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Hey,

Well what a stressful weekend i have had :( Friday Ashton was awake from 4pm till 7am saturday morning. Its 12.30am at the moment and he is asleep thank god, i really do hope he gets out of this shitty routine. During the day he sleeps in the lounge with all teh curtains open and there is lots of noise. At night if im still up his still in the lounge but its dark and the tv is on really really low.

Im not on good terms with Goran at the moment but i wont get into it. Ive cried and stressed over it enough and i just want to get over it but i will make sure he knows how much of a cruel person he is (dnt worry he didnt cheat on me)

I had my 10 yr old neice over last night, my sister wasnt going to the party today so i thought id take  my neice. It wasnt fair on the twins but i cudnt fit them in. I didnt get to sleep till 8am and i was up again at 10.30am. I had a 2hr sleep before and it really helped. Went to the party today, it was for one of my cousins daughters who turned 5. I couldnt even eat, Goran made me feel sick lol..It was at a lake and it was so frikken freezin!! Thankgod Ashtonw as rugged up good, on top of all his tummy pain issues a cold id the last thing i need.

Tomorrow i have to go the bank and stuff around with my bank accounts. Id opened a second account for the baby money to go into until Ashtons account is open but now i have to go in there and show all this proof to get his account open and the money in there grrrr!!!

Well cant think of anything else to say besides Goran sucks hahahaha..And at the moment Ashton is the only thing keeping me Going, Dont worry im not depreesed, just angry and stressed!

Heres a close up pic of ashton my little tanned man lol  today (5weeks and 1 day old)

Dannii xxo

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mum2four
August 2008 | mum2four
Re: hello

HI Dannii,Wow you are doing a great job with lil Ashton and so cute.I dont know what is happening with you and Goran ,but I have told you about my 18 yr step daughter her bub is now 5 months old and her and her partner have parted.Seemed that fatherhood not really for him ,he continued to go out drinking and clubbing even after bub was born.He did also become violent with one of her female friends so not a nice man.

I hope that you and Goran can sort your problems out,and you are doing a great job.



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      mum2four
August 2008 | mum2four
Re: hello

I clicked a little too early lol

Take care and hugs Cham



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anniebabe
August 2008 | anniebabe
Re: hello

hi dannii

he is beautiul and gorgeous  you have done a wondeful job as a mum. i can tell by how healthhy ashton looks

i hope he gets into a routine so that you can have a little rest yourself.

you and goran need to sit down and "talk". you have enough on your plate without  having another baby on your hands

cheers annie



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smashie
August 2008 | smashie
Re: hello

hey dannii chin up hun i now what you mean by the stubbournus lol stormei has a case of it also. as for goran i will kick his but from here to tomorrow for you if you want, most men dont realise how annoying a bub can get and lack of sleeping maes it twice as bad. you should hear me when i dont get sleep everyone cops the grunt of it. so chin up and the rest will follow in good time.



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ajv00
August 2008 | ajv00
Re: hello

Hey Dannii,

Ashton is soooo gorgeous!!!! 

What we did with our bubs was basically the same as you,  during the day we would put him down stairs with us and we would continue to do as we would always do.  TV on curtins up lots of light and some noise.  

At night we always had the same routine and still do of bath, dress in pj's and bottle then bed.  Always in the cot upstairs in his room.  Lights out hardly any noise at all. 

Just stick to your guns and it will soon pass.  When he wakes during the day try and keep him awake 10min longer b4 putting him down for the next nap the next day try and make it 15min etc.....     

It is hard and I hope you get some rest soon.   Also I hope that you and Goran can sort out what is going on between you two.

Take care - Angie



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nabutters
August 2008 | nabutters
Re: hello

i hope he starts getting into a routine for you soon danni, it is really hard sometimes to get them into one. Took me about 4 weeks with Myah as she thought day was night and night was day but before i knew it she was sleeping better, till now!!! Anyways, i think he is a real sweetie, he has lovely cheeks! LOL.... take care

naomi xx



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bubba76
August 2008 | bubba76
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Hi Danni,

Ashton is so cute, love his chubby cheeks. l hope he gets into a routine for you soon.

Do hope nothing is to bad between you and Goran, if you ever need someone l there for you to listern. My hubby has his days...

Apart from being cold and feeling sick, l hope you enjoyed your day.....

Hugs Heather xxoo



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toosh
August 2008 | toosh
Re: hello

He's so cute Dannii! I really hope his sleep routine happens for you soon - you can't survive on so little sleep for much longer!

As for Goran...I hope it works out.

Teshia xxoo



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      dannii17
August 2008 | dannii17
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Hey Teshia,

No ic ant survive much longer, not only do i not sleep but i dont even eat!! But my step dad yelled at me today cos he found out i havnt been eating and he said if you dont shit you die so i better eat lol

Goran, he can suck my big toe hahahaha, still not talking to the loser, he has alot to make up for, nnot just me, the baby too (if we sticka round)

Dannii xxo



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emmie
August 2008 | emmie
Re: hello

He is so cute honey i hope his sleeping routine gets into shape for you soon you need some rwest.

I do hope everything is ok with you and Goran. Hope it isnnt anything too seious.

I hope you had a nice time atthe partydespite it being so cold and Goran making you feel sick i hope he starts being nicver to you men can be so horible. I would give you barry but he wiill stress you out too.

Keep your chin up matey lovethe picture he just gets cuter and cuter xxxx



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      dannii17
August 2008 | dannii17
Re: hello

Hey Emz,

I hope he starts sleeping at night too, he has his big sleepw ay to early so from 11 pm he plays up and when he finally falls asleep its only for 30mins max, you can see he is tired but he just doesnt want to sleep. Antoher bad thing is he wont take his full bottle he takes little amounts here n there which is annoying.

Goran, well im still not talking to him.I was readyt o leave today but my muma nd step dad were both at work, if they had of heard there fones theyw ud have cum got me n ashton. Only reason im still here is cos Goran has been in bed snce 3pm its now 12am.

Hopefully it all stops soon or ill be taking on motherhood alone, i pretty much am now anyway.

Dannii xxo



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           emmie
August 2008 | emmie
Re: hello

aww honey i hope things get better for you guys soon he's been in bed since 3pm maybe he sghould lt YOU have a nap you need it more thinking of you matey xxxx



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pauline27
August 2008 | pauline27
Re: hello

He is so lovely and looks so peaceful, I love his chubby cheeksyoo

Love Pauline



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      dannii17
August 2008 | dannii17
Re: hello

Thankyou, Yes he does look peaceful in this photo, when his awake he is a big sook lol...I love his chubby cheeks too, i think chubby cheeks make a cute baby lol

Dannii xxo



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ellamia
August 2008 | ellamia
Re: hello

Hey Dannii

You have to keep him awake towards around 3pm in arvo till its bedtime later otherwise he is not going to get in a routine he has his nights and days mixed up. We used to take off the nappy, put on the nappy, take off the clothes, put on the clothes, anything to keep them awake to reverse this. It worked. From 4 weeks of age both my two have slept through the night. I hope this helps. As for Goran ill swap u my hubby LOL. He will be a great one for you to have LOL.

Take care

Love Kell

xoxoox



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      dannii17
August 2008 | dannii17
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Hey Kell,

Thanks heaps for tips ill defiently try strating tomorrow. Its just that in the arvo he is a deep sleeper, youc an yell and he'll still sleep. I do bath him everynight at 8pm and i use bedtime bath to see if it will help but it doesnt. I dont mind not sleeping through the hwole night but a few hours sure would be nice!!

I owuldnt be so cruel to swap you, Goran is no help at all!! It will just give you another child!!

Dannii xxo



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           ellamia
August 2008 | ellamia
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Hey Dannii

Definatly give it a go. You have to be a little mean the them and keep them awake. Its frustrating and tiring. But by a week he should be right. It was really hard work hey.

As for Goran I have Shannon like that. HAHA. Shannon bearly helps out. He says he does only computer shit lol. I guess he makes the money. I get sick of my day seriously. SAME CRAP EVERY DAY!!!! GRRRRRRRRR

Love Kell

xoxo



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cathbusymum
August 2008 | cathbusymum
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 Hi Dannii,

Little tanned man LOL So cute, even if he's a cranky pants and won;t sleep LOL He also sounds like a stubborn 'lil fella but stick to ya guns with the routine and he'll come round in the end. Tough waiting I know!

 Goz better get his act together or I'll have to come down there and give him a verbal. You know I'm always here, only a phone or send button away, even in the late hours. 

Love ya,

Cath xxooxx



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      dannii17
August 2008 | dannii17
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Hey Cath,

Yeh his mi little tanned man.. He is pretty dark skinned, his face is lighter then the rest of his body tho, i wonder if it will chnage in summer???

He is very stubborn, its 2am now and ive left him on his own and he has shut up lol..maybe just needed to be on his own. Its so draining cos i try everything,change,feed,burp,massage, just cuddle him but no still screams. I have to go to the doctors, maybe there is something wrong that i cant see ???

Plenty of ppl have told Goran to smarten up or he'll lose everthing but it goes through one ear and out the other.. Can see who Ashton got his stubbornus (if thats a word lol) from !!

Its seriously like i have to babies :(

Dannii xxo



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winja
August 2008 | winja
Re: hello

goran does indeed suck right now! hope he pulls his socks up chook!

ashton is the best! hes so cute and the sleeping crapola will pass soon.

xxxnat



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      dannii17
August 2008 | dannii17
Re: hello

Hey Nat,

So do I, Well he would wanna or else he will have no-one11

Yeah cute when his sleeping cos when his awake he is a little sook lol.. Cant wait for his shitty routine to go away!!, it sucks big time.

Dannii xxo



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