is time for her to be out on her own without her woo hoo... I am soooo Proud.......I am kind of falling in between feelings of being proud and worrying alot about Aidan and his mental stability and Ken is taking his medical discharge from the army pretty badly....We will get through it all but We all do and we all have each other...We do have a very close relationship all of us really...In times of need in the family we all seem to bond together no matter who is not liking who between the kids they are always there for each other...I love my family so much...The kids mum has been causeing trouble again for me...She rang yesterday after probably about 7 or 8 weeks and demanded she have access to her kids haha she wont even tell me where she lives or who with so why would I let her have them on access...The court orders state that she has to give us this info within 24 hours of her moving etc....I still have no details from her...It so annoys me with her that she feels that because she gave birth to them she has all the rights in the world....If she did then the Judge would not have taken the kids from her and given us custody would he? The kids dad is on a trip of changing religions to buddism(not sure if that is how you spell it) but I need to look into it a bit better....He was roman catholic and was always picking and yelling and this last time the kids said it was sooo peaceful and said that he has learnt alot about peace within himself since he has been following his buddist faith....So I spose what harm can it do if it makes the kids lives a little easier on access....If they are less stressed and happy when they come home I am happy tooo...Well I better go have to take Aidan to his work experience today and get a few things for Nikkis birthday on Saturday....I want to pick up something small for Blackwidowkates birthday tomorrow too...So if your hanging around her homepage don't forget to pop in and say happy birthday to her tomorrow hehe....
Cheers
Angie